Ruby Accept any offer of free councelling. Someone just might get it right for you. I always thought that I was too insignificant/was coping/someone else will have it worse than me. My last counsellor actually got to the root of my problem and aside for the momentary wobble, I haven't looked back and head wise I am so much better.
TMH they say pasta should be cooked in water as salty as the medditterainian sea. (or so says Nigella) but 10g sounds way too salty. Put just a touch in, most drains off with the water anyway.
Good luck at the Docs and sympathies about a relative who never seems to be there when you need em (coz I have one too)
Further Done
Made Ed's bed and draw his curtains
Paint front door in front room
Tidy away
Put front room back together
Make lunch
Load DW and run
I hate decorating with oil based paints, it's just such a total hassle, the pong, the white spirit stinks, the clean up is a nightmare and nothing washes out [grrrh] No wonder I've procrastinated about it for years.
TO DO
Clear hot spot in front room
Collect Ed
Give him his tea
Reading and writing practice
Then I will make Crazy Double choc chip cookies (or Crazy Choc Choc Chip Cookies for alliterative purposes 0
Better put that hot spot out as it's becoming a blaze