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DEPRESSED and need help urgently

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PinkiePoo · 16/09/2005 12:47

Hey guys,
I have a big problem. I am 5 weeks pregnant, i am only 22 and my boyfriend does not want it. We both agreed to terminate-sorry if this offends anyone- but we decided we are too young and have careers to persue. I have had my scan and having blood tests next week then will be able to take the tablet, but something in my heart is telling me not to do it and i am so confused. I actually love the feeling of having a little baby growing in me.
I feel really screwed up, but my boyfriend has told me he won't be able to stay with me if i keep it!

OP posts:
ninah · 16/09/2005 13:16

good luck whatever you decide! you sound lovely

munz · 16/09/2005 13:16

don't forget the choocy and ice cream!

Toothache · 16/09/2005 13:16

I got pregnant with ds when I was 22. DH (then DP) and I had only known each other 9 months.

Original poster
PinkiePoo · 16/09/2005 13:17

thanks ninah, you have all been fantastic and its nice to have a bunch of sensible wise women to talk to rather than my BF who just strokes my hair and says everything will be alright. but he promised to take me on holiday after to clear my head

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Aimsmum · 16/09/2005 13:17

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PinkiePoo · 16/09/2005 13:19

don't worry the eating for 'two' has def started for me!! Always hungery but the worse for me are my boobs, they can be so painful esp when i am cold

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ninah · 16/09/2005 13:19

I am hope to find out for myself shortly! Keep in touch ainsmum, I may need you!

Toothache · 16/09/2005 13:19

It sounds like he's treating your pregnancy as an annoying and inconvenient condition that needs sorting out! But you are not treating it like that Pinkie.
I hope you make the right decision for you.

Aimsmum · 16/09/2005 13:20

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ninah · 16/09/2005 13:20

thanks
I will learn to spell your name right, too

Aimsmum · 16/09/2005 13:21

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munz · 16/09/2005 13:21

yes agree with TA, def think about this in terms of it being u and ur baby and body nothing else - it's the hardest decion to make in some respects, but i'm sure AM will be sure to say all the worries and woes et are well worth it should you chose to continue with the PG without ur BF around.

GeraldGiraffe · 16/09/2005 13:35

toothache, i don't agree.

Toothache · 16/09/2005 13:36

Don't agree with what GG?

GeraldGiraffe · 16/09/2005 13:38

You.

Toothache · 16/09/2005 13:39

About what though GG... I've posted a lot of things on this thread.

GeraldGiraffe · 16/09/2005 13:41

I just disagree with you. In general.

Toothache · 16/09/2005 13:43

Oh well thats lovely GG, very constructive! I'll just ignore that comment.

Toothache · 16/09/2005 13:44

Have you changed your posting name recently?

GeraldGiraffe · 16/09/2005 13:44

why will you ignoire it?

GeraldGiraffe · 16/09/2005 13:45

yes i have change drecently

munz · 16/09/2005 13:45

girls this isn't helping PP - and it's her thread. so GG please say something constructive for her if you wish to.

GeraldGiraffe · 16/09/2005 13:46

sorry was winding ta up.

Toothache · 16/09/2005 13:47

Why would you come onto a thread like this where I've posted some heartfelt advice... which some have agreed with and some have not.... and just post a vague comment like "I just don't agree with you in general". No reason, no basis, no clarification..... therefore I'll just assume it's a personal thing and ignore. Feeling shit enough today without that.

Back to the original reason for the thread. I still hope you do whats right for you.

Toothache · 16/09/2005 13:48

Why would you try to wind me up? I don't get it?