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Urgent advice needed. Meeting tomorrow.

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Devsmum13 · 08/10/2025 20:10

Hello,

My son is not enjoying T Levels. Not enough people signed up for his original IT course, so sixth form put on a coding course in September. (He should have been told on results day but they forgot). He has moaned non stop to his sixth form tutor and at home. Sixth form have asked me to go in for a meeting with the council tomorrow afternoon. I know they will ask for him to leave immediately.

It is a specialist Technical Sixth form.
The council suggested it because it is small and has the academic.

He would have loved the original course. No where else can meet need, and he hasn't got the grades for a school sixth form. He will be placed at a college for autistic students that requires improvement possibly without the IT element.

Things would have been different if his original course has run.

I understand why we need to have this meeting. My son is very bright. He will not learn if he doesn't buckle down and work but If he doesn't like the course and it isn't something he wants to do, he isn't going to try.

He passed all his GCSEs but with much lower grades due to the crappy Senco not understanding the EHCP at his secondary school. He only got in to sixth form because of his EHCP. He won't be able to cope with a school sixth form, and hasn't got the grades anyway..

Any advice would be appreciated. I feel like a failure.

Many thanks.

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twistyizzy · 13/10/2025 18:27

Devsmum13 · 11/10/2025 18:31

He is academically capable! He missed tons of education due to the Senco! The Senco didn't bother adjusting any lessons. Then he didn't understand the EHCP when it was issued! He passed all his GCSEs with 50% education. He only passed because the subject teachers took it upon themselves to organise the EHCP themselves in Y11 after I raised concerns about the Senco at parents evening. Should I have learnt the EHCP myself and tried to teach at home on an evening?? It has been years and years of hell. Who do you go to when the LA and school ignore concerns? Stop commenting. You are absolutely vile.

No I'm not vile I'm asking for clarification.

I've asked numerous times what you outcome you want, what his Plan B + C are but you just ignore me.

You have been completely clear, as many other posters have had to ask for clarification.

However you just choose to insult me so I'm out. You just want to blame people rather than address the issue and look forwards

Devsmum13 · 02/11/2025 18:14

UPDATE

Hello everyone,

I have finally had a meeting with sixth form and the LA (the original one was postponed due to illness).
My son will stay at his sixth form to complete his English GCSE resit in November.

Due to the original course not running this year and all sixth form/colleges being full, he will go to an Education Centre to do GCSE resits. They will arrange tutors ect.
He will hopefully return to the sixth form he is at now in September to do the original course.

In the meeting the LA said that they had tried to help the Senco in years 10 and 11 but was very little they could do because the Senco at school 'just wasn't getting it'. 😒

Thank You to everyone who took the time to reply.

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flawlessflipper · 02/11/2025 18:24

Unless wholly independent, on its own being ‘full’ is not a lawful reason for refusing to name your/DS’s preferred placement. When you get the right of appeal you/DS can appeal if you want to.

Devsmum13 · 02/11/2025 18:37

flawlessflipper · 02/11/2025 18:24

Unless wholly independent, on its own being ‘full’ is not a lawful reason for refusing to name your/DS’s preferred placement. When you get the right of appeal you/DS can appeal if you want to.

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His GCSEs where not a true reflection of his academic abilities. The education centre is for students with Autism. I am happy he has a chance to resit everything.

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