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Devsmum13 · 08/10/2025 20:10

Hello,

My son is not enjoying T Levels. Not enough people signed up for his original IT course, so sixth form put on a coding course in September. (He should have been told on results day but they forgot). He has moaned non stop to his sixth form tutor and at home. Sixth form have asked me to go in for a meeting with the council tomorrow afternoon. I know they will ask for him to leave immediately.

It is a specialist Technical Sixth form.
The council suggested it because it is small and has the academic.

He would have loved the original course. No where else can meet need, and he hasn't got the grades for a school sixth form. He will be placed at a college for autistic students that requires improvement possibly without the IT element.

Things would have been different if his original course has run.

I understand why we need to have this meeting. My son is very bright. He will not learn if he doesn't buckle down and work but If he doesn't like the course and it isn't something he wants to do, he isn't going to try.

He passed all his GCSEs but with much lower grades due to the crappy Senco not understanding the EHCP at his secondary school. He only got in to sixth form because of his EHCP. He won't be able to cope with a school sixth form, and hasn't got the grades anyway..

Any advice would be appreciated. I feel like a failure.

Many thanks.

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sashh · 11/10/2025 05:05

OP

I am still struggling to understand your posts. You seem to be saying that the SENCO didn't go to English, but surely that would be your son.

I understand he is not on the course he wanted but no matter what role he wants to do he will need programming for any decent computer science course.

Devsmum13 · 11/10/2025 07:18

TeenToTwenties · 10/10/2025 09:47

Sorry I'm still confused.

Is he too academic for some of these places, or deemed not academic enough?

Is 'specialist' to do with 'special needs' or to do with 'specialised academic areas'?

When I spoke to the LA about schools, they explained that they only had one school available for my son. This school is ASD Specific with massive educational success. It goes right up to sixth form and the kids go to University from it. It is the only one of its kind in Yorkshire. Over 500 kids in our city alone need a place.

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spoonbillstretford · 11/10/2025 07:24

Blushingm · 10/10/2025 09:55

You can’t go to university based on 1 A level though? You need enough UCAS points. Plus certain GCSE’s (not just the subject you’re good at)

What do you actually expect the LA to do? He’s not at a high enough standard for 6th Form. The Tech college aren’t running the one course he wants as they can’t run a course just for one student.

You and your son are going to have to figure out a new plan. It’s not necessarily due to his autism, it’s many other factors and many other students will have similar issues when courses they want to do either aren’t running or they’re to of a higher enough academic standard

Yes you can. Foundation course?

spoonbillstretford · 11/10/2025 07:27

Devsmum13 · 11/10/2025 00:30

To all the people who think that a Senco couldn't possibly mess up:-

• Reduced timetable for years
• Not going in to English classes and putting no in alternative in from Y8 until Y11 (A tutor could have gone into school to help even without an EHCP)
• Allowing my son to get out of the school building and into the community after putting him in stressful situations
• Putting everything on the EHCP coming back with a different setting then having a tantrum at me when it didn't
• Having tantrums at me because he wasn't getting his own way
• Forgetting that he had arranged meetings
• Forgetting to contact outside agencies resulting in delays
• Not fully understanding instructions from outside agencies
• Asking me to go into school for the same thing over and over again
• Asking me who he needed to speak to at the council
• Calling me countless times a week to say that my son was having a meltdown, rushing into school, only to be told when I arrived at school he had calmed down and we would have a meeting instead.
• Asking me to call organisations, only to be told by every one that that I shouldn't be calling them and it was the job of the Senco.
• Not letting me see any subject teachers at parents evening, then spending the whole appointment moaning at me.

When I went to appeal the EHCP, I was advised by Sendiass to get some information from school for evidence because he had done everything verbally. He said that I didn't need it even after I told him that the cut off date to appeal was in August

It came back rejected in late August as I didn't provide enough evidence.

In the September I got an email from the Senco "We can continue to challenge the EHCP decision". It was a month after the cut off date! If would have taken less than 10 seconds to find out on Google how long I had to appeal. He then went to the council complaining only to be told by them that it was his own fault for not sending the things I needed to appeal.

•The Senco said that my son needed to attend counselling and asked me to contact Mindmate referral service. I put in a request on Mindmate website. Mindmate came back and said that it was the Senco who needed to do it. When I told the Senco, he said they where mistaken and attached the initial referral our GP did when my son was 9. He even highlighted it (How did he think he was diagnosed?)
I had to forward it to the head of children's services to get help.

When he eventually went for counselling, the lady said straight away that it was school. My son told her that he was board at school.
She said it was down to the Senco not understanding the EHCP, they where not doing enough for him, neglecting a student was a safeguarding issue, school should be taking safeguarding seriously, and nothing she offered would work if he was going back to the same school environment.

• Refusing requests for careers advice for 16+.
Sendiass asked for a meeting with 16+ providers to school had a clear plan going forward. School said it wasn't needed.
I was told by the Senco to apply for school sixth forms myself, then told by the council not to do it because they needed to consult themselves.

• Constantly being told that my son had 'missed' so much education. How is that anyone else's fault? They could have requested private tutors with an EHCP. Every school in the country have SEN students with EHCPs. They can't all be having experiences like this? LAs wouldn't continue with them if they did.

• Our caseworker at the LA refused to hear a word against the Senco. SENDIASS asked for her to step in countless times because they didn't think the Senco was up to scratch. Every time she refused. When it all came out last year she was removed and we got a new one.

He gets a fresh start for sixth form and straight away it's a mess.

None of this is the fault of my son. None of this is my fault. Who do parents go to in situations like this? Should parents deliver missed education at home themselves on an evening ?? I have done everything that has been asked of me. It is a miracle that he passed his GCSEs.

Our caseworker from the council was supposed to call today. Suprise suprise no call or email.

I totally believe you, OP.

flawlessflipper · 11/10/2025 09:28

Stop believing everything the LA tells you. They will tell you what they want you to know and their version of the law.

If the ASD school was your preference and the LA refused to name it, you could have appealed.

Don’t leave researching placements to the LA. You need to be proactive.

There are other options in Yorkshire for academically able DC.

It also sounds like the EHCP needs improving. Things like provision from a specialist careers advisor can be in F. It is part of PfA.

NettleTea · 11/10/2025 09:33

OK, so SENCO fucked up, and it seems reduced timetable was needed for some things but at the cost of English.

what support is written on his EHCP - what is it that he needs help with in an academic setting on a day to day basis. THAT is really the only thing that is important right now in regards where he goes.

You say you are fighting tio change his EHCP, but what is wrong with it - what do you want to change. This is a late point to be doing it in his educational career, and if you are looking at uni, then the EHCP does carry through, but they tend to have their own inhouse disability services, plus DSA. The support for disability at uni is fantastic if you can get there.You may be better concentrating on what you want going forwards, and if he might be better placed elsewhere or sticking to this course, or changing courses in his current school.

And as others say, there is always a foundation year on many uni courses now, to bring your points up. If your son gets PIP and would qualify for LCWRA then its worth taking a year out between end of 6th form and uni, because if they have been receiving it for 26 weeks, they will qualify to continue getting UC at uni and in the holidays, which will relieve financial pressure, which is another potential stress of the uni experience.

flawlessflipper · 11/10/2025 09:40

EHCPs do not continue in higher education. They can continue until 25, or 26 in some cases, but they do not continue in HE. However, it isn’t too late to be pursuing amendments to the EHCP. Even more so if DS may not go to university at 18.

There is no requirement to be in receipt of UC for 26 weeks before beginning university in order to be able to receive UC. For disabled students, they need to be in receipt of PIP and LCW/LCWRA needs to be established prior to the beginning of the course (this can be done via a credits only New Style ESA claim) but they do not have to be receiving UC for 26 weeks beforehand. Although, for some, the deductions wipe out the UC elements, so the award is 0.

NettleTea · 11/10/2025 10:23

flawlessflipper · 11/10/2025 09:40

EHCPs do not continue in higher education. They can continue until 25, or 26 in some cases, but they do not continue in HE. However, it isn’t too late to be pursuing amendments to the EHCP. Even more so if DS may not go to university at 18.

There is no requirement to be in receipt of UC for 26 weeks before beginning university in order to be able to receive UC. For disabled students, they need to be in receipt of PIP and LCW/LCWRA needs to be established prior to the beginning of the course (this can be done via a credits only New Style ESA claim) but they do not have to be receiving UC for 26 weeks beforehand. Although, for some, the deductions wipe out the UC elements, so the award is 0.

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ahh thats good, they must have changed it from when my daughter started her degree (she is in her final year now) as she had to have been LCWRA for 26 weeks before she would have been allowed.
she gets about £181 a month UC,during the academic year and full rate of UC/LCWRA in summer but if she had a housing allowance it would be much more, so it does help alot if you need to pay rent

flawlessflipper · 11/10/2025 10:58

If DD is still at university and receiving UC, whoever told you there was a 26 week rule gave you incorrect information. The rules for disabled full-time students claiming UC haven’t had a 26 weeks in the last several years. At least 5+ years from the 2020 amendments following a JR case after it was finally picked up in 2018 UC was breaching the 2013 regs. And I can’t remember for certain, but I am pretty sure UC has never had that rule. The rules tighten in 2021 to make it harder for students to claim.

Devsmum13 · 11/10/2025 11:01

After an incident at school last year, the Senco insisted that I contact Mind mate for therapy. After my online referral, Mind mate came back and said they couldn't do anything as it needed to come from the Senco because was happening at school.

After I emailed this to the Senco, he emailed back saying that Mind mate where mistaken and copied and pasted the initial referral our GP did. I clearly wouldn't get any further so I forwarded the entire thread to the Head of Children's Services at the council asking for someone to sort it out.

Th next day a manager from the council called me, we talked about the problems, the caseworker was removed and they arranged counselling for my son. We went the next week. He saw a councillor for 10 minutes.

She said straight away that it was school. School hadn't understood the EHCP, and that they needed to take responsibility. When he was at school he was in their care. She would try and support as much as possible but if he was going back into the same environment nothing she did would help my son.

She then said that he found school boring which indicated that they were not going enough for him, and that neglecting a student was a safeguarding issue. If he was in Y11 and things like this where still happening even with an EHCP the Senco was the problem.

The LA then sent in a manager to school for a meeting to find out if it was true and it was. They then tried to help the Senco but that help was blocked by a Director from school who thought she new better. It then came out that she was giving answers from Google when he had a problem.

What do you do when you are up against that?

Is that enough information for you?

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flawlessflipper · 11/10/2025 11:05

OP, you are focusing on the past. You need to now look at moving forward.

It would also help you to read more about EHCPs and SEN law, so you understand the system. For example, it would help you understand that if provision in the EHCP wasn’t being provided, it is ultimately the LA’s responsibility and you can enforce it.

Devsmum13 · 11/10/2025 11:43

flawlessflipper · 11/10/2025 11:05

OP, you are focusing on the past. You need to now look at moving forward.

It would also help you to read more about EHCPs and SEN law, so you understand the system. For example, it would help you understand that if provision in the EHCP wasn’t being provided, it is ultimately the LA’s responsibility and you can enforce it.

I have repeatedly said that it is the LA responsibly throughout this entire thread!

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VikaOlson · 11/10/2025 11:45

Do you have an idea of what your preference is @Devsmum13 ? What your son wants to do next?

flawlessflipper · 11/10/2025 11:46

So did you enforce the EHCP, including via JR if necessary? In several of your posts, you have complained about the school not providing provision, which is why I mentioned it ultimately being the LA’s responsibility.

Devsmum13 · 11/10/2025 11:51

flawlessflipper · 11/10/2025 11:46

So did you enforce the EHCP, including via JR if necessary? In several of your posts, you have complained about the school not providing provision, which is why I mentioned it ultimately being the LA’s responsibility.

Not sure what you mean?

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flawlessflipper · 11/10/2025 11:55

I mean if the provision detailed, specified and quantified in F of the EHCP wasn’t being provided, you could have enforced it, including via the judicial review process if necessary. I was asking if you had done that.

Devsmum13 · 11/10/2025 11:55

VikaOlson · 11/10/2025 11:45

Do you have an idea of what your preference is @Devsmum13 ? What your son wants to do next?

He wants to do A Levels. I think he would have liked the original T Level. I thought it was a good idea because of the work experience element. He did work experience within his schools IT department and loved it.

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VikaOlson · 11/10/2025 11:58

Devsmum13 · 11/10/2025 11:55

He wants to do A Levels. I think he would have liked the original T Level. I thought it was a good idea because of the work experience element. He did work experience within his schools IT department and loved it.

But the original T Level isn't a possibility, right?

So for A Levels, do you have a 6th form in mind? Will he manage 6th Form do you think?

Devsmum13 · 11/10/2025 12:06

VikaOlson · 11/10/2025 11:58

But the original T Level isn't a possibility, right?

So for A Levels, do you have a 6th form in mind? Will he manage 6th Form do you think?

Nobody else apart from this current small STEM sixth form could meet need of his EHCP when the LA consulted for 16+. I have said it right through this thread. The amount of people who have made out that I am being picky. Is driving me mad.

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twistyizzy · 11/10/2025 12:10

Devsmum13 · 11/10/2025 12:06

Nobody else apart from this current small STEM sixth form could meet need of his EHCP when the LA consulted for 16+. I have said it right through this thread. The amount of people who have made out that I am being picky. Is driving me mad.

So then what are you expecting the LA to do now? This is why I said he needs to be more flexible. If the course he wants to do doesn't exist in the settings which will be most suitable for him then what do you expect the LA to do? They can't run a course especially for him.
This isn't being picky, you have been asked this repeatedly and avoid answering.

What do you expect the LA to do? What outcome do you/him want?
What if the outcome you want doesn't exist? What is Plan B/C?

flawlessflipper · 11/10/2025 12:12

Devsmum13 · 11/10/2025 12:06

Nobody else apart from this current small STEM sixth form could meet need of his EHCP when the LA consulted for 16+. I have said it right through this thread. The amount of people who have made out that I am being picky. Is driving me mad.

Previously you said other settings and LA said others couldn’t meet needs, but what do you think? Sometimes just because settings/LAs say somewhere can’t meet needs doesn’t mean they actually can’t or that the legal test for refusing to name them is met.

Have you looked at EOTAS/EOTIS/C?

Devsmum13 · 11/10/2025 12:13

Forget about the course. They can't meet need of his EHCP full stop. This is the problem.

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flawlessflipper · 11/10/2025 12:17

So if it is inappropriate (in the legal sense) for provision to be made in a school or college, have considered EOTAS/EOTIS/C?

Devsmum13 · 11/10/2025 12:19

flawlessflipper · 11/10/2025 12:12

Previously you said other settings and LA said others couldn’t meet needs, but what do you think? Sometimes just because settings/LAs say somewhere can’t meet needs doesn’t mean they actually can’t or that the legal test for refusing to name them is met.

Have you looked at EOTAS/EOTIS/C?

I wanted him to go to a school sixth form to do A levels. IMO it is better to do A levels that will help for IT but not limit him in the future in case he changes his mind. The LA didn't think he would cope with a school sixth form setting due to the free periods BUT he has been fine at the Sixth Form he is in now. He has settled in and made friends without any problem. His current sixth form is lovely. It's the course that isn't right.

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Devsmum13 · 11/10/2025 12:23

flawlessflipper · 11/10/2025 12:17

So if it is inappropriate (in the legal sense) for provision to be made in a school or college, have considered EOTAS/EOTIS/C?

Our city only has one. It is for autistic teens and adults but they do not run the A Levels that he wants. The LA suggested it as a last resort if he didn't pass his GCSEs (obviously he did).

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