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yellowflowers · 03/02/2009 18:41

Thought I'd take the plunge and begin new thread to follow on from this one thread

All welcome.
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funtimewincies · 27/03/2009 12:34

Sorry to hear that pinky, good luck for next month and have some wine and choccie to keep your strength up.

ray81 · 27/03/2009 12:42

funtime, funny you should say that as the mc i have had have all been in the 6th week so if i can get passed that i will be abit more confident too.

wasabipeanut · 27/03/2009 12:43

Pinky I'm sorry to hear you are out for this month. Your wishes for me are very kind but I think it is fairly futile as tested this morning and got BFN.

Shouldn't have tested because I have now wasted my last 10miu test. Oh well. At 13 days po it would be showing something by now if there was any hope for this month.My normally short luteal phase has now it seems been made longer since my mc which means longer 2WW's in future! Terrific.

Funtime - I'd be surprised if you weren't being neurotic hon. Have you looked into an early scan yet?

Broodzilla · 27/03/2009 12:56

Hi Ladies,

Thought I'd check in. Seems to be a lucky thread, can't believe how many BFPs have come in over the last few weeks! I really hope everyone will graduate by the deadline, it sure is looking good!

Pinky sorry to hear AF got you this month.
Wasabi catfood in the garden IS a good sign, I'm sure Whiskas haven't changed their recipe for a more pungent version!
Yellow FWIW... I also had a temp dip a few days PO. It was actually someone on this thread who made me think it might have been a good sign, and so it was!
Also, sleeping like a log has definitely been one of my main symptoms - I'm usually a night owl, I take ages to fall asleep and then wake up throughout the night to check the time/listen to noises/jolt from a dream. Since the BFP (if not before it even!) I've been falling asleep pretty much right away and sleeping through the night. Even stranger, I seem to have lost my morning sleepiness! I did stop loosing hair in the shower around getting the BFP but that was temporary.

I really hope that you (or anyone else) don't find the listing of symptoms patronising, I'm by no means a pregnancy expert, but just wanted to reassure you.

I've had a strange week... I had the booking in appointment with the Midwife the other day and you have to fill in this long list of symptoms/family history. Well, I'd been having strange spotting for a couple of days, like rusty water or something, and had decided not to worry too much after obsessive googling and MNing seemed to show that it's normal... well, the MW was concerned and told me to go to the Early Pregnancy Assessment Clinic at a nearby hospital.

After a sleepless night (and an argument with DH who complained that it was "inconvenient at such short notice" for him to go in to work late as I wanted him to come with me!!!) we went to the Clinic yesterday morning. They were brilliant and did an emergency scan. (Not too pleasant as it was an internal one, but who cares!)

It seemed to take half an eternity for the radiologist to speak, but then she turned the screen towards us and there was our little bean. The heartbeat looks like a blinking star, it's amazing!

Anyway, I'm 8 weeks and would be due for AF, and apparently some women get "hormonal" bleeds around this time. They couldn't see where the bleeding was coming from but said the bean looks healthy and everything is in the right place. They said that I might get the same again at 12 weeks and suggested pushing back the private scan that we had booked, so will now have it at 12 weeks instead. The nurse told me that if it happens again, I should come home and lay down and just take it easy.

They gave us an EDD of 02.11. and the funniest thing? They'd kept working from the LMP but I kept telling them that I know the conception date (thank you fertilityfriend!) and they just kept nodding their heads and going, well, we do go by LMP... turns out that the bean is on the dot conceived on the day I knew it to be! They had to adjust their dates by nearly a week (I ovulate early.)

Right, sorry about the long ramble.

Wishing everyone a happy weekend with babydust and AF repellent all around!

yellowflowers · 27/03/2009 12:56

youare right pinkie - and sorry AF arrived.
Well hilariously (?) I have put down my appt letter somewhere and mislaid it- so can't go online until I find it!

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yellowflowers · 27/03/2009 17:06

So I have found my letter and made appt but am confused because on same day the doctor referred me to two clinics both gynacology - one for fertility and one to check out whether my oral thrush is that or indeed something else called Lichen (for which you get seen at a 'Vulva Clinic' - I've only received one letter so far and because both gynacology I realised I actually don't know whether this is for fertility or for the other. Have rung doctor and waiting for them to find out for me but I hate hospital bureaucracy so much and this has reminded me why and I just want to cry.

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Pinkyblue123 · 27/03/2009 17:26

Oh Yellow no wonder the NHS is such a mess, why do they have to make it so confusing? I hope that your doctor can clear up the confusion for you shortly.

C1NDY · 27/03/2009 17:51

Hi all, have updated the list.... yes, I had a MC at 12 weeks... absolutely gutted but that's life. Going to dust myself down and will be back here soon. Life is a rollercoaster!

hopeforbundleofjoy AF due around 28th feb and still waiting...
Lovelymonster Af due 19th March
Pinkyblue123 AF due 23rd April
Wasabi - AF due 27th March
Yellowflowers AF due 3rd April
Joolsiam AF due 11th April
Flintski - Af due mid-april
Kittycatcat - AF due 23rd/24th April
whatsfortea AF due 26th April(ish)
Cindy - will be on here soon to TTC again!

Graduates:-
Heebychick BFP
BeckyMcG BFP
BoosieBoo BFP
Sn0wflake BFP
Pezzina BFP
SmileyCat BFP EDD 09/09/09
Spats BFP
WanabeMum BFP EDD 19th Sept!
iggypiggy BFP
Queenie1 BFP
Broodzilla BFP
Kyte BFP
Funtimewincies BFP
Ray81 - BFP

yellowflowers · 27/03/2009 18:00

oh C1ndy I am so sorry. Bug hugs coming your way. Life is so unfair.
x

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Broodzilla · 27/03/2009 18:59

C1ndy so, so sorry to hear the news.
Big hugs. X

wasabipeanut · 27/03/2009 19:23

Oh C1ndy I'm so very sorry. We are here when and if you want to talk.

x

flintski · 27/03/2009 19:34

Oh C1ndy - I am so sorry for your loss.

funtimewincies · 27/03/2009 19:52

Just wanted to say how sorry I am to hear about your mc. I know that it's not the done thing, but I'm sending you huge hugs anyway.

whatsfortea · 27/03/2009 19:54

C1ndy, am so sorry to hear your sad news

x

Pinkyblue123 · 28/03/2009 09:13

Oh Cindy I am so sorry for your loss. It is so hard especially at 12 weeks as it is just at the time you are starting to relax. Big hugs coming your way, we are all here for you.

Joolsiam · 28/03/2009 11:16

Oh C1ndy - I am SO sorry to hear this

Life really is sh!t sometimes. I know exactly what you must be going through and the only thing I can say is be kind to yourself, don't bottle up your emotions - scream and shout and rant if you feel the need.

come back and chat to us whenever you want, or have a chat to Emmsys Angels in the MC forum - they were my lifeline. ((( )))

queenie1 · 28/03/2009 12:17

cindy - like everyone else, really, really sorry to hear your sad news. Thinking of you.
xxxx

Joolsiam · 29/03/2009 21:04

Helloooooooo - there is an echo in here today !

C1ndy - have been thinking about you all weekend and I hope you are doing OK-ish ? I remember the feelings like it was yesterday, after an MC at around the same time. If it would help to talk one to one, just let me know and I'll give you my email address. I'm glad you found Emmsys Angels (although I don't post there very much any more, I still drop in from time to time - not stalking, honest )

How is everyone else doing ? I'm now on my first proper 2WW since Dec, despite not planning on TTC this month - it just happened, the day before OV

yellowflowers · 29/03/2009 21:36

Hi jools I'm on the 2ww too. Finding it quite hard. Have been shattered and needing naps all week but putting it down to some kind of flu.

Hope you're doing okay c1ndy

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iggypiggy · 30/03/2009 10:03

C1indy so sorry to read this. Echo what the others have said xx

yellowflowers · 30/03/2009 11:42

How are you all this week?

10 dpo and temp quite low so am not hopeful. Expecting spotting to start any minute soon. A bit depressed about it all today.

Have been (naughtily) doing internet cheapies and not even the faintest glimmer of a faint line.

I do feel exhausted though and have done for days and feel a bit odd and befuddled, but think I am coming down with something.

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yellowflowers · 30/03/2009 12:26

Also I got through to Doctor. Hospital appt I got is for the thrush/lichen problem? But they said I should receive letter with fertility appt soon.

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Pinkyblue123 · 30/03/2009 13:03

Hello all.

Sorry you are feeling a bit low Yellow the later part of the two week wait is the pits!!

Fingers crossed for you too Jools

Thinking of you Cindy

Any news Wasabi? Last we heard you were still waiting for AF?

Well I actually managed to take my temp this morning (CD4) who would have thought it would be such a difficult thing!! So hopefully my new months resolution of temping will happen after all!!

Joolsiam · 30/03/2009 13:59

Quick question for the BFP'ers who got creamy CM during the 2WW - can you remember roughly what DPO ??

Yes, 2 or 3 DPO and I'm symptom spotting already

queenie1 · 30/03/2009 14:09

jools - I got it around 10-11dpo I think and it continues on and off. Glad to hear you're on a 2ww this month! Here's hoping for you, yellow and anyone else...

wasabi - any news?

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