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TTC after a Miscarriage - A Fresh New Start

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Diddle · 04/07/2005 18:09

Here we go, another new thread for us to fill with our highs and lows.

Lets start off with a good dusting of babydust, think all the rest we had has washed off in the rain

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Diddle · 08/07/2005 18:22

me too, can't wait for this day to be over, i'm knackered today, not sure where all my energy has gone. my backs aching too, hope its not af but i think it will be.

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HellKat · 08/07/2005 18:27

Could be sympathy pains lol

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Diddle · 08/07/2005 18:42

must be! did it brighten up at your house today, or has it stayed quite dull?

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maddyd · 08/07/2005 19:13

Just been told another friend is pg, 15weeks. How on earth do i keep a smole on my face and not burst into tears when i congratulate her.

Working tomorrow morning then have to drive to Winchester to see some of my other halfs family. Feel a bit deflated so may have to cry off with a headache or something.

maddyd · 08/07/2005 19:14

smole meant

HellKat · 08/07/2005 19:34

Diddle- did finally brighten up, enough to let ds2 have a quick play outside before his bath. Not for long though.
Maddy- Awww hunny. Meant to say to you, Have you dared to test again? Your af sounds rather short to me.
Af still here. Albeit, TMI alert, icky brown colour, but there all the same.

HellKat · 08/07/2005 19:35

at smole

madrush · 08/07/2005 19:37

Hard to receive other people's happy news with good grace, isn't it? But it will be your turn one day maddyd and just look forward to making the most of it.
I have one friend who conceived same time as I did but I had a m/c and I know it's going to be really tough when her baby's arrived if I'm still not pregnant .
We'd been excitedly planning how we'd spend our maternity leave together and now she's off and I'm still ttc.

I wish I could just relax about it and let nature take it's course, but I'm other spending time wondering whether I'm o/ving or begging AF to stay away. Erractic cycle is really doing my head in.

HellKat · 08/07/2005 19:40

Madrush- Totally understandable. It's almost an obsession is'nt it?
It'll happen for all of of us! Hopefully sooner rather than later.

Xena · 08/07/2005 20:07

Do you know with both my 2nd and 3rd pgs 2 of my SIL's were pg at the same time, and both times one of them lost their baby. In my 2nd pg the SIL who lost the baby got pg again within 6 months. The 3rd pg the SIL who lost the baby has still not fallen pg and the 2 babies that were born are both turning 1 this week, it must be hard for her, life can be cruel sometimes.

HellKat · 09/07/2005 05:38

Morning all.
Xena- awww how awful! Did you bd?

Having hormonal time atm. Dp plays on a pool league (online) and there's one female who gets right on my tits! For some reason, this female fills me with jealousy over her reltationship with dp. They message eachother, she talks in the pool room about how "sexy" she thinks he is and how she has his pic on her comp as a screensaver (he said she was joking, Don't think so) and it's the closeness they have drives me batty! I'm normally easy going etc but her . Needless to say, he thinks there's nothing wrong with it (everytime she's mentioned we argue) and says either "You have male friends, what's the difference" or "Fine, I'll never talk to her again" , making me out to be a nutty missus! Oh, when I go into a room where she is (she knows who I am, screen name etc), she either leaves straightaway or stops talking. Is it me or has she got something to hide?
Sorry all! I never normally rant but this has been building for days!
How is everyone? (apart from being bored to death after readng this )

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Diddle · 09/07/2005 10:33

HAPPY BIRTHDAY Xena - is it today or tomorrow, i think its today.

Maddyd - Very hard to keep smiling isn't it, but its ok to smile to her face and then vanish to have a quick blub, or a long blub. Hope you're ok.

Hellkat - I would feel just like you, its hard not to be jealous. Could be that she does liek him, or thinks she does as really she doesn't know him, but if you trust him then you will know that regardless of what she does, he will always be faithful. Just because she calls him sexy doesn't mean he would do anything about it. He's probably just flattered as you would be if it was a man doing the same to you.
If you question him about it all the time and end up fighting it may only get worse, it could make him think that he should secretly talk to her, to avoid upsetting you, which men don't realise just makes it even more suspicious. It will be ok, just remember that he loves you to bits and that its harmless. I'd be tempted to keep an eye on her though, or change your username so she doesn't know when you're around.

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HellKat · 09/07/2005 10:36

Diddle- Thanks hun! Needed that. I do trust him implicitly. just her i don't. I'm 100% sure she likes him. But I'm 99% sure he does'nt feel the same (always the cynic eh? }. feel loads better after that moan. Thankyou. How are you feeling now?
Xena- Ohhhhh birthday!! Happy Birthday!

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Diddle · 09/07/2005 10:45

my pleasure HK - feeling ok today thanks, no sign of AF yet, still waiting, it came a little early last month so could come any day now. Hope not though.

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HellKat · 09/07/2005 11:21

Fingers crossed it does'nt either.
just read headlines. Turns out a girl i knew from years back, her dp's missing in the blast. Have you been following poor Happyhuggy? Think it's her dh/dp that's missing too.

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Diddle · 09/07/2005 12:19

no i didn't know about happyhuggy where can i read about her? thats terrible, i'd hate that.

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HumphreysCorner · 09/07/2005 13:08

Afternoon all

Couldn't be online this morning as was waiting for Argos to deliver a patio set and they were supposed to ring half an hour before delivery-they didn't but at least I got it considering they had the wrong town down!

Has anyone heard from Bella yet? (or have I missed that post?) Which thread is Happyhuggy on-that is so terrible and really puts my worries into prospective.

HellKat-if my DH did that I would hate him but luckily his interest is motorbikes. I'm sure you will make it up to each other .

I'll catch you all later as I should be doing housework and DH will be home soon. Thing is my SIL has given me a new PC game to try called Diner Dash and it is very addictive .

Love and hugs to all
(((xxx)))

Xena · 09/07/2005 13:12

Hi all, not till tomorrow but thanks anyway!!
HK no last night but on thurs but anyway I'm sure we won't be. Im sure your DP is completly innocent in his thoughts, although we all like abit of flattery change your name and spy on her, I would.

Got my new to me 'car' or minibus as the dc's call it.

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Diddle · 09/07/2005 14:05

oops xena, sorry well will wish you a happy birthday again tomorrow then.
What car have you had?

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Xena · 09/07/2005 17:03

A Ford Tourneo (9 seats) will be able to fit my 6 under 8's plus the 2 over 8's and myself.... should make the summer more fun.

HumphreysCorner · 09/07/2005 22:06

Evening girls

DH is having his 'annual' bath at the moment and having had rather too much of the Blossom Hill I thought I would wee on a stick-same old boring feint pink line-why oh why won't it go?????????? DH had the jug that I use so had to hold it in the stream IYKWIM and it took ages to give a result-loads of lines going the wrong way at first but back to normal when I looked a few minutes ago.

By the way, had a postcard from AF and she is in Spain so will be coming home any time now (I'll even meet her at the airport if it speeds things up )

Off to Snetterton tomorrow to watch the British Superbikes so I'll speak to you all on Monday.

My thoughts are with you all wherever you are in the country. (((xxx)))

Byee
x

HellKat · 10/07/2005 05:21

Morning all.
Xena- HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
Humphreys-ohhhhh Have a lovely time!!! (always been a biker chick at heart here!). Sorry your hcg levels are still there. I remember how frustrating it was for me. Even though they've gone now, if I do the ol' squeeze test on boobs (tmi sorry ) they still leak milk! Glad af sent a postcard, tell her to stay away longer

maddyd · 10/07/2005 07:27

Morning Hell Kat, wont be on again today we are off the the new foresst for the day.

I can still get milk from my boobs too if thats any help. I havnt breast fed for over a year either. Havnt re tested, i am being strong and holding out will do a proper digi test when period due. I cant go through it all again i must be strong. Short af or not it was heavy.

Anyways how is everyone? Couldnt make it on yesterday either and Fri evening i was asleep by 8 ing cant make babies if i do that can i

maddyd · 10/07/2005 07:27

Sorry XENA HAPPY BIRTHDAY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

petunia · 10/07/2005 08:27

Morning to all
Sorry I've not posted anything in the last few days but have kept dipping in to see how everyone is especially after last weeks awful events.
I'm currently waiting for af to arrive (first since mc) due some time this week. I think it's definitely on its way!

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