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It's February - Fledglings are Flying (let's face it there's not much else to do).

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EventuallyDeleted · 31/01/2021 21:35

Here we are on the February 2021 Flylady thread - this time last year we were just starting to realise that the world was going to change in a big, big way. The Fledgling threads have pulled us all together and been a great source of comfort and distraction from it all.

This is a friendly housekeeping thread based (loosely... Extremely loosely sometimes 😂) on Flylady's housekeeping system . Welcome one and all, lurkers and long-time posters alike. Join in, hang out, but above all remember you are not behind, just jump in where you are.

The beauty of Flylady is that you don't have to flatten yourself trying to get your house clean to begin the routine upkeep; the first - and only - thing she asks you to do is to shine your kitchen sink. Routines - morning, afternoon and evening - are built gradually through her Baby Steps. To those, you add a Daily Focus and a weekly area to concentrate cleaning on. By the end of a month, your whole house will have had some attention. If you miss a bit, never mind, it'll come round next month!

For this month, I'll be posting daily links to the Launch Pad on the Flylady site so you can follow the daily focus and cleaning missions. You can sign up to receive emails from Flylady, but we suggest you don't - she sends masses, which will clog up your inbox and drive you insane into the bargain.

Because this thread has been running a while, there are some acronyms we use to make life easier
S&S - swish and swipe, round the bathroom to keep it acceptable daily
LOL - load of laundry. No, we don't find washing that funny!
Ned - born of a typo, a mythical being who assists with laundry mountains
The pointy stick ----> to motivate people
PO3 - Power of 3, if you can only face a few tasks. People often find groups of 3 tasks stack up over a day!
The Naughty Corner - where we head when it's all Too Much. Usually stocked with fresh coffee, fluffy throws, delicious snacks and the opportunity to sit quietly with friends or build a blanket fort and sulk in it if you need to.

During the Pandemic, we have also been using the KCC or Keep Calm Corner, invented by long-time poster / thread leader SC. This is a regular dose of memes, questions for discussion, random trivia etc to distract us from the rest of the world. All contributions welcome!

Remember - No Fledgling Left Behind!

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SingToTheSky · 22/02/2021 08:01

Morning all. I am feeling somewhat bleary eyed, really should’ve gone to sleep earlier 🤦🏽‍♀️

ta da so far
✊didn’t go back to sleep after my alarm went off. Still took 20mins to even sit up though!

Shower time after weigh in (which will NOT be good). DD1 got up and Cagletini is awake too so it’s all fine, DS is still asleep though.

SingToTheSky · 22/02/2021 08:03

Maybe not bad after all. Lost 2lb this week, somehow Hmm

EventuallyDeleted · 22/02/2021 09:42

Morning all, quick link drop coming up.

This week we are in the master bedroom and bathroom and the mission is to clear and clean the top of your dresser.

Monday is Home Blessing Day

Here is today's Flight Plan flight plan

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HillsBesideTheSea · 22/02/2021 09:47

I spend a few hours working on my room in a very distracted not focused way yesterday

I was up a couple of hours and then took a nap. Somehow i have managed to break part of a key of my laptop. Very odd. Hmm Time to move and focus I guess.

SingToTheSky · 22/02/2021 09:52

Ooh for once I’m ahead of the game, did a fair bit in the boudoir yesterday and earlier in the month... still a tip though.

Nursery run went really well - despite her late night Cagletini was up in plenty of time and didn’t stay grumpy long, she helped DH put away the tesco delivery too. Quite tired now so didn’t go via the park on the way home.

SingToTheSky · 22/02/2021 09:53

That’s annoying about the laptop key, is it replaceable?

Must have breakfast. There are croissants!

Dancingtomusic · 22/02/2021 09:59

Kids couldnt fall asleep last night so i am letting them hv a lie in...

Did do abit tidying in main bedroon yest. Lots more left. Still cant reach dressing table.

SingToTheSky · 22/02/2021 10:07

Good move dancing not much gain in being up and grumpy/not ready to learn!

DS is a bit lethargic and took a while to wake up but he’s quite good at making himself do his daily exercise to get more awake, so he’s done a good workout on Ringfit and then showered. I think he will be reluctant to get back into work/screen free days though.

Can’t believe it’s back to home ed today. I’m glad we are back in some kind of routine though with nursery etc, before half term it just felt so difficult and stressful. I’m going to try and be more persuasive about him getting the more difficult/concentratey work during the mornings now, as it’s so much harder with Cagletini home! Usually he wants to do the iPad stuff first so it might be helpful that he can’t use it for now.

I also put two board games on the plan for the week though - get some quality time in (DD1 hates most games so she won’t feel left out!), he’s been wanting to play forbidden island for ages and then I’ve chosen frenetic for a bit of literacy/periodic table stuff. Those will have to be morning tasks too so it won’t be all book work for him 😂

Then afternoons will have to be lunch (DD1 should actually join in now as she wants to eat healthier) and then putting phones away again to get on with more work.

HillsBesideTheSea · 22/02/2021 10:13

Probably not. But the Laptop is in the process of dying so it is just another part to that confirmation. Key is still usable but it has a sharp edge.

I think i missed a delivery this morning. Someone definitely rang the door bell. But I was asleep. I just know that the door bell get stuck because someone rang it and it has been randomly ringing in the way that it does. No idea who I missed, or what they wanted/tried to deliver. No card was left.

SingToTheSky · 22/02/2021 11:12

Oh no not the doorbell again (am I misremembering or was that causing trouble the other day?!). Maybe it was a cold caller? We’ve still had those even when we had one of the stickers that tell people not to 🤬 my favourite was the charity rep who when I pointed out said sign, tilted her head to one side in that patronising way and asked “can I ask WHY you have that sign?”

Because fuck off, that’s why 🙄 (no I wasn’t actually brave enough to say that). I do donate to charities obv just not from doorstepping.

ta da so far
✊up, teeth/shower/hair etc
✊weigh in
✊walked Cagletini to nursery
✊remembered to check if they still want the clothes, as I don’t want to swamp them (their reply “we always need spares”) - will rewash them later
✊persuaded DS to shower, sent DH to bed as he had a rough night
✊watched first 20min of Stonehenge documentary as it’s the place of the week
✊started physics workbook with DS

He’s so far not particularly entranced by physics 😂 but has requested a topic on genetic engineering 🤔

foxessocks · 22/02/2021 11:19

Morning all!

Not much flying here today and we are all having a day off school / work / nursery because it's dd birthday, she is 7 today! So today we have had pancakes for breakfast, present opening, built dd new toy cot and highchair for her dolls and opened various other new toys...we were going to go to the park but the weather isn't so good and dd now says she wants to stay at home to play.

I will hopefully be back later to properly catch up! I keep saying that Blush

SingToTheSky · 22/02/2021 11:24

Aww happy birthday to your biggest fox cub! 💖🎂 Hope she has a lovely day.

Right, DS has had a break so must tear him away from his phone and see if DH is awake (he doesn’t always sleep but just needs to rest his back and legs). Not sure if DS is accompanying him to collect Cagletini or if he’s staying home to do more work...

Also still need to sort the dishwasher aaaargh

Dancingtomusic · 22/02/2021 11:35

🎂 Happy Bitthday Foxcub! 🎂🍰🍰💖 hope you all have a great day!

Dancingtomusic · 22/02/2021 11:40

Sing- Ds never sleeps in so i was worried he was unwell. He seems his lovely smiley self now.

Hills- sorry the laptop key is broken!

Need Ipad advice please...is there a way to set the ipad to watch an episode of go jetters and then stop my kids from clicking onto internet of something else?

HazelNuttyElf · 22/02/2021 13:23

Happy birthday to your DD foxes sounds like a awesome day so far to me.
hills are you able to treat yourself to a new laptop? It sounds like it's time to replace it!
Sending good vibes to everyone starting back up HE with your DC today.
Right, best be getting ready to leave for work..
🍒👋

HazelNuttyElf · 22/02/2021 13:25

Oooh, well done on your weight loss Sing
hope I know that name, but can't think of what he sings 🤔 I'll have to look into it when I get a chance later.

SingToTheSky · 22/02/2021 13:32

Ooh! Coordinator for the volunteer role just emailed to arrange a chat this week. Scary. But exciting :)

Caglets eating lunch with Kpop playing instead of Netflix (as one episode invariably leads to more, so we end up not getting back to work in the afternoons), then it’s phones away to get on with stuff.

DS is talking DD1’s ear off about Stonehenge 😂

HillsBesideTheSea · 22/02/2021 13:45

I have been planning to replace for a while, it has been an issue of availability.

I am trying to sort some school work stuffs for the teen. My give a fuck is broken. On a plus note teen was tired after being a dumbass about sleep and managed to put his squash in his bowl this morning. His give a fuck is also broken. HmmGrin We make a right pair sometimes.

HillsBesideTheSea · 22/02/2021 13:45

Yay Sing! Good luck!

SingToTheSky · 22/02/2021 13:47

Errrr DS, the idea of the tray was that Cagletini could play while you got on with work 😂

Once she’s bored with playing just with those I’m adding some of those little plastic gems you can stick on things, so she can balance them on top and match the colours etc

It’s suspiciously quiet in here 😂

It's February - Fledglings are Flying (let's face it there's not much else to do).
SingToTheSky · 22/02/2021 13:47

Thanks hills :)

SingToTheSky · 22/02/2021 14:33

ta da continued
✊emptied DW
✊had proper lunch
✊read to DS
✊had a casual go at Frenetic game with DS (he found it quite tricky)
✊got DS to do maths and he chose the rest of his physics as his last bit of work
✊put LOL on of all the clothes we are donating to nursery (while feeling chuffed it was exactly one wash load)
✊put tray and toys out for Cagletini
✊reminded DD1 to eat something, leave her phone downstairs and finish today’s work so she’s doing that now (then after a proper break she can do some catch up work later)
✊got DS to move his laundry on
✊replied to volunteering email - said any day but Thursday
✊replied to therapist’s email to confirm a session in exactly a month. Sneaking in before (well deserved because she’s awesome) price increase. But also gives me enough time to sort out the training and hopefully find out more about my degree options as I am excited to tell her I’m actually making progress, as well as asking her thoughts as a psychologist on what psychology course I should do!

Feeling a bit achy now, which is annoying. DS has finished work for the day - this week’s plan is unambitious. Really need to load the DW! And take yesterday’s drying upstairs to put away later.

Stilllivinginazoo · 22/02/2021 15:33

sing cute photo
Foxes happy birthday foxcub wow,7already..where does the time go?
Hills sorry about the key and doorbell.fingers X it's not completely "one of those days"

The times leak ahead of tonight fills me with dread.scientists saying slow return of DC start couple youngest years Vs chuck them all back together(despite Wales,Scotland and NI taking the more cautious approach>

Lousy night sleep,add in gut playing up two days running.lots pain,shaky legs,reflux.bugger,bugger,bugger...was up 2-545 then scoutcat having stand off in street woke me 655 FFS

Tada
Check scoutcats in one piece
Feed cats
Wash on
Breakfasts
Remind dd2 promised fix loo roll tube gate as recycling day-almost filled a 5l pedal bin bag...
Cleaned living room windows
Wie sill
Wipe and defluf cat tree
Pull out sofa one
Clean behind it
Tidy under cat tree

halfhope · 22/02/2021 17:49

I'll have to get cracking on main bedroom. The carpet is shocking. Today did lots of work stuff but also online Tesco shop, plan and play a day early and office tidying. Was up early writing the ruddy report which has now gone. Laundry done, though some ironing awaits. It's feeling more like spring...

halfhope · 22/02/2021 17:50

😀 a very happy birthday to Foxes.

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