TTC after a Miscarriage - A Fresh New Start

[Diddle]

Here we go, another new thread for us to fill with our highs and lows.

Lets start off with a good dusting of babydust, think all the rest we had has washed off in the rain

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Afternoon all! Playing in the garden today cause it's sooo lovely, hopefully getting a tan as well. Trying to get away with not doing any heavy work by convincing dh that last nights bding could have done the trick, so I should be resting on the sun lounger! I hope you're all having a lovely weekend. Fingers crossed hard for you diddle!

Quiet weekend here. 1st Time in 3 weeks ds1 has gone to his dads so making the most of quiet evenings .
Sorry for your bfn Diddle. Strange you're late though. Are you normally bang on time?
Strike- Sounds lovely! at not allowed to do heavy lifting.

yep normally on the dot or early, only been late once and not been pg and that was a couple of months ago.
enjoy you're quiet house

How infuriating!
Fingers crossed for something (preferably bfp) to happen.
Yep it's lovely and peaceful!

I've been trying to stay away from you guys as you're making me more obsessed with testing than I already am and had a bfn on Wed (I know, I know, AF not due until today so it was way too early even with the ultra early kits). Diddle, sorry to hear your news is the same so far, but let's be patient? (what's that?) Hope late AF is a good sign. I had shocking migraine Fri and this am (not good sign as usual just before AF but did also have some around 7 weeks with dd). The big test is tomorrow. I just want to know.

I reckon I'll play the can't lift in case game tomorrow too Strike and send DH out for the shopping. We've got friends coming for lunch and one's 11 weeks pg so I'd love to have a good result in the morning.

Fingers crossed for everyone x

Morning all!
Well who's tested?? Any bfp's??
Did yet another test last night. Bfn. Totally obsessed here .
Feel very odd today. Boobs have swollen to gastronomical size and hurt but have'nt got my "normal" pg symptoms (headaches, tiredness etc). Strange eh? I'm testing every couple of days anyhow. 1: because I've loads left and 2: because i love it .

madrush - good luck for testing? have you done it yet?? what did you get, abandon your guests and come and tell us.

HK when is AF due?? any day now?? keep testing!!!

I am not testing today, fed up of all these bfn's. not much sign of AF either, she must be coming soon. I can't possibly be pregnant, can I?
Might test tomorrow, if i can bear it, or if AF hasn't made an appearance

Diddle- af finished porperly a week ago but lastdregs, so to speak, finished Friday. Ohhh bet you're nervous as anything!

only one of two things can be making your af late. 1: stress or 2: you're pg. Ohhh I so hope you are!!!! Pg that is not stressed

i'm very curious as to whats going on. don't feel particularly stressed, feel quite relaxed actually, and normally when af is due i get very irritable and moody, but i'm not. I really hope that i am pg.

Does sound promising.

HI Hellkat its Diddles DH I think its a good sign too

Hiya Diddle's dh!
I'm keeping everything crossed for you both! Here's to some wonderful news!!!

Morning all. Working today means i can have tomorrow off though if i catch us.

How is everyone?? Diddle any news??

Question re cm???? Since the mc i have had no egg white cm. It goes really watery for a week before Ov. Im on day 13ish and its dried up sort of so dont know if im oving or not this weekend??? Of course we will bd anyway but its still very confusing. Have had no ov pains either

maddyd - have taken this from Fertility Friend,

In the most common pattern, cervical fluid starts out dry after your period and then gets sticky, then creamy, then wet and watery, becoming most like eggwhite as you get closer to ovulation. You may get different types of cervical fluid on the same day. Always record your most fertile cervical fluid to make sure that you do not miss a potentially fertile day.

So you're watery CM may be the closest you will get to ewcm. Mine dries up sometimes if i have been swimming or had a bath, for a couple of days. I would bd anyway. Sounds like it could be the right time for you.

No news for me yet. haven't tested today yet, DH keeps trying to convince me to, but i'm not sure that i want to. we'll see. i'm getting fed up of all the negatives.

Diddle try and leave it till tomorrow morning with your first wee. If it was neg yesterday i would say its best to wait 24 hours. Ive got evrything crossed for you. xxxxx

When were you last pg and did it take along time to concieve???

thanks maddyd, i was last pregnant, well the last m/c was the 3rd April, the first pg took 3 months to conceive and the 2nd took a few weeks. will try and wait now.

How about testing previoulsy? DFid you do it early or when you ere due?
My cm goes straight to watery so i think i must ov early, thats poss isnt it i think in some women???

This cm stuff is a real mystery to me.As I have mentioned before, never bothered to check with two previous pregs.In fact had unprotected sex on day 13 of cycle both times only, and conceived.Did samelast month and nothing.So now manic.Using OV texts but on stick 6 and no dark pink line.Yet on day 14 has clear stretchy cm, then white, now watery.Bd all the time (just in case).

Re Big Brother.Is it me but if I was in that house would you not say 'Anthony just come out of that closet,NOW!!'Del to win

Maddyd

I think your the nearest to me re cycle days. Are you ov testing or just checking your knickers?

Trying not to get too obsevie this month Chocolate peanut so no ov sticks or anything just going by cm. Its strange you got watery after your egg, Just goes to show we are all different. I am on day 13 today as pnly had two day af this month if that.

And what did Anthony do???? I fell asleep last night

Me too but just been reading sun papers and thought its so obvious.DH refusing towatch it as it winds him up so much (and we cant have that now can we?!!)

Hello girls

Phew-just come in and had a bath. DH & DD have been out for the count over the last few hours and it was me that slaved away preparing for DD's party yesterday. It was a lovely day and realised that I drunk a full bottle of Blossom Hill to myself and not a sniff of a hangover. Yay!

Did a stick test and the stupid feint pink line has started appearing again. Did another one this moring and still there-it appears in the 5-10 mins the leaflet tells you to wait. Bah-stupid hormones! TMI coming up. When I wiped myself earlier I had some watery pink blood on the tissue. It is not the usual browny pink that I normally have before a period. It is actually like all the stuff that came out when I lost my virginity. I will do another test on Tuesday and see if the line goes-I will have to order more tests.

Diddle-I still have everything crossed for you girl. ((xx))

HellKat-AF still gone I see. How on earth did Makosi get in the bottom 2 in Big Bro??? Get rid of Eugene! I missed it last night so what did happen?

Hope you have all had a lovely, relaxing weekend. I'm off to have a glass of wine now (surprise, surprise).

Byee for now
x

Afternoon all, Failed to convince dh that I should take it easy on the gardening this weekend due to possible conception. So I'm now knackered cause I've been digging flower beds all day! At what point in my life did gardening rather than pubbing at the weekend seem like a good idea?
Good luck for tomorrow morning if you test diddle. I'm convinced that the last few days have done the trick and I can feel things happening. If nothing else I've got a good imagination. Glad the party went well HC. Enjoy the rest of your Sunday ladies.