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Thompson54 · 08/07/2020 08:53

Hi, new to this but don't know where else to turn my other half has told me how unhappy they are and that I'm controlling them and won't let them do anything.

I must admit this has come completely out of the blue. we have been married 17 years and I thought for the most part everything was good but then I find they have been flirting with people on Instagram which I don't mind but they keep it a secret and My daughter told me about it.

when I confronted them about it it's been one argument after another we are not even sleeping together anymore they keep there phone with them at all times which I find strange even hiding it when they sleep they used to put it in the bedroom table that's how I know this today I asked if our marriage is over and the reply was stop pushing me in this or I won't like the answer!

Help ! I'm so upset what do I do????

DawnMumsnet · 09/07/2020 16:15

We're moving this thread over to our Relationships topic for the OP.

KimMumsnet · 10/07/2020 17:55

Hello, OP.
We are really sorry to hear you are feeling this way.
We hope you don't mind, but when these threads are flagged up to us we usually add a link to our Mental Health resources. You can also go to the Samaritans website or email them on [email protected]. Support from other Mumsnetters is great and we really hope you will be able to take some comfort from your fellow posters, but as other MNers will tell you, it's really a good idea to seek RL help and support as well.
We also like to remind everyone that, although we're awed daily by the astonishing support our members give each other through life's trickier twists and turns, we'd always caution anyone never to give more of themselves to another poster, emotionally or financially, than they can afford to spare.
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