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Thinking of you this morning.

Chin up chicken.

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steve had a good night he slept until 5.30 when he woke for a wee, he has pads now as he can't get out of bed, he was very confused on waking but was asllep again in 10 mins. I have had a lovely bath to destress ready for today. Elliot is in the bath and the girls. Are in next, I wish the kids would use the shower but they are scared of the cubicle.
I will be back later after the witch MIL has been.

Glad Steve had a good night.
I hope the bath has empowered your mind to cope with the Wicked witch of the west.

Take care x

good morning OJ. Hope you all had a peaceful nights sleep, Hope the visits from inlaws go as well as can be expected..{{{hugs}}} x

Morning OJ, good luck with monster-in-law and entourage............. Take no crap and kick their arses out if they start. Hope the SW has a black belt !!

Have voodoo dolls at the ready !

Well, I guess it is good that she texted you ... some kind of contact ... or am I reading too much into that? All the best for this morning though, hope that the SW manages to keep her at bay

Morning, oj. I'm just off out but I'll take a peek later to see whether the old hag managed to remain civilized.

Hi oj - will MIL see the children? Nope, they'll be at school I suppose. When did she last see them?

Hope she ignores you for the duration of her visit.

If she's there longer than an hour stick your head around the door and say, You'd better get a move on MIL, don't they close the gates of Hell soon? You won't want to be locked out....

38 minutes until the visigoth appears....Good luck!

Hi OJ, thinking of you as always. Sending lots of love xxx

Standing by with Voodoo Doll of Monster-in-law if she is her usual bitchy self.

offers round dish of pins to MN-supporters

(Offers up 10 Hail Mary's & asks forgiveness in advance )

Hi Bossy, yes, I had the same idea earlier on the thread, got melted wax everywhere, DH thought his luck was in.

How u doing OJ ?

How was the old bag today? On her best behaviour for the SW?

Hope everything went ok with MIL today and that Steve has a 'good' day.

Thinking of you all, OJ.

too much to type just now but lots more abuse from MIL about me to the social worker, i heard bits of it and the SW told me the rest. i think the only good thing she said was that once steve is no longer here she won't have anything to do with me

Glad the sw was there, oj, and I thought as much about her future plans, no great loss huh

Just ignore the silly cow.

She will be the loser in the end.

Have a nice afternoon.

Oh OJ ......what a sad bitter old bitch lady she is going......she makes me so for you....you just don't need this shit

{{{hugs}}}

oj as the mum of an adult son ,i cannot see why this woman is being so evil towards you ,surely knowing her son will not be here for long she would want to spend as much time with him as possible ,which had she been a decent person may of been possible.As it is i dont know how you have coped with her amongst all the things you are coping with at the same time ,What a bitter evil excuse for a human being and a mum.You are a brick !

She is unbelievable.

I realy don't know what to say, except we will have to start a thread to find you and your dc a new and very nice nana.

She is the one losing out OJ - but you know that.

got a phonecall to see steves electric bed would come this morning, it came not long after MIL and her DH arrived, her DH went out to the car for a smoke and MIL stood in the garden, i was sorting out transfering steves bed over with the carer, the SW went out to the garden to speak to MIL, MIL tols SW that she was fed up of coming here and me being abusive to her SW told her that she had seen for herself how rude she had been when she arrived this morning.
MIL trooted out the well worn lines of "steve has never loved her" "steve only took the overdose because he was desparatly unhappy here with her"
"she has stopped me seeing my son and grandkids"
she went on for some time shouting, then her DH returned and MIL still continued the abuse about me.
steve was inside but the doors were open and he asked me "can they calm down" simon the carer went and shut the patio doors.
SW told me that mike has sent in a written complaint into the hospice his complaint mainly being that the hospice staff didn't keep him informed on what was happening, that was because he didn't ask.
now i know that MIL will have spoken to mike and that mike is due to vist toninght, deep joy
steve is fast asleep and will be for some time yet, i have some mates coming tonight thank goodness.