A man has started using the women’s showers in my gym. He openly explained that he is doing so because the owners, Westminster council, have turned down the water temperature in the men’s changing room showers but not the women’s, and he finds the water in the men’s too cold. He’s not pervy but I’m still very uncomfortable having him naked and bathing in our space and worry that it’s just a thin end of a wedge that will lead to the presence of men that are predatory.
I’d like to be able to complain without getting myself into hot water (!). Any ideas?