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[romilly]

i am very honoured to start the april first thread (thanks george ) for the TTC for the cautious girls! (and not forgetting the blondes, dramaqueen )...and anyone else who like to join us.

please start with quick stats so we know where you're at, thanks

rom 38 yrs old
ttc no. 1
cycle 3 (after m/c end. dec 04)
CD9
uses temps/persona

thanks ladies for all support piffle bfp???
lilsmum congratsBella (((HUGS))) know exactly how u feel hun i really do it feels like a knife cutting through you.And if one more person says to me relax it will happen i swear ill punch them in the mouth.I thank god ive got this thread and you ladies to talk too.xx

well af has just arrived the only consolation is at least i wont have the added worry of a v early pg when goin on hols on 27th to cuba ((trying to tell myself trhat anyhow))

tabs - no secret, wish there was so i could pass to all you guys on here

cant do the proper baby dust thing but will give you some i can do ^~~~~~~~~~

sorry best i can do, but because its so rubbish it may just work lol.

good luck ladies, hope you all get BFP very soon!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

tabs - no secret, wish there was so i could pass to all you guys on here

cant do the proper baby dust thing but will give you some i can do ^~~~~~~~~~

sorry best i can do, but because its so rubbish it may just work lol.

good luck ladies, hope you all get BFP very soon!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

congratulations lilsmum

OMG u lot can talk! (i['m only cos our internet at work has been cut off!) lol.

anyhow here goes,

LilM - Big congrats girl! glad u weren't here long (in a nice way that is!)

Piffle - did u get the BFP? come on girl let us know!

Chuffed - did u manage to get some tests? what was the outcome?

Bella - i've read that too, apparently u need to BD on a monday at 5am, noon and anytime in the evening is ment to be goo d as well, but only in a new/waxing moon can't see DH letting me get my end away if I wake him up at 5am! althou iu've told him this weekend to be prepared to not leave the bedroom! lol, we can't BD till thurs cos of this op thingy so he'll be getting chained down from friday night till tues night! (allowing of course for a quick loo break every two hours!)

charlee - good luck for next week hon (((hugs))) i'm sure it's nothing to worry about, so put ur feet up and try to relax. hopefully all u'll need is a few pills and u'll be on ur way again. has the DR given u any ideas as to what it might be?

wend (((hugs)))) sorry about AF hon. I was really rooting for u this month as well. well, for what it's worth young Tania on the TTC boards gell on her first attempt at IVF, so fingers crossed the same will happen for you as well. we're all here for you thou if u need to vent/ let things out. ((((hugs))))

Spacecad - ((((((hugs))))))) I know exactly how u feel hon, but u can't think like that, I know thta makes me sound like a heartless cow anne or something (and i've been there so I know whaht it's like) but the more you tourture urself the harder it will become to move on, it will never be right or fair that u lost ur little one, u'll have good days and bad, but please don't tourture ur self with thinking what ifs etc.. it's taken niy on 6 years for me to stop doing that. keep ur pecker up hon, we'll have our babies and they'll be all the more special cos we've had to wait for them. (not meaning those that didn't wait aren't special but u see what i'm getting at here)

Hula - is this the same house as b4 or a differnt one?

Rom - fingers crossed for u this month then hon! any signs yet? testing on the w/e is it?

well good news here. Had a letter today from the DR's and my tests were all clear, I don't have chlymidia (sp) YAY!!!! I have rubella immunities and don't have anemia so all that is to weight and see the results of thursdays tests which I should know right away. CD 4 here and absolutly nothing happeneing, not even a slight glimmer of DH's winkle coming near me still as he's off work at the mo i'm enjoying him pampering me!

debbs (((hugs)))) sorry about AF, althou on holiday - YAY!!!! expect a BFP from u for next month! lol.

munz in reply to your question my g.p said it probably hormonal but thats when it was light bleeding but i rang her today and she just said i would have to wait for a scan she did some blood tests incase my thyroid is playing up and done a full blodd count to see if all the blodd loss has effected me if it has i can get an emergency scan. im so worried i know it sound dramatic but my mum had alot of bleeding after she had me she was diagnosed with tumors on her overies and they did a full hystorectomy im only 18 if i had the same thing what would i do?????????

wooohhhh hold ur horses there hon, we'll deal with that next week if and when it arrises which hopefully all being well it won't do. hopefully all you'll need as I say is a few pills of somesort, i'm sure the medical world has come a long way since it happened to your mum, hopefully they wouldn't look to a hystorectomy as a first port of call for you at 18. but we'll have to just ride it out with you and hope for the best. ((((((((((hugs))))))))))). is there no chance to get an emergancy scan anyhow? surely it's not good to be loosin so much blood? (could be somehting simple like the cervix doesn't close?) is that possible girls? (i don't know but just thinking out aloud) try to keep ur chin up, I know it's hard. but we're all here for u.

thanks munz thats sweet of you, its not my cervix i have been examined and everything looks fine which according to my g.p is a good sign its only hormonal so im hoping thats all it is so i can start hormone therapy and and get over it. i know its silly to think the worst and a hystorectomy wont be the first port of call but i do worry, anyway thanks again fingers crossed.
congrats lilsmum and good luck to everyone else will keep you updated as i get my blood test results tomorrow. xxx thanks again

i spent 2 mths in a gynae unit not last year year before they will not do a hysterctomy they will explore every single avenue they can first so dont think that will happen and like munz says medicine has moved on so much since then i should know i work in the pharmaceutical industry so please please dont think the worst as there is NO WAY they would give a young girl or even a woman under 40 without trying EVERYTHING ELSE FIRST you could have cysts that keep bursting that was what i had.Munz great news on tests.Im trying to smile today but cant feel so so down.

ah see hormones we can deal with! hormones are easier, choc sorts hormones out! so get urself off to tescos and buy a nice big bar of dairy milk! let us know how u go, will have everyhting crossed for u.

also as well, just talking to my nan who recons we all need to talk to our gardian angels each day as ask for what we want cos eventually we get it - not sure on that one buit anything's worht a shot surely?

thanks debsy you have made me feel alot better im just sorry i cant make you feel better, and i now your probably sick of hearing it but im sure it will happen for you and when it does all your heartache will be worth wile im sure, {{{hugs}}} for you though enjoy your holiday xxxx

No wonder no ones getting pg, your all on her chatting,

Lottielou what a lovely welcome, thankyou and good luck to you too.

Spacecadet hope you are ok, try not tp dwell too much honey, i know its hard. its 25 days sice my mc and im feeling guilty for ttcing, but it will mend my heart so im going for it. When we do fall we will help each other through it, ok?????(cp3)i changed my name in memory of my lost baby.

llismum, i told you that cm was a good sign. Well done, im so pleased for you, when is it due then?

Sorry to all those af's arriving.

thanks maddy, yes you were right... a faint line is a positive isnt it? starting to doubt a little now, it was a cheap test called reveal think it is 50mlu(or what ever the letters are!)think i need to do a clearblue digital to put my mind at rest now, guess its just the shock

ooops forgot to add....16th jan due date! hope you get a BFP soon

back on the band wagon hopefully for the final month just brought 11 clearblue ovulation kits bot my fertile time will be before we go away a few days b4 infact.

Oh god no dont worry. My tests have been very light all four times. A line is a line is a line.

CONGRATULATIONS YOU DID IT GIRL

maddy i know who you are cp3 i remember you im so sorry about your mc

Wow, Lilsmum congrats to you

Piffle OMG BFP?

piffle and lils mum congrates on ur pos tests...

Rom and bella u r deffo top of the pile huns please keep going.
Wendy hugs hun im sory about af but as DQ said ur twins are on order..lol

Well like DQ cant believe how many new ladies on the thread feel completely out the loop...we will deffo start our baby thread for thos eof us who were on here...will get DQ to think og good title..lol I am 8 +3wks today and am seeing mw tommorow to beg her for a scan..even though i have one booked for 2nd june.
Take care all and keep these fab orders coming

Well dh did concede yes he can see a line, but hey it'll be there in 2 weeks if you test again right?
bloody men...
Am still not convinced myself...
Have Rom's lucky thread to thank if I am

Wow lilsmum too, hello and goodbye already
How did I miss your post!!!!!!!!
Congrats to you xxxx

Thankyou Debsy, thats sweet of you. i didnt change my name to become annoymninous(sp) its just a way for me to make the baby real to me as so many people can dismiss a mc as if it wasnt a baby.

Wow Piffle i cant believe it. A huge well done to you. I knew it would happen soon.

Hi Ladies

Not posted much lately but for all who remember.....went away at weekend with DH and went for it with the alcohol...been tee-total since m/c so enjoyed it!!
Going to test at weekend if AF not here....have done a test which was negative but decided it was probably too early as only CD22 and my cycle is usually 30 days.
Congrats to your BFP Piffle and Lilsmum!! Great news!!
Hoping it will be me soon!