Hi everyone. My older cousin who is roughly around 45 and never married can be a bit over the top at times. She is big and beautiful and her choice of clothing is a large multi coloured skirt and a leather handbag. However, she is often making remarks and gestures which seem harmless but come across as weird to other people which includes myself. For example, we were picking up my son from Primary school one time and I was having a chat with his teacher and she perked up and said, “Ooh you’re a lovely handsome young man aren’t you will tickling his chin”. As I said a bit over the top. Any advice on letting her down gently?