TTC after a Miscarriage - A Fresh New Start

[Diddle]

Here we go, another new thread for us to fill with our highs and lows.

Lets start off with a good dusting of babydust, think all the rest we had has washed off in the rain

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Morning All. You all talking about dreams and i had the most horrible one, it really upset me and i wish i could interpet (sp) it,

Hope this doesnt upset anyone

But i was maid of honour to my best friend last year and i dreamt of her wedding and i was maid of honour again BUT her other friend was aswell and they were just pretending i was and being nast behind my back.

This other girl has two toddler twins and a new baby. My best friend has a girl and is 28 weeks Pregnant at the mo.

At the end of the wedding they gave out gifts and they gave me a feotus in a carrier bag and then laughed at me.

It sounds awfull but now i fel i cant trust my best friend all beacuase of a stupid dream. Anyone know what this would mean so im not so para.

p.s Today my imagination is telling me both boobs are twinging

Yes it was me.Next sale tomorrow 5.00am!!!!

Started dd on potty training.Weeing on toilet AND floor........

........Just had to dash,poo'd on living roomfloor.(thank god for wooden floors)

maddyd - my eyes are filling, what a horrible dream. The must have really upset you, i'd be a right mess if i'd had it.

I know nothing about interpreting dreams properly so this is purely my opinion.
I would say that perhaps you feel like somehow their good fortune is beign rubbed in your face. not necessarily by them, just by the world and life. Have you seen them all recently. Has there been a particular incident that may have triggered these subconscious thoughts?

Hope you're alright ((((hugs)))))

chocolate peanut - TMI, yuck sounds like you've got a fun day ahead. I love NEXT and have never been to the sale before but didn't realise ti was online too. going to write a list tongiht and be reayd for 6am tomorrow when it goes live.

Well i havnt seen my best friend for a while as my kids both got chicken pox and she was a bit off with me as she thought, being pregnant, she was put a risk. Mind you her 3 year old could get it at Nursery or anything. Shes ok now but was worried at first.

The bag thing could stem back from about a few months ago in the news a women who had miscarried and not know she was pregant was given the feotus with her personal belongings by mistake.

i think i am a bit resentful of friend and her friend and thats why i dreamt it

Just checked and store i use opens at 6.00am so extra hour in bed

Love sale.One of the only genuine sales left.Half price.Great for the kids

Morning all!
Day 2 of fag abstinance! Ohhhh I only miss it with my morning coffee!
Cp- Lol best of luck today!
Maddy- Ohhh yucky dream. All I know is they're meant to mean the opposite so maybe it was in a nice gesture that she gave you the baby?
Diddle- Have you tested anymore or any sign of af?

yep tested, BFN, no signs at all. DH says maybe if i try and early test i may get a different result, what do you reckon?

Maddyd - did not know about the lady who was given her foetus by mistake, thats horrible. how incompetent.

Totally incompetent. It was on Mn in the in the news section.

Hellkat i supose i could look at it from that angle if they hadnt been being so bitchy. But it was only adream so no point even thinking about it. Its enough my body playing tricks without my mind doing it too.

Diddle waht tests have you been using then? How do you feel in your self

Diddle- Your body is puzzling hun! Lol
Maddy- I did read that story! Made me disgusted for a woman to go through the pain of having a mc then get your baby handed back like rubbish .
I've definitely decided to auction off my af! Had enough now. Instead of getting lighter, it's getting heavier.

maddyd - i'm using cb digitals as they're the only ones i've had a bfp with, plus they're fun. I feel fne, apart from a bit of back ache, the occassional headache and a constant sick feeling. No aching abdomen which i would normally get with AF, or higher body temp, or aching legs. nothing. I have no idea whats going on.

Will get some early ones i think, anyone recommend a good one?? first response?

Have been really freaked out now. Have done what i said i wouldn't do this month and checked what my pos due date would be if i was pg. and ti is 17th March. which sounds like a normal day to you all doesn't it.
But to me it is my nans birthday.
When I was pg the first time, my nan had just passed away with Cancer, and we had been saying for weeks before how spooky it would be if i got pg as she left the world, then we were blessed with a baby, so when it actually happened we weren't very surprised, then of course the m/c happened. But now, i feel really spooked out, as if i am pg our baby will be due on her birthday. very weird. hope I am now, maybe i'm meant to be and all will be ok.

Or knowing my luck because i have checked a poss due date then AF will come.

Oh God Diddle how spooky. Would be lovely. Maybe its your nans way of saying hang in there. What will be will be.

Have you been to Docs yet. re tests i always got faint posotives with the frst reponse ones one on day due and one day before due date. The nc one i did was 4 days before af. All faint.

thanks maddyd - nope haven't been to the doctors yet, not sure what they could do to be honest, didn't you go whenyou were late, what did they say, do you think they will just send me away.
will get an early test i think, just to see.

I think they could give you blood tests especially after what youve been through. Or they could feel your belly. When i was 20 i i went to a familt planning clinic to get the pill and they ended up telling me i was 8 weeks pg.They didnt do urine tests then they did internals unfortunatly. I went to docs when i waited the 55 days and he just said my body was still confused and stressing about it wouldnt help.

hmmm - might book an appointment then, thought it might be too early and they wouldn't do anything. DH told me I should go too. Maybe i will, I have some free time on Monday so could go then.
Thanks Maddyd
How are those painful boobs?? still feeling bigger?

I knew this would happen if i checked my due date, i'm getting my hopes up now, i want it soo bad. I really hope i am.

Think we need some more babydust to keep thsoe babies growing.

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Lets hope we all have good months.

I ignore my boobs as they are so sensitive anyway. They are not sore but keep getting pains. Sure that happened last moth too. Im going to record everyting now so next moth when im ttcing i can remind myself waht a fibber my body is.

good idea, write it all down. Thats if you need to refer to it again, you never knwo this could be your month.

I don't believe a word my body say's either, it lies! (Hopefully not this time) Actually in my bodies defence, it's actually my mind getting in the way that causes all the hassle. Am I, aren't I, what was that twinge, am I going to the loo more...etc..etc!

Up to Canary Wharf this afternoon, but think I'll drive as the company I'm going to has parking. More nightmares on the tube today! It's just not worth the extra stress!

Hope so Diddle, you too, ive got butterflies just thinking about it. Im off to do the housework now and try to stop thinking about it. Its all i do. Off out tonight so catch up with everyone tomorrow. take care xxxxx

have a good day and evening maddyd

xxx

where are you all today???

Well have been to the GP today, Just a viral infection or so they say.( never believe them)
I feel a little better today.

Diddle, I hope you dont mind me saying this.
please dont get your hopes up too much. TBH I would be a little concerned about being so overdue without a BFP. Make an appointment with GP.

Hi Cori - glad you feel better and have a reason for having felt so rough.
I'm not at the worrying stage yet, and trying not to get my hopes up. I have done a little mumsnet survey and a lot of people have been pregnant and not had a bfp for quite a few weeks, so i'm not concerned, but if it goes on for too long i will definitly be going to the docs. thank you for your opinion, of course i dont mind you saying, thats what we're all about isn't it, giving our advice and opinions.