really I am absolutely sure that would not be what MAS meant, as she is one of the loveliest people I have ever had the pleasure to know, and she herself is living with a secondary diagnosis. I'm sure she would not have meant to cause any offence. Certainly no one would think you have failed, it is a disease not a competition :) in fact, what drew most of us to this thread is the fact that it's a place free from all the pink sparkly bollocks about fighting cancer and being brave and whatnot. Of course you should have a break, especially as your treatment seems to have been much more of an ordeal that usual, and waiting to see what happens is a perfectly reasonable option, I know other people with secondary diagnoses who are in a similar position.
zippy that's brilliant news, glad you're able to leave the thread, not that we don't live having you :)
Normal yay for Difflam!
weebarra sorry you're sore. Try and look at it as resting now so you can do things sooner. If you overdo it too much you might set your recovery back and then be incapacitated for longer :)
Zombie glad your friend will be there for your results appointment, and I hope the seroma will be gone for good this time!
speedy great news about the shrinkage!
mrs good luck for tomorrow! I hope you are in and out quickly
also hope that tonight's talk went well.
I hope everyone is having a good evening!