Thank you Alice I will give you all the occasional moan sometimes,
unfortunately I think its past sorting, as although I do feel bad he dosen't see my dcs it was getting to the stage when I told him things he shouldn't do or say around them he would say to my mum who does she think she is telling me what to do
He also dosen't feel he has done anything wrong and if I can't discuss anything with him because if he heard the truth it would really hurt his feelings more (listen to me like he cares about my feelings)
He threw my brother out of the house falls out with him all the time, calls him aal the names under the sun, even to complete strangers, but my brother lets him away with it so he is shocked that I stood up to him
I have only ever fell out with him once before, when he had a row with someone at my wedding, when I came home from my honeymoon I told him he had no right to behave like that and it should have been the happiest day of his life and he just stormed out, I had to go up to visit them 3 weeks later and it wasn't mentioned we just carried on like norm, so because I said I wouldn't be back he was shocked
So far he has had a tantrum at
my graduation
my wedding
when dd1 was born
at her christening(moody)
at ds christening(moody)
a couple of halloween parties
his 59th B'day
and then finally in hosp when dd2 was born
and my mother wonders why he would not be welcome at dds communion
rant over
to see what I did today check out new thread