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Anniversary Coming up - Feeling depressed

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Quootiepie · 07/08/2006 00:46

Hello...
The baby I should have had would have been 1 on the 10th. Just feeling pretty low right now, worse than I did this time last year.

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pussyinboots · 07/08/2006 02:26

everyone reacts differently ..don't ever compare yourself to others hun...bloody hell with pmt I cry like an arse at bloody childrens films lol

pussyinboots · 07/08/2006 02:29

join the new club girl... just been here a few months but lovin and hatin it all the same totally addicted lol

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Quootiepie · 07/08/2006 02:31

loved it until today... very "clicky" though... alright when your in the "clique"... but impossible when you make a spelling mistake or say something "wrong".

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Chandra · 07/08/2006 02:32

More than 3 years here and I'm still new.

psychomum5 · 07/08/2006 02:37

hey...we all feel like that at times, except maybe for those who have been here years. but even they I am sure are as insecure as us 'newbies'.

and just to say....how do you know you were the only one who has cried?? I know for a fact that one of my other BF (who is on MN too), has felt really low after something said here and has cried on me.....and yet to someone less sensitive it may have been a laughable comment. We all have our own issues, and so that means that what for one of us is nothing, for someone else will be a comment that will never leave us.

please remember, in real life not everyone you meet you will like, and vice versa will like you. it will be the same here...and there are many many big personalities here, as many as there are members, and you won't like us all, but 95% will be fabulous...maybe even 99%.

give it a chance.....it may just surprise yu. and then you will be a total addict and never be able to leave

pussyinboots · 07/08/2006 02:39

Fuck that Quootie there will always be arseholes (remember school??) where ever you go but for everyone the are 3 normals lol

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Quootiepie · 07/08/2006 02:40

i am pretty addicted Even had some people be nice about "my situation" which was unexpected... but sometimes I feel insecure... which is so so silly because this is an online forum... but anyway.

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Chandra · 07/08/2006 02:44

Quooti, spelling mistakes? haven't you appreciated the shambles I do of grammar and spelling in every single post?

I think people has got tired of correcting me, I'm beyond help.

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Quootiepie · 07/08/2006 02:48

yeah... ive given up posting on some threads... they kinda team up and laugh at you. I dont watch what I post and type way too fast... grrrrrrrr... just one thing after another.

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psychomum5 · 07/08/2006 02:49

hey come on....any here know 'the fish'????

now if she can be as popular as she is with her unintelable posts, anyone can

and if you are unsure of who I mean.....tis cod or ocd in her current persona.

now she has spelling issues, or alternavely is one very clever lady who likes to see how confused we gat her her mistakes and really is the best person at grammer in real life

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Quootiepie · 07/08/2006 02:51

well, at least ranting about MN has half diverted me from getting more depressed about more serious things.

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psychomum5 · 07/08/2006 03:00

there you go then....already a positive

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Quootiepie · 07/08/2006 03:01

yeah... 3am...wow. Latest ive stayed up since DS was born.

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pussyinboots · 07/08/2006 03:01

psychomum5 · 07/08/2006 03:02

and you aren't out spending money on it either.

all this for free (well, all bar the broadband fee that is).

what more could you want at 3am???

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Quootiepie · 07/08/2006 03:03

i really should take another pill and try bed...

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Quootiepie · 07/08/2006 03:03

yeah...

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Quootiepie · 07/08/2006 03:03

spending money on what? therapy? lol

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psychomum5 · 07/08/2006 03:04

I think I should head up too really.....at least some rest is better than nothing.

I hope you feel brighter in the morning. This won't be going, I realise, but to know there are people who care makes most of us brighter.

many hugs, and sleep well.

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Quootiepie · 07/08/2006 03:05

you too, thanks x

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Quootiepie · 08/08/2006 10:38

Anniversary tomorrow now... dreading it. Dreading tonight

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wrinklytum · 08/08/2006 11:19

Hope you are ok quootie,keep posting on mn if youre having a wobble.Someone bound to reply.Im a newbie too.Ignore any catty comments,hell youll probably never meet half the people posting on here!!!So sorry about your baby,anniversaries are always hard.Sending hugs.PS my grammar and spelling appalling too.

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Quootiepie · 08/08/2006 11:38

thanks... ive switched onto bereavement board now with this...

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