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Would you like to have the size of family you were born into?

68 replies

NewLion · 27/03/2026 17:39

For example if you were 1 of 10 kids, would you like to have 10 kids?

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Dalmationday · 27/03/2026 21:06

I’m one of two. Wished for another sibling. I’ve had 3 myself.

watching with interest for those from bigger families

1990sMum · 27/03/2026 21:07

I'm one of 4. I had 6 dc.

fourpercent · 27/03/2026 21:09

I'm one of three, so is DH, we have three DC

Iwantsandybeachesandgoodfood · 27/03/2026 21:10

I’m one of two. I stopped at two because I couldn’t afford more but I’d have loved another two.

AdjacentPossible · 27/03/2026 21:11

I’m one of 3. I’d say No, and I’m
happy with 1.

CatherinedeBourgh · 27/03/2026 21:12

No, but my family was so blended you can't define its borders, so that was an easy one.

I have a simple nuclear family, no exes, no steps, no half siblings.

I did at some points feel guilty that my dc didn't have the massive extended family I did, but they don't feel the lack.

Cazziebo · 27/03/2026 21:20

I’m one of 5. I had two. We never had enough space, attention, quiet, money. I think the world has moved on. There were 6 of us is a 2
bedroom flat, then 7 in a three bedroom house. Two of us sat in the car boot when we went anywhere (days before compulsory seatbelts). Holidays were always camping crammed into a 4 person tent.

Having said that, there is something lovely about having a lot of people who love you and are there for you. I now have so many wonderful nieces, nephews and cousins who I love dearly.

Barnsleybonuz · 27/03/2026 21:33

I was one of 4. I have 3, you couldn’t have paid me enough to have 4

AllJoyAndNoFun · 27/03/2026 21:34

I'm one of two and DH one of three. I wanted three and he wanted two, so make of that what you will - we have two coz DD was such a terrible sleeper we were done after her.

RoyalPenguin · 27/03/2026 21:35

I'm one of two and DH is too, we originally planned to have two but decided to go for it and have another, so we have three.

blankcanvas3 · 27/03/2026 21:36

I’m one of two (though my only sibling is a half sibling) and I have 3 kids. I don’t think I care either way! I liked just having one brother and I like the dynamic between my kids.

Deadringer · 27/03/2026 21:37

Hell no, I have 13 siblings!

Tiggiwinklescousin · 27/03/2026 21:39

I'm an only child. I've got an only child. I'd always assumed I'd have more than one (thinking back, I'd always imagined having 3 I think) but life just didn't work out that way for me.

Purplecatshopaholic · 27/03/2026 21:42

I’m one of three. Not a chance would I ever have had three.

youalright · 27/03/2026 21:43

Im 1 of 3 I have 4

Bishbashbush · 27/03/2026 21:44

I’m the eldest of four and absolutely not! I love my siblings and we all get along nicely as adults but I was very content to stop after child number two.

ReignOfError · 27/03/2026 21:45

I’m one of 5 and no, I did not want the same for mine. I have two, and was sterilised as soon after the youngest was born as I could manage.

JustGotToKeepOnKeepingOn · 27/03/2026 21:46

I’m one of four. I’m a single parent of one. It feels very quiet!

DeepestDarkestRiver · 27/03/2026 21:46

I am 1 of 5. I loved having 4 siblings. I was sure I wanted to have 5 kids myself, but I had children later in life, and also hell no, I wouldn't have 5 kids! But even to this day I love having 4 siblings. We are so close. I feel guilty I couldn't give that to my own kids (I have 2), but it just isn't feasible.

FortyFacedFuckers · 27/03/2026 21:47

I am 1 of 3 but only have 1 not through choice, I would have loved 3 or 4

SemmaLina · 27/03/2026 21:49

I’m oldest of 3 girls ( now women ) which is why I had 2

Apparentlystillchilled · 27/03/2026 21:50

I am 1 of 5. I have 3 children.

I think it’s interesting that none of the 5 of us have 5 children.

GoldMoon · 27/03/2026 21:51

I'm an only and have 2 .

Pixiedust49 · 27/03/2026 21:51

I’m one of 6. Very chaotic childhood. I’ve got one by choice and same for quite a few of my siblings.

MissingSockDetective · 27/03/2026 21:52

I do! I'm one child and so is dd, it's perfect.