I tried to explain clearing & results day etc to dh last night - he’s completely clueless ... oh so do we need to go into school? Wow she might need to make phone calls! Should I book the day off work? (yeah cos me taking in an autistic 12yo & feral 10 & 8 yos while trying to stop Dd completely freaking out is ideal). He did actually go to university & got in via clearing because he utterly dossed all through 6th form but thinks he school must’ve arranged it all for him, his parents were oblivious & he doesn’t remember doing anything.
Oh & I also had ‘but exams are so much easier nowadays’ ... from a woman whose greatest academic achievement is a school handwriting certificate. Yeah, no, yawn, piss off MIL.
Then she complains that Dd1 isn’t close to her. My parents have their moments but they aren’t living in some wannabe 1930s fantasy world where everyone knew their place & men wore hats. (And my sister is only 24 so my parents have been through all this in recent memory & are helpful & sympathetic).
Arrrggggghhhhhhhhhh.
Found a place on clearing where she could get in with CC (they count the EPQ & the AS she already has towards their tariff points). She was at the gym at 6:30 this morning, going to register with another couple of employment agencies & I’m going to teach her how to use my sewing machine.
When I hear more about the maths stuff I’ll pass it on!