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TTC after a Miscarriage - A Fresh New Start

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Diddle · 04/07/2005 18:09

Here we go, another new thread for us to fill with our highs and lows.

Lets start off with a good dusting of babydust, think all the rest we had has washed off in the rain

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HumphreysCorner · 20/07/2005 21:36

Evening ladies

PMSL at all your exploits-out of my group of 11 friends there was only me and another girl who never went to UNI so feel I may have missed out. The worst thing I did was be sick in a taxi and get thrown out of it-I was so drunk I didn't even know I had been sick! The taxi driver wanted to charge £50 (back in 1990 ish) but my friend managed to persuade him otherwise-phew!

petunia-well done you if AF has shown her face-I am now 7+2 and still waiting. Just had a glimpse on Monday then nothing. So pleased you can move on finally. ((xx))

HellKat-bet you can't wait to give up the weed-never been tempted myself but can understand how difficult it could be if I substitute the word ciggies for Blossom Hill-NO CHANCE!!!!! ((xx))

Diddle-has AF not arrived yet??? ((xx))

CHOCOLATEPEANUT-Happy B'Day for yesterday (same day as my DD) 38 is OK-I am 36 in October

Love to all
x

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Diddle · 21/07/2005 06:54

MOrning all -

Hellkat - Hope you've put all your roll ups down the loo.

Humphreys - nope, no sign of af yet, wish something would happen, 6 days late today.

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HellKat · 21/07/2005 07:36

Morning all.
Thanks for the support girlies!
Well technically gave up 9pm last night. Lol ran out. Not had one single physical craving just the mental ones (having fag with first coffee etc) but not too bad.....so far lol.
How's everyone?

HellKat · 21/07/2005 07:49

Cp- Happy belated birthday!!!!!
Humphreys- lol at taxi-puking!

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Diddle · 21/07/2005 08:12

morning Hellkat, well so far so good then, i can't imagine how tough it could be to give something up like that. I have never even tried smoking, or had the need to try. Hope you stay strong and get through it.

Everything is the same here, no AF, haven't tested, Dh is trying to convince me to, he's getting addicted too. Not doing it though. So i guess we have given up something together. Hope you last longer than i will. Hows your dp doing, has he managed to not have one?? Is he working now, coudl he have a sneaky one?

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Diddle · 21/07/2005 08:12

morning Hellkat, well so far so good then, i can't imagine how tough it could be to give something up like that. I have never even tried smoking, or had the need to try. Hope you stay strong and get through it.

Everything is the same here, no AF, haven't tested, Dh is trying to convince me to, he's getting addicted too. Not doing it though. So i guess we have given up something together. Hope you last longer than i will. Hows your dp doing, has he managed to not have one?? Is he working now, coudl he have a sneaky one?

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Diddle · 21/07/2005 08:12

ooooppppssss, must have pressed that twice

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HellKat · 21/07/2005 08:36

Not too bad so far. Atm seems to be more of a psychological addiction rather than a physical one. He'd doing great! Not had any luck so far on the job front, trying hard though! He stopped same time as me last night.
Good luck on giving up testing!!

maddyd · 21/07/2005 08:56

Morning Ladies how is everyone. Diddle you must be climbing the walls

HumphreysCorner · 21/07/2005 08:57

Good luck HellKat-you can do it! ((xx))

HellKat · 21/07/2005 09:12

Humphreys- Thankyou!!

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Diddle · 21/07/2005 09:22

maddyd - no time to wall climb, going to keep myself busy today and not think abou it, takign one of the litle ones to the garden centre so we can buy some plants and get all muddy, can't wait.

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spub · 21/07/2005 10:44

Sooo pleased to hear your tales of drunken misbehaviour!

Hope you are having a good day today.

I have a question about ovulation pain. I think I ovulated yesterday or it's maybe today! I have had some pain along the bottom of my tummy and on one side - tenderness, I suppose. And here's the odd bit - I jumped off the bottom stair and it really juddered me in those areas - felt a bit odd.
Anyone??? Or am I a freak? (whispers - always suspected there was a good chance.....)

ps - have been bdig like mad if that makes a difference?

maddyd · 21/07/2005 10:52

Spud sounds about right. i didnt get any pains this month but usually they come when least expect and is sudden and sharp. Sometimes it doubles me over for a few seconds and then is gone. I think most people have a dull ache for a few hours.

spub · 21/07/2005 11:01

Cheers Maddy,
Yup. Just checked the CM and it's clear and stretchy so despite having performed twice yesterday poor dh is gonna have to do his duty again tonight!!!
I am not obsessed, I am not obsessed, I am not obsessed....

spub · 21/07/2005 11:02

Diddle, Sorry meant to say good luck with the quitting smoking.
You can do it!!

HellKat · 21/07/2005 11:06

Spub- Thankyou hun! (It's me not Diddle that's quit lol). Yep I get ov pain too!

maddyd · 21/07/2005 11:23

i am obessed i am obessed i am obessed i am obessed i am obessed i am obessed i am obessed i am obessed i am obessed i am obessed i am obessed i am obessed i am obessed i am obessed i am obessed

I NEED HELP

maddyd · 21/07/2005 11:23

im also obsessed

spub · 21/07/2005 11:28

HK- D'oh! It's this being obsessed thing. Lost the plot big style!

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Diddle · 21/07/2005 12:25

you're all going mad.
Just got back from a lovely morning. time to make lunch for the little ones.
still no af, and feel very sick

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strike1 · 21/07/2005 12:51

afternoon obsessed ones.....I think my dh thinks I'm obsessed too, as he's been tied to the bed for a week and a half, but I've let him off now as I think the moment has passed (I was getting quite used to it though )

Just come back from the gym where I saw a pregnant lady, fitter than me running on the treadmill. I really wanted to go and ask her questions, cause it's one of the things I'm worried about when I get pg again. I don't want to stop exercising, but fear of having another m/c might make me paraniod! She looked fab, better than me non pregnant, cow

I have to add my drunken uni story even though it's a day late. One of my best friend in first year was this mad little Finnish girl who never stopped talking and one night at a party at my place we all got v drunk and v pissed off with her constant jabbering so 2 of us picked her up and carried her out to our massive wheely (sp?)bin outside the house and put her in it. She fitted in perfectly standing up! Then we shut the lid and sat on it having hyserics and continuing to drink in the street, till the nieghbours complained. Poor girl, I feel I should say sorry now, but it didn't shut her up though. Maybe they should try it on Science in the Big Brother house!

Sorry for the essay. I need lunch now.

spub · 21/07/2005 12:59

LOL at Strike putting poor little jabbering girl in the bin. Great mental image (in every sense!)
Diddle - fingers crossed. Are you testing today?

How's the obsessing going for you all?

cori · 21/07/2005 13:37

I had a terrible night, my fever came back and wouldnt shift with Panadol. I was awake til 5.00 am.
Obvioulsy couldnt go to work today, am feeling a bit guilty though. I had so much time off when I had M/C and am on A/L for the next two weeks.

I am about 7 days DPO now. My offical test date will be next Friday. WHo is testing with me?

strike1 · 21/07/2005 13:42

That's about the time I'll be testing. If I can wait that long!