My friend has life long anxiety issues due to an appalling childhood. As an under 13 yr old she experienced terrible sexual abuse ( of the most serious kind physically) plus spending time in and out of Refuge accommodation with her Mum and siblings. Her Mum was too traumatised and too involved with her own problems to realise how damaged her children were becoming.
With that childhood I am frankly amazed my friend can function at all but she actually does well - far more than she gives herself credit for.
As a 20+ yr old she worked as a care assistant in a nursing home - a job she loved and in fact her DD is named after one of the women she cared for.
The issue now is agoraphobia which started after her DD was born. My friend had horrendous PND and all the stuff she had suppressed since childhood hit her. It has caused problems ever since. Her DD is now 9 but my friend only leaves the house in the company of trusted friends. Without us she simply would not go out. Her partner (who was supportive) collapsed and died suddenly last year so it's just her and her DD now.
She has a mental health history under the psychiatric unit as long as anything and struggles with all day to day activities. I take her DD to school and collect her, she does food shopping online and I take her out if she needs extras.
I am so anxious about her today because last year ATOS found her "fit for work" which she absolutely is NOT. It took months of appealing and letter writing to get them to reverse their decision.
Am I right to suspect the motives of ATOS? I don't think my friend can go through another situation like last year which came right on top of the sudden death of her partner.
Why isn't the MASSIVE medical record she has enough? She has only got to the centre today with the aid of her support worker but all I can think is that they will see her chatting with the support worker and think she must be fine ....but she isn't - she really isn't.