Husband has had enough of me

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My mum passed away in March and my kids are growing up. I can't stop crying. My husband says he has had enough of my crying. My mum told me I was selfish and cold-hearted. I lost my patience with my daughter yesterday and snapped at her. I am a burden to everyone. everything seems so pointless.

I am so sorry for your loss and I am sorry that your husband is being unsupportive.

You are not a burden, you are grieving.

I think you need to delve deeper before you can groundly announce the husband is unsupportive, he may have supported for years, and the crying is just a different issue.

op, are you having counselling?

Your husband is a fucking arse. You are grieving love, and grief is very difficult.
Have you spoken to your GP and seen what they can offer? Councelising might help. X

Yes having counselling. He told me that he can't cope with me. He said that the kids hide upstairs as they have had enough of me too. They don't need me anymore, they are mid 20s.

Everyone has had enough of me

I'm already on antidepressants

I snapped at my daughter yesterday and feel like the worlds worse mum. He just made the whole situation worse. He says he can't cope with my mood swings

I want my mum back. The pain is unbearable

What did you snap at her about? i’m sure it’s not that bad op.

You are deep in grief. I’m so sorry that your husband is so intolerant and lacking in compassion.

Apologise to your daughter in whatever way is age appropriate and explain. Hug her.

please make sure to take care of yourself.

He keeps saying that he can't cope with me so i hid upstairs and cried. He snapped at me yesterday saying he can't say anything right. I'm such a burden to everyone

I don't want to be here anymore

I want my mum back

Please go and see your GP - you could need a stronger dose of medication or a different one altogether. I’m so sorry about your mum

Go back to your GP, they might need tweaking or even changing to something else.

Look up grief counselling in your area, or ask your GP to signpost you.

I'm sorry for your loss but doing nothing is not an option anymore. You need to seek professional help

I've apologised to my daughter but she is 24 and autistic so not sure she understands.

I love my kids so much it hurts, i would do anything for them. I have kept in this shitshow of a marriage for the sake of the kids. I want my mum so much. He keeps saying he can't cope with my mood swings so i hide myself away.

Mum said i was selfish, he has had enough of me and my kids hide from me

Better off all round if I'm not here anymore then no one will have to put up with me

My kids don't need me anymore

You definitely need to speak to your GP again, what do your mood swings look like? Why are the dc hiding?

Op please ring your GP now and explain to them how you feel. I feel you may need to see the crisis team, if you’re not feeling safe please go to a&e.

I'm so sorry you are feeling like this.
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Kids are hiding because they have had enough of me. They can't cope with me. My mood swings are obviously too much.

My son will be going to work soon. I will be on my own in the house