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Zombie needs her limbs holding

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Valpollicella · 05/03/2014 00:05

With Zombie's permission, I'm starting this thread

As many of you know she has had a hideous time through her treatment for cancer.

At the point where she was maybe out of the woods she has been asked to see her surgeon on Friday. Unexpectedly Sad

Can we all squeeze her together so her limbs don't go flailing
and do what we vipers do best?

I cannot bear the thought of her going through all the treatment s again after coming out of it before

Prayers, fingers crossing or whatever welcome right now

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ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 05/03/2014 11:51

Fingers crossed for Friday.
Thanks

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 05/03/2014 11:54

Squeezing zombie's hand. Brew

ipswichwitch · 05/03/2014 11:57

Keeping everything crossed for friday.
((Hugs)) for you zombie, so long as you don't try a nibble or go for my brains obviously. (Not that my brain would make for anything more than a very small hors d'oeurve)

MaryMungoAndMidgies · 05/03/2014 11:57

Big pinkie bosie from me,

MaryMungoAndMidgies · 05/03/2014 12:07

(Tissue glue on standby) Thanks

Ohwhatfuckeryisthis · 05/03/2014 12:07

Limb holding from Chez Fuckery too. I'll even stick them back on if they drop off

Bassetfeet · 05/03/2014 12:07

Gentle hug Zombie and positive thoughts for Friday.

MaryMungoAndMidgies · 05/03/2014 12:09

(Tissue glue on standby) Thanks

nikkihollis · 05/03/2014 12:17

Don't feel stupid for being worried. It's a totally normal reaction. Fingers crossed that all goes well on Friday for you Flowers

TheOldestCat · 05/03/2014 12:18

Limbs and fingers crossed that it will be positive news on Friday.

IamtheZombie · 05/03/2014 13:51

Thank you all so much.

I'm a bit calmer today.

I had my annual check-up appointment with my surgeon on 31st January. At last year's appointment she had told me that the protocol for mammograms had changed and I wouldn't need one before this year's appointment. On the 31st I was advised that the protocol had changed again and they would send me an appointment for one. She then examined me and all seemed well. There was absolutely no mention of another appointment this year after the mammogram. It was all "See you next year" chat.

I had the mammogram last Tuesday, 25th February. The radiographer told me that if I hadn't received a letter with the results in about 2 weeks I should ring my surgeon for them.

I had an Oncology Clinic appointment last Thursday. The oncologist also examined me and all seemed well.

That is why I was so shocked and upset yesterday when I opened the letter from the hospital to find an appointment for this Friday morning. All I could think was "Oh, fuck, the mammogram must have shown something that they're concerned about".

I'm doing my best to be positive. If there is a problem it's been discovered at a very early stage.

I'll know for certain with 48 hours.

FuckYouChrisAndThatHorse · 05/03/2014 14:04

Zombie, with all those examinations, as you say, if there is something it's early, or it'll turn out to be nothing at all (I really hope the latter)

Xxx

Trooperslane · 05/03/2014 14:07

Oh Zombie. How awful ThanksBrewBrewThanks

And I'm holding an arm and a leg x

MarmaladeShatkins · 05/03/2014 14:16

Another limb-holder here.

I am propelling positive thoughts and mucho love, Zombie-way. Flowers

I have that bottle of Buckfast on hold for our roadtrip, Zombie. Wink Wine

spottysocksandshoes · 05/03/2014 14:18

Best wishes Zombie x

Thumbwitch · 05/03/2014 14:24

Y'know, Zombie, it crosses my mind that since they keep fucking around with the protocols, it's just possible that you've been sent an appt letter by mistake. OR that it's the new protocol, that you HAVE to have a consultant appt after your mammogram, regardless of outcome.

I love the NHS, but their administrative processes can get seriously fucked up sometimes

BIWI · 05/03/2014 14:26

All possible positive vibes, and gentle hugs, Zombie Flowers

MarmaladeShatkins · 05/03/2014 14:30

Yy, Thumbwitch. My terrible health anxiety flared up when my GP called me in after some blood tests. I didn't sleep for 3 nights until I went in to get the results. WHICH WERE FINE. Stupid fuckers. Gin

godlessdomestic · 05/03/2014 14:31

Limb holding & positive vibes xx

mummytime · 05/03/2014 14:54

Lots of Payers and limb holding from me too.

I really hope its just a NHS mess up. Flowers

NinePeedles · 05/03/2014 14:55

Have never wanted to hold a zombies hand till now.
Positive vibes are on their way.

PumpkinsMummy · 05/03/2014 15:02

sending hugs and squishing a hand xxx

2tiredtocare · 05/03/2014 15:04

I'm sure they would've called you in sooner if it was anything to worry about Thanks

NearTheWindymill · 05/03/2014 15:12

Oh Lorks - hoping so much it's nothing to worry about. Can you ring the hospital and ask why you have been recalled?

everythinghippie29 · 05/03/2014 15:19

Lots of positive vibes coming your way. Hope it turns out to be nothing serious. Thanks.