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Darkness drawing in, Fledgling flying through November

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HillsBesideTheSea · 31/10/2021 12:13

So another month another thread.

first things first: Naughty corner is over there ----> stocked with comfy chairs, blankies, cupboard of comfort food of your desire, something strong if you require and a nice warming fire.

Right next up the formalities.
We loosely follow the fly lady system. It does work if you follow it, but many of us have found that it works better if you combine it with an additional decluttering system to speed up that process. Flylady is more of a maintence system and build routines to prevent system

This is a loooooong running thread. We seem clicky but welcome new blood to the brood, and you will soon catch up. We don't leave fledglings behind. But also we would like to remind you that perfectionism and comparison can be thieves of joy.

This year has been hard, this winter looks like it will also be hard. So remember to be kind to yourselves. We are all juggling a lot. The house, work, kids, animals, partners, bills, being the family brain. This thread is here to support. So if it looks like sometimes we chat more than we fly, then that is ok. Life is more than living in a show home, and real life is chaotic, messy and loud and that is just what it is.

So welcome to November's thread

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Stilllivinginazoo · 15/11/2021 07:32

Tada
Kitchen
Wipe windows
Clean cupboard fronts
Empty bottom cupboard
Build IKEA storage shelf
Rearrange cupboard
Breakfasts and pack ups

Find lil zoo a paperclip as only short sleeve top has no button at neck so folded sides up and clip.once tie in place looks fine!(jab today as refusing wear 3/4 as "not comfy" rolling sleeve up so would have take arm out and won't do that in front of others...)

Bathroom
Windows and mirror cleaned
Tiling wiped
Bath skirt and radiator wiped
S+s

Woken D's

Now to chivvy them all so girls leave 745...

HillsBesideTheSea · 15/11/2021 07:46

Morning.

Some mornings you have to hit the road running, but why does it have to hurt so much?

ta da
2nd load of washing on
wash up jars, lids and water bottles
get water bottles into milton to sterilise
move stuff for teen so he can be up
deal with a 7:30am delivery (warn him as he said he would be likely to be back that if he gets no answer before 9am we are probably asleep)
put grill pans into soak
sort next load
beat the owl

Just sitting down to eat breakfast and then will get dressed and get on.

Today is brought to you by the words "dont want to"

And with that today is:

Home bluergh day
launch pad

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THATlittleBANGER · 15/11/2021 08:04

Lurgy child is up, looking abit brighter 🤞

Ta da

💥 ironed uniform for dcs 2 and 4
💥 dcs all up fed dressed
💥 dryer on
💥 washer on
💥 bin out
💥 dw empty
💥 dw reloaded and on

HillsBesideTheSea · 15/11/2021 08:56

Fingers crossed for poorly child That

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SingToTheSky · 15/11/2021 09:11

Aw not at all hazel teens can be arses and it’s nice to have the solidarity 😁🥰 they can be lovely too mind. DS (technically not a teen yet so there’s still plenty of time for teen horrors!) was an absolute treasure yesterday, kept Cagletini entertained while I was sorting work/tutoring stuff and getting ready to go to DD1’s dance show (which was lovely) - AND when I came back down he’d tidied the living room really nicely! 😍

That you’re doing brilliantly on Vinted! Now that the show chaos is over I really need to get going on selling stuff locally.

Hope the people stop being annoying hills

Just at the stopover station with a hot chocolate - I got an earlier train for the main leg of the journey as I didn’t want to risk a 3 minute platform change. Nice journey so far despite the early start - not super cold once I was up and moving, and frankly it’s the most peace and quiet I’ve had in weeks 🤣

SingToTheSky · 15/11/2021 09:20

I have had the odd bit of time to myself here and there tbf - but I just realised what made this time feel more solitary. It’s the fact that I couldn’t possibly be doing anything else! If I’m hiding upstairs or even the other day when I went to the pub for a quiet (soft) drink - I am still thinking of what else I should be doing or how long I should stay for. But this morning I have no choice but to sit on a nice quiet train with a puzzle book 😁😁😁

Stilllivinginazoo · 15/11/2021 09:26

Hope it all goes well sing🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀

IWillWearThatGlitteryWoolly · 15/11/2021 10:05

That sounds like a lovely period of solitude, Sing. Before the Pandemic, I used to get to the dentist / doctor's half an hour early for the same reason 😂.

Glad the poorly Thatlet is perkier, That. Sorry the baby had you up early though.

Urgh to lack of sleep zoo. Hope you can get a nap later. I woke up at 3, realised I'd never put the DW on, muttered "bollocks" loud enough for DH to ask if I was alright, and went to sleep again 😁.

Hazel I don't think you were out of line. Teenagers can be selfish pricks at times, it's how they separate from the family and work out their individual identities. DSs#1 and #2 are quite nice people now 🤣 (although DS1's comment the other day about him wanting us to leave him alone "to have agency" while still paying him enough money per month to cover his rent did make me 🤔🤨. I guess self-awareness comes with a full time job!).

Yup just keeping going is enough.

Anyway. It's apparently Monday. Hills hope the people cleared off.
Ta da
❤️ Up, washed, dressed, actual makeup (gasp)
🧡 Opened windows, pulled back bed, S&S
💛 DH put the DW on 😳
💚 Cleared kitchen calendar about to start planning when Maths Homework reared its head. Now upstairs doing areas of compound shapes with DS3.

To do:
🍂 Weekly brain dump and planning
🍁 Email DT teachers to remind her DS3 has SpLD that make her subject harder for him
🍁 Christmas Budget Meeting with DH at 11. Yes, I have had to put it in his diary 🤦
🍂 Physio on my neck at 12.30
🍂 Call in at DS2's on the way back and force him to get on with some boring paperwork (some things never change) 😁
🍁 Writing. I really have to finish this report for Christmas.
🍂 Chicken wrapped in bacon for tea

🍒👋 to you all, hope no-one is too chilly this morning.

Stilllivinginazoo · 15/11/2021 10:48

Wasn't too bad here willow the air felt cold but no Frist,and no breeze so school run saw me nice and toasty

Tada
Walk girls over reserve to school
Pick up things I forgot yesterday at shops(D's yogurts,rice pud and custard pots,applesand carrotsetc
Dump it all on dining table,put fridge stuff away
Wash in drier
More wash in

DS room
Get all washing into his baskets
Remind him make bed
Wipe surfaces u could see
Pop all dry facemasks in ziplock bag and take down mini airers
Sweep floor

Girls room of doom
Make beds
Wipe surfaces I can see
Find floor
Triage washing to bins,rubbish to binbag,recycling to recycling bag
Empty bin
Sweep floor
Change lightbulb as it died this morning
Clear furball off my bedroom floor
Sort thru laundry baskets for today's necessities

HillsBesideTheSea · 15/11/2021 11:08

Already had words with the people once. They are but I am justing... Hmm

ta da
Another load of washing
mostly clear the dining room table
figure out how to rearrange the furniture in 2 rooms so ready for next phase building work
wash up the grill pans except the one i just remembered is still in the oven
sort out some prep for some other bits and bobs which will be this evenings project
Sterilise 2nd batch of water bottles and lids
try really hard to not shout at the people
deal with teen who has had a few issues getting to school and wasn't sure how to sort it out reminder on your phone sweetie Hmm
be grateful although slightly acidic when a person the one who has been driving me crazy this morning said they were just going out for a bit.
hang up the do not tumble dry stuff.
find another load of washing
Consider if there is enough motivation to tackle the tupperwear pile of doom...
Prep table for above job
sort through a brc and reduce contents by 3/4
Suck it up and realise the good knee is currently the bad knee and take pain killers whilst being grateful back is a lot happier

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Stilllivinginazoo · 15/11/2021 11:32

hills you are a stronger woman than I if you can tackle the Tupperware pile of doom!

I put a plastic bag on my hand and retrieved what was I think a plastic bag containing yellowing ham,slightly furry

HillsBesideTheSea · 15/11/2021 12:05

There are 3 laundry baskets of the damn stuff and I am sick of tripping over it Zoo Blush Hmm

I need to give the people access to the kitchen for lunch. So need to plan for that around 1pm

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Stilllivinginazoo · 15/11/2021 13:27

Disinfect fetid area
Tidy snack corner of dining table-adding supplies and tidying it all up,moving unopened cracker boxes to cupboard etc
Lunch
More laundry rotation

I need a quick 20 minute snooze as I'm on my knees tired now(but longer may stop me sleeping later on)

HillsBesideTheSea · 15/11/2021 14:03

the people are being peopley. Get out of my work space so i can get the stuff you need me to get done because you booked building work to be done before we were anywhere close to being ready for it to be done.

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HillsBesideTheSea · 15/11/2021 15:52

Also ta da
fish tank clean out
go through electrical components removed from ds' tank
move books off bookcase
move bookcase
put books back on bookcase
water plants
tip tupperware onto table ready for sorting
move some boxes of stuff for the tip out of the way
LMS
3rd batch of water bottles being sterilised
drink more coffee than is wise or healthy
set up for making 4 batches of bread something so no longer tripping over the bag of bread flour
sort through a BRC
carry a basket of laundry and random stuff up to my room for putting away
god knows what load of laundry on now
wash up the gluten free pots ready for the cupboard to be cleaned for them to go away
sigh when remembering there was an explosion of coacoa powder in the gluten free cupboard that hasnt been dealt with yet
consider plan for moving plants for building work
realise have lost hearing in one ear
stomp about the house as much as is possible whilst knee not weight baring
delegate some potato peeling so can be blanched later
mutter dark dark words about peopley people.

Right break over, better get back to it.

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SingToTheSky · 15/11/2021 16:15

Finally home (event was better attended than we thought so overran a bit, and then the return train times didn’t work in my favour) and straight into jammies 🤣 I’m now finally eating something and being shown DS’ new replica of Spongebob’s town on Minecraft 🤣

Unfortunately DD1 hurt her hand at school so DH is off to meet her at the UTC.

po3.1
❗️Pay for tomorrow’s therapy
❗️Message pupil’s parent about maths lesson, and DD1’s dance teacher about today
❗️Book parents evening (just a form tutor meeting) online

Stilllivinginazoo · 15/11/2021 17:17

hills you are doing great lovely
Sing glad day went well hope DD hands ok
Lil zoo has been jabbed(I hope as didn't bring home any paperwork"it's in my locker")she's now in PJ's in bed with large bag fangtastics and chilled fruit water listening to music
Dd2 was highly stressed after-school.as bf left Thursday,first day in without her today.other "friends" were being a bit too full on with each other/ignore her so kept out their way.has had barrage snaps saying if you got a problem with us say so..I can't be doing with drama where this is none and these two are queen extraordinaires...we walk over nature reserve and watch sunset as we did so
She's now in shower and a quick 10 minute co op snack pizza almost ready as snack(we eat at 8 once lil zoo and D's are done)
I found half dining table(putting away stuff/finding homes for things) and wash living room floor on hands and knees so it looks like there is some semblence humans live here not fetid animals!
More washing done,dry,fold,put away etc- D's bedding currently in drier,another load his clothes still needs doing tonight

Other than that I feeding everyone and that is all

HillsBesideTheSea · 15/11/2021 18:06

I had a bonfire and burnt a load of paperwork. It was rather cathartic - except that moment when i threw a load onto the fire and saw a bank statement nought i could do by that point. I just need to double check everything before i do the next burn run

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HillsBesideTheSea · 15/11/2021 18:08

Zoo why is it teens love drama? Hope dd2 has a good evening.

I should probably go cook tea now that i have cleaned up after the bonfire. There is soooo much more left to do today. And i have an early start tomo which i am not looking forwards to.

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Mc3209 · 15/11/2021 20:31

First day back at work. No flying done whatsoever. I need to find a new routine that fits in with it. Everyone was looking at me like I have two heads when I told them I'm back full time. It's not that unusual, I don't think.

YesTaDas:
🎉Fishtanks sorted
🎉Plants watered
🎉All bags cleaned out and organised, like my handbag, nursery bag etc.

HillsBesideTheSea · 15/11/2021 21:43

Star for MC because that is going to be one of the biggest achievements on the thread today. Well done lovely. Be kind to yourself as you adjust to the new routine.

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brambleon · 15/11/2021 23:47

DH is not budging and won’t put all the decs up but he has allowed a tree in the DC’s room😆😆.
zoo we managed a walk by the beach. I was VERY grateful for it🥳. Sorrry about your DC’s dad being shit and the lack of sleep🙁
wooly thank you for the Tixylix recommendation I got DH to buy some on the way home🤞🏻it means we get a better nights sleep. Wonderful news about your heart❤️.
sing his nursery said there were quite a few kids off with ear infections. And a friend of mine has a really bad one too. Weird that there’s so many atm. I’m glad your day went so well. I hope your DD’s hand is ok
that ah I’m glad DC seems brighter today!
hills sorry about the people😡
mc well done at your first day back!! Take it easy and give it time to get into a new routine🌟🌟
ta da
Normal morning routine stuff
Cycled to nursery to drop DD off (DS still not well enough)
Hand washed underwear
Top up shop done on way home
Home bleugh (love that you guys call it this😂)
Flipped DC’s mattresses changed bedding etc
Prepped dinner
Cycled back to collect DD
Went to park for walk with DC
Online shop for triple buggy/buggy board
Christmas gift list sorted
DM came over for her bday as I was cooking her a meal
Kids bedroom decs put up
Bathroom inventory
Massive panic as today is 1 month until due date and still have no name and still have to get a car seat,buggy etc😱😱
Chilling now catching up with new episode of succession

brambleon · 15/11/2021 23:47

Forgot pic of DC’s tree

Darkness drawing in, Fledgling flying through November
SingToTheSky · 16/11/2021 00:00

Oh wow mc big step! Congratulations 😍 other than the surprised looks, was it nice to be back?

Love the tree bramble! I would’ve loved to buy a new tree today as there were some beautiful ones where we had the work event, but 1. Not so practical to drag back on the train and 2. Holy luxury pricing Batman!!! 🤣

Anyway, have sorted the admin things I was procrastinating over, and I’m now just staying up to get tesco Christmas delivery slots. Also TBH still full of adrenaline from today - just such a positive experience both for me as the newbie (felt utterly welcomed as part of the team, and it didn’t go unnoticed that I did the role well!) and in terms of what we achieved by running the event. I’m excited for my therapy appt tomorrow afternoon because I can’t wait to tell her how many changes I’ve made since we last spoke in April!

DD1 didn’t get seen properly as the x-ray dept was closed 😬 short staffing I think as we’ve always been seen there before whatever time of day. She’s to go back at 9am although apparently the Dr said it’s just a precaution really. Tomorrow is absolute chaos - I’ll be chairing the staff meeting as planned but with Cagletini nearby (she’s got DS’ cold/cough now), and a friend has agreed to take DS to his chemistry lesson as it’s too late to cancel now. She will have her DS with her and then she is dropping them both here for a bit. Thank goodness for awesome friends 🥰

Right, let’s see if tesco slots are available now…

SingToTheSky · 16/11/2021 00:03

Oh ugh they open at 6am not midnight. Damn.