I've had MH issues my whole life (childhood trauma) and have recently been diagnosed ADHD & autism.
I took the outside Xmas decorations down but the round the door decorations DH told me to leave as he didnt know what he was doing with them. They are 2m tall doorway wreath things.
So its been over a week now since he said that and they annoy me everytime I see them.
Im due my period, i feel like shite. I just made midweek roast dinner and was doing the kitchen whilst he lay on the couch and I just felt so mad and went to the front door and just pulled them down.
DH came out and was shocked and confused and got mad at me for doing it. I know it was stupid and immature.
He said 'why did you go from doing the kitchen to thinking about that? Just pulling them down?"
I said maybe because i have ADHD?
And he said 'oh here we go, so now everythings about you having that? Sometimes its simply because youre a fucking idiot"
I feel so upset. Our kids are ADHD/autistic. And he would never say that about them.
Its like he think MY diagnosis are just pretend/excuses.