Surrogacy - man plans to abuse the baby he is buying

[DifficultBloodyWoman]

Two gay men are the ‘commissioning parents’, also know as the baby buyers.
One man has been arrested for distributing child porn.
The other is a church pastor.

According to the article, the pedophile wrote, ‘I do love the idea of inviting a buddy over when I have my boy … just has to be someone I can trust obviously … I plan on getting my c* in him asap…’.

Horrifyingly, his parents-in-law, the parents of the church pastor, wrote glowing character references for him. ‘There should be more men like him in the world’.

And the kicker…the baby is being born in California where laws state the baby is the child of those two men unless they voluntarily relinquish parental responsibility.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13241501/chicago-veterinarian-dog-judge-charged-child-porn-sexually-assault.html

https://www.cbsnews.com/chicago/news/chicago-veterinarian-child-porn-court/

What are you talking about? Adoption is child focused, not parent focused (in the UK anyway)
older children don't get adopted because adopting older children is rarely successful and it's not in their interests to put them through it

Yes.

Babies for sale is always going to be a tempting route for predators and abusers. How could it not be?

Selling and buying babies is grossly wrong anyway; this aspect if it is another glaring problem..

My friend's son was via a surrogate, he's a very much loved child with no issues at all. She couldn't carry for medical reasons. The surrogate was altruistic and has helped create 6 families in total, all for medical reasons, she only helps married heterosexual couples unable to have babies for specific medical reasons rather than general infertility, she sets her own rules!

Those glowing letters written by the parents-in-law were done after his arrest, weren't they?
Is there any chance that they were written before all of this to show the surrogate mother what a decent family her child would be going to??
I'm guessing not - I hope the family members change their minds once they realise the depths of depravity their son-in-law was going to.
Abusing his nieces & nephews as well? If he were my sibling I wouldn't be responsible for my actions.

'It is unclear what will happen to the couple's child, who is expected to be delivered by a surrogate in Sacramento in the coming days.
Under California law, a surrogate mother must convince the child's parents to voluntarily relinquish their rights to the child in order to keep it.'

Bloody hell. The poor baby. The poor woman carrying it.

In an utterly grim situation, this is just unimaginable. I very much hope that nobody ever discloses to this child the history of how and why he was conceived.

Nothing men won’t stoop to 🤮 poor little soul