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My dad is in intensive care

104 replies

Lbnc2021 · 23/08/2021 17:28

I am so frightened. I need some positive stories.

My dad has some fairly serious health issues but does not sit at peace, he’s a workaholic. He was one of the first to be double vaccinated.

He’s now in a critical condition and is on a ventilator. The doctors are taking it hour by hour. I’m just so numb. I’m not ready to lose him, he’s my world.

OP posts:
Lbnc2021 · 26/08/2021 17:12

Well I spoke too soon, he’s now back to square one and now my mum has been admitted with covid. It’s a never ending nightmare 😢

OP posts:
Crockof · 26/08/2021 17:13

@Lbnc2021

Well I spoke too soon, he’s now back to square one and now my mum has been admitted with covid. It’s a never ending nightmare 😢
Oh, I am so sorry. I mean it, you are in my thoughts.
ImitationofBeing · 26/08/2021 18:31

I'm really sorry. It's like a nightmare.
Thinking of you Flowers

toomuchlaundry · 26/08/2021 18:34

I am so sorry you are all going through this. Thinking of you Flowers

Alternista · 26/08/2021 18:48

Oh love, I’m SO sorry.
Hang in there

TwilightSkies · 26/08/2021 18:54

Oh gosh OP how difficult for you. Hand holding xxx

ABBAsnumberonefan · 26/08/2021 19:04

I’m so sorry, hand holding Flowers x

Natsku · 26/08/2021 19:16

I'm so sorry, thinking positive thoughts for your dad, and your mum too. They know so much more now about treating covid so its more hopeful than in the beginning of the pandemic, my dad had it then and it was scary when he was in intensive care so I know the feeling. Ask the nurses when is the best time to call for updates on his condition so you can keep informed without feeling like you are interrupting them.

10milewalk · 26/08/2021 21:04

Sorry to hear this, I can't even imagine how upsetting and stressful all this is for you. I hope your mum and dad make a speedy recovery. Sending hugs, take care. x

icelollycraving · 27/08/2021 07:35

Oh goodness, hope they make a good recovery Flowers

Didicat · 27/08/2021 07:40

Very sorry to read your sad news, hope they’ve both been as comfortable as possible overnight and you’ve managed to get some sleep.

AndTheReasonIsYou · 27/08/2021 07:55
Flowers
JackieQueen · 27/08/2021 07:59

Hi op, this website may be of some help to you, sorry I don't know how to link but it's called ICU Steps, its run by former patients and medical staff and offers support to families and the patients when they eventually recover. There is also a forum where you can speak to others in the same situation. I really hope your parents recover safely Flowers

icelollycraving · 27/08/2021 21:56

Hi op, been thinking of you Flowers

ImitationofBeing · 27/08/2021 23:56

And I'm thinking of you too. Virtual handholding x

AlexaShutUp · 27/08/2021 23:58

So sorry to hear that your mum is poorly too, OP. Hope they both recover soon.

Lbnc2021 · 29/08/2021 18:49

My dads deteriorating again. My mums not too bad. I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy, I feel like I’m living in limbo

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AlexaShutUp · 29/08/2021 18:52

Flowers So sorry, OP. Hope that your dad turns a corner soon. Glad that your mum is doing OK. Take care of yourself, it's a lot to deal with having both of your parents ill at t once.

RandomMess · 29/08/2021 18:57

Huge hugs op, it's just horrible Thanks

DiscoStusMoonboots · 29/08/2021 18:58

So sorry to see you update. Sending you lots of positive thoughts and a hand hold x

Bubbean · 29/08/2021 18:59

Flowers Thinking of you and sending prayers for your mum and dad.
X

Bagelsandbrie · 29/08/2021 19:01

So sorry. Really hoping you have some good news on them both. Flowers

prediction500 · 29/08/2021 19:04

Thinking of you, your mum and dad x

Lindy2 · 29/08/2021 19:08

Thinking of you and wishing the best for your mum and dad.

Sexnotgender · 29/08/2021 19:09

I’m so sorry Flowers hoping your parents pull through.