Your little firl would go into P1 this year and your wee boy into P4, if your are mving in the New Year. In theory, he's be one of the oldest in the year as the age placement" year is March to February - but in practice he probably won't be as in Scotland you have the option of deferring (properly
- as in they would start in P1 the following year) the entry of September to Feb birthdays (more usually just the December to Feb ones) if you don't think that they are ready.
If your dh is working in Erskine, then you have the opion of North and SOuth of the river, as you are close to the Erskine Bridge.
Small village-y, you have Houston and Bridge of Weir. Not sure about the secondaries, but primary schools are generally good.
I live in Glasgow in Pollokshields, which is a quiet suburb on the south side of Glasgow with lots of lvely big Vicotrian houses, the majoity of them split, like ours. Big gardens, quiet roads and excellent value compared to the West End where you would pay silly prices for the equivalent. If you watched "SIngle Father" then that is where it was filmed. SOme people are put off by the fact that East Pollokshileds (which is largely tenements) is very Asian - but I love it. Glendale Primary school has a good reputation - high number of ethnic minorites (60%) but well supported. Pollokshields Primary School is 98% "English as an Additional Language" which would have caused me concerns.
The other place on the SOuth Side to look at is Shawlands and Crossmyloof - there may be houses there in your price bracket. Shwalnds Primary also has a decent reputation - as does Shawlands Academy.
We are close to the M8 and on the "right" side of the Kingston Bridge, which is where the jams tend to occur, so your dh would be able to get to work in under half an hour. Coming home, he would quickly learn the routes that avoid the jam.
North of the river, Old Kilpatrick is literally just under the Erskine Birdge. I can remember looking at houses there (when we were looking to buy "North side" before giving up and looking "SOuth side" and finding our current house the first week out looking) and they seemed good value.