Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all, laughing. All welcome.

[VivClicquot]

So, I thought I'd take it upon myself to kickstart the new thread. As the title suggests, this is a wonderful home full of the bravest, funniest and most inspirational women on Mumsnet, who are always ready to lend an ear and a virtual glass of wine.

The new thread is kicked off with 3 bfps in 3 days, so here's to more love and luck along the way

xx

Thank you prettyvacant1 it's really silly because i keep thinking if we try in may and we have booked to go away fro the weekend for out anniversaire what if i have another MC , it's really silly i never used to think like that, is that normal?

xx

mumsie Sorry that you've found yourself here but it's a good place to be to share whatever you need to. (i've only been on here for a week or so, but I find it really good to read everyone's posts)

I totally understand about starting again, take all the time you need. We've decided to wait a couple of cycles before trying again (partly on doctor's suggestion) and I actually feel quite relieved to have the space IYKWIM (...plus some large amounts of alcohol ) but that's just me. Everybody is different.

It's completely normal Mumsie and although you may not feel it now time is a great healer.
You can't put your life on hold
Book it, give me the Yellow Pages, where do you want to go?
I'll book it.

he he thank you pretty we are going to book it, it's only a weekend away in Auguat cant wait first time away the night from DC.

I think we may start trying in May, this is going to sound a tad mad, but i'm going by the lunar chart (which worked for me both times) and it sais a girl, only because i heard it's less common to MC a girl, silly i know and daft but i would do anything to avoid going through all the heartache again
i know that it proberly wont make much diffrence what will be will be, i just want to try and be a bit incontroll of something i have no controll over .. does that make sense?

ladies sorry in advance for self indulgent post. As u know i bfpd a few weeks ago. Hit 6 weeks yesterday. Yesterday felt ferocious, was nauxious, sick quite badly. Today boobs totally deflated. Did CB digital, it said preg but only 3 to 4 weeks where as it had said 5 plus during wk. Im pretty devastated as am nearly sure its all going wrong again. DH thinks we shud b positive. Feel fine now but boobs jst gone. Will do another test 2moro. Cant quite believe this. Ive got my fingers and toes crossed that it will be ok. Sorry for self indulgent post i jst am so worried

Happy I honestly don't know what to say.
When was the last time you tested?
Which day?

Can you get to a EPU and ask for bloods?
Stay positive, I have everything crossed for you.

happy, exactly what MrsG said. Thinking of you.

Happy huge hug

Oh happy - Nothing self indulgent about it- it's why were all on this thread- to listen and share and support each other. I truly hope it's all ok- try to relax and stay positive (almost impossible I know). take control and phone the EPU first thing in the morning x

Happy - hope you are ok, thinking of you tonight.

Back from hols and so much to catch up on - hi to everyone who's joined the thread, glad you found your way here.

Congrats to Zayja and Barren!! Littlemiss - wish I'd been online last week, sounds like you had a shocker.

I'm going to tentatively say I have a faint BFP - so I was wrong about having PMT symptoms. Hope that if the bean sticks around it'll forgive me for drinking all the red wine last week. Can't do anything about it now anyway.

Sorry to not namecheck properly, I'll get online again on Monday, big hugs to everyone, especially Happy and everyone new.

xxx

Glb (tenative) great news!

Is that even a word? Been up since stupid o'clock with ds who is full of the joys of spring, and I am full of the joys of red wine

Bit early for sauce innit Clare?
I was woken by my furry alarm clock at 6.45am, it is now eaten and is curled up on my bloody slanket!

I'm going back to bed with my iPod and a cup of tea.

Quiet whoops for GLB! Xx

(Aka MrsG)

Never too early! Maybe had a glass too many last night- survival strategy for PIL

has not is.

My plan of going back to bed was shmuckered by MrG arranging himself like a starfish and looking rather comfy, I think him and the cat are in alliance.

Looks like I'm back on track with R2D2.
D28 and he arrived on time.
I don't actually mind as I'm glad things are getting back to normal.

I'm tempted to be rebellious and start TTC this month as I've only been advised to wait for another 8-12 normal HCG results.
I've had 4...

The Consultant did say if the levels were normal it's possible to call Sheffield and discuss trying earlier as they are aware of my age, Nk Cells and impatience

I'm thinking by the time I've asked, they say ok and we do start it'll be another month and who's to say it'll happen this month anyway? Or the next.

Sorry it's a little early to absorb all that isn't it.

I'm off to look at AIBU till someone wants to play with me

Aka MrsG

Blonde moment, PIL?
Who in law?
Is it in law?
Always meant to ask that

And I've not even had a drink

Morning all

Clareanna gawd if my PIL were coming I really would be on the sauce! Good luck.

PrettyMrsG I wonder about you sometimes. You may fold under questioning.
Atleast droid is on schedule, and I think the Sheffield post service will ardently petition your cause to just get on with ttcing and bugger all the testing if things look like they are getting back to normal.

Heavens what will Jolly peeing on spuds and you peeing in envelopes it's a whole carnival of wee.

GoodNewsBear Tentative warm fuzzies to you. Quiet hoorah.

And a fingers crossed for Malteser may you be on the way to baybee win.

Morning all, hope I did the list ok...

Sunday's List:

Tigerbear TTC#1 UCL26 cycle 7 CD57
Hopefully TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 4 CD35
Limelight TTC#2 UCL35 cycle 1 CD35
Goodluckbear TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD35
Liahgen TTC#6 UCL26 cycle 1 CD31
Scotchontherocks TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 4 CD30
Malteser1981 TTC#? UCL28 cycle 1 CD29
westyorkshiregirl TTC#1 UCL37 cycle 2 CD25
Gi1da TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 1 CD23
Urd TTC#3 UCL28 cycle 1 CD23
hippychick66 TTC#3 UCL28 cycle 1 CD21
Allthe8s TTC#3 UCL28 cycle 2 CD20
Mummy3610 TTC#4 UCL 26-30 cycle 1 CD20
Moofold TTC#2 UCL~33 cycle2 CD18
clareanna TTC#2 UCL35 cycle 2 CD18
BunnyBaby TTC#3 UCL31 cycle 2 CD17
Icedlemonmuffin TTC#2 cycle 12 UCL24-32 CD17
sparklyrainbow TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 1 CD16
LucyT66 TTC#1 UCL33-34 cycle 4 CD16
JulesAbs TTC#1 UCL30 cycle 2 CD13
albadetamble TTC#2 UCL25 cycle 2 CD12
slimyak TTC#2 UCL26 cycle 4 CD11
Pollyanna TTC#6 UCL27 cycle2 CD10
vivcliquot TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 5 CD7
Curlylox TTC#3 UCL28 cycle 2 CD5
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 2 CD4
Littlemiss72 TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 3 CD3

WTTC
Muser TTC#1 EP 18/02/10 on month 2 of 3 month wait
MrsGazebo TTC#1 MMC6 Molar 8/1/10. On 3-6 month wait
Cheepz TTC#2 MMC 26/3/10 6 week wait post ERPC
Jollster TTC#2 MMC 26/2/10 couple of cycles wait on acupuncturist advice
ElmMum TTC#2 MC 28/2-17/3/10 UCL 28/29 on cycle 1 of (self-imposed) 2 or 3 cycle wait
Freezing TTC#2 MC 28/3/10 on cycle 1 of 2 or 3 cycle wait
LadyBee TTC#2 ERPC 08/04/10

GRADUATES
amyboo
totally
hoops997 BFP 11 July 2009
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010
HappyGirl1 BFP 23rd March 2010
Unbuffy BFP 28th March 2010
Zayja BFP 2nd April 2010
Barrenbrook BFP 6th April 2010

Oh bollocks should have read thread first!

Goodluckbear congratulations! how lovely, and I'm sure the wine just gave it a nice old warm welcome (a housewarming!!) - who wouldn't want to stick around?
I'll let you decide whether/when to put yourself on graduates - but yay!

Happygirl really sorry you're feeling worried. Were the tests from the same box or batch? I'm sure there can be variation in their sensitivity. I think the advice to try get blood tests done at the EPU is good. Hang in there.

PIL - parents in law, right?

But MrsG why are you peeing in envelopes?

Mixed day yesterday for me. We had a birthday party for a friend's boy to go to, place was full of my nct group who I haven't seen much of lately. Walked in to find one had a 5-month pg bump and another was announcing her pregnancy. Couldn't do much about it, so just walked straight up to the first one, gave her a big hug and got it over with, then spent the rest of the party concentrating on DS to stop myself dwelling.
Stopped off a good friend on the way home while DH took DS home for the evening. Drank wine, sat on couch and talked and talked. She was brilliant and I am very lucky to have such a wonderful friend.

This morning, peed on the first of my strips - ordered from amazon they arrived yesterday. Showed a +ve result which made me sad again. Think I'll test again on Wednesdays and a weekend until I get a negative.

PIL - parents in law

PrettymrsG - hmm is a tricky- why do you have to wait that long after levels returned to normal and rtd ? Is it because risk of another one is higher ? Or risk of mc is higher for a while? Are there statistics you can peruse on these things ? Maybe now is the time to google (if you haven't cracked already?!). Cats and dh definitely in cahoots - my old cat had a blocked tear duct and every morning at 4.45 she would jump on me (never dh) until a great big fat tear would drip from her nose onto my face- this was then followed by furious face butting and purring (cat not me). was a lovely way to be woken up- I miss her..

And a merry bollocks to you too on this beautiful spring day LadyBee . Nothing worse that seeing +s when you know you need a -. It's another of the bloody indignities that we really don't need. Leave it as long as advised then you get to save the sticks for when a + is good news again.

And don't worry, MrsG's not a urine/stationary fetishist.

As far as we know.....

Well done for staying sane at the party LadyB not sure I would've when suprised like that.
I've been told I wear my heart on my face not sleeve like people who actually have emotional restraint!

I pee in envelopes and post them to Sheffield General as my last mc was a molar preg and my hormone levels need to be monitored for a while incase there were any rouge cancerous cells floating around me.
But there's not, it's all good.

Gi1da I literally can't hold my own water!
There's nothing wrong with me! If they tell me to wait till Aug I'll scream.
Should I ?
Go on, tell me I can...
< jumps up and down clapping hands >

I likey PrettyMrsG
Better than VacantG

I love my PIL
They give me lots of wine and spoil me.
They like me more than MrG

Sorry gallows humour I know but rouge cancerous cells makes me think of little cellular bastards running round with pots of blusher.

My name is Mrs Pedant and I'll get my coat......

MrsG, you may not be able to hold your own water but half the Sheffield post service has!

I think you should tell them that you're getting impatient and little accidents might happen.. and see whether they actually freak out or just roll their eyes at you and pass you the Holy Sceptre of Imminent Diffment.