Still here and now hoping for a OCTOBER baby!!! Everyone welcome please join me :)

[bubblebell1]

Af finally arrived so if this was my lucky month then i would be due in Oct.

Bubblebell1 ttc#3 ucl 30 cd1

Please come and join me add yourselves to the list We can try and keep each other sane

Arrghh another BFN today and still no AF. This is day 31/32 of a usually 28 day cycle and the longest cycle I've had before is 30 days. The BFN was very clear, no hint of a positive so I'm sure I'm not pg and would just like my period now please.

early i will prob test on sunday... should probably leave it a couple more days, but due on sat so might not be able to wait longer. Assuming that is AF doesn't get me first!

Morning All, I'm on the 1ww and it's killing me! Been symptom spotting like mad but due to bad timing of colds/DH working away, I'll be frankly amazed if I get a BFP. Determined not to test early though...

Bubble - Keep the faith, you may still have a BFP. With DD, I had a BFP one day (day before I was due because I was feeling v nauseous), 2 BFN's the next 2 days, a BFP 3 days later then a confirmed positive from the doc. What a rollercoaster that was!! Hope I get a clear cut answer either way this time. Got my sister coming up this weekend so hopefully it will take my mind off waiting to test.

Really worried that my DH will be upset if I'm not pg. He's so broody at the moment and keeps talking about baby names... Keep trying to soften the blow just in case by saying that it may not happen so quickly this time and if not, at least we can go out for drinks for his birthday next month but it seems to go in one ear and out the other.

How's everyone else feeling who's waiting to test? Babydust to all *

girl AF got me on sunday but only bled for 2 days so tested again today. BFN. Gonna be BDing like crazy in Feb! Probably fate coz I am going on Holiday in Aug and wouldnt have been able to go if PG now. Getting PG feb or march will be perfect. I think I am messing up my body by getting up tight about. Babies are all I can think about.

Hi early Sorry to hear about AF and BFN

I'm really worried that if I'm not pg this month, I'm going to get waaaay to uptight too. I wouldn't like to think how often I think about having another baby/am I pg/ttc each day. My sister and SIL both ttc really hard but took years but as soon as they decided to give up, they got pg.

If we're both on the Nov thread, we'll have to keep each other grounded and hopefully we'll both be pg in no time!

Hi this is a first time for me but i have been reading everybodys messages for months so i thought i'd join in.I have a 3 year old girl and had a misscarriage last nov at 12 wks. My LMP started on 24TH Dec and have been TTC all month, my cycle is difficult as it can be between 28 and 52 days, done 2 x HPT which were NEG but had EWCM last sat on day 33 don't know when to do another test now. Thanks for any advice

Hi Rosie, welcome. I think a "normal" lutal phase is between 10 -14 days (approx 2 weeks), so you should probably think about testing 14 days after the day you think you ov'd, so if you had EWCM on CD33 than I would test on CD47. It must be really frustrating to have such unpredictable cycles, were they like this before the MC? Mine has been much longer since my MC in sept.

Hi Ladies, I need to talk. I have been feeling really anxious today. I am worried that having another baby would be the wrong thing to do. We have money issues which would only be compounded if we have another. On the other hand not having one would break my heart. Money isnt everything! Right?!

Hi earlynite. Would it really be so bad if you have another baby? Are you working?

Hi half I work school hours (5days) and have a really good maternity package. If I did have another I would like to work less hours as I did with DS (3 days). I am probably panicing over nothing but the current economic climate worries me. I have friends who are being made redundant left right and centre. We have pretty secure jobs but it is still scary.

I work full time and have been thinking along the same lines. But on the other hand I'm no spring chicken and had a rubbish time last baby so want to get this over and done with before I change my mind!

The world economy is such a massive thing which could go either way. I am not worrying about it. Plan for it yes but don't worry.

On another note my boobs are still feeling massive and sore but I am not really feeling preggers today. Just a bit wobbly (boobs usually nothing to write home about) and tired. Might be early nighting myself.

half I might have missed it but are you testing soon?

Im not due on til next weekend so its a while yet....you?

Deffo going to bed now. Internet being really slow here too. Night.

Actually, i have already had BFN and AF. I have joined the November thread but can't seems to leave you lot! Will be BDing as if my life depends on it in Feb.

Hi All,

Been lurking and not posting much as really fed up with long unpredictable cycle.

AF got me today on CD43. Fed up and not going to join the November thread as with cycle length the way it is would probably need to go straight to December.

Congratulations on all the BFPs and sympathies for those who got caught by AF. Best of luck to those on the 2WW.

mint im sorry af got you. big hugs and lots of luck for this cycle x

haven't had an updated list for awhile so have had a go. Hope its right!

Mummyto2littleangels ttc#3 cycle 1 cd39
Girlwithacurl ttc#1 cycle 10 CD38
aideesmum ttc#2 cycle4 CD37
WaitingforaSproglettoFall ttc#1 cycle1 CD33
mrsdisorganised ttc#5 cycle 5 CD32
JeanieG ttc#4 cycle2 CD30
Hobnobfanatic ttc#2 cycle 2 CD30
pinkie08 ttc#2 cycle12 CD29
Warmseabreeze ttc#? cycle 7 CD29
Bubblebell1 ttc#3 cycle 2 CD27
Amanda12 ttc#4 cycle1 CD27
1littleprincess ttc#2 cycle7 CD27
Hackneybird ttc#1 cycle 1 cd27
WizzyWoo ttc#2 cycle 1 CD26
iggypiggy ttc#1 cycle 4 CD25
Fatandiknowit ttc#1 cycle1 CD25
Ralphie0596 ttc#1 cycle1 CD24
Lovelylullaby ttc#2 cycle1 cd24
Mosschops30 ttc#3 cycle2 cd23
Andi0411 ttc#2 cycle1 cd23
Joy27 ttc#1 cycle6 cd32
Jumpingjellyfish ttc#3 cycle8 cd20
Smallone ttc#2 cycle6 cd20
irishmumwannabe ttc#1 cycle 5 cd19
Halhmumhalfbiscuit ttc#2 cycle 1 cd19
Gateau ttc#2 cycle 3 cd16
GettingStarted ttc #1 cycle 3 cd13
Mensareject ttc#3 cycle2 cd10
Missiemoosmummy ttc# cycle3 cd8
Angelfairy ttc#1 cycle2 cd8
earlynite ttc#2 cycle1 CD6
ForcesSweetheart ttc#2 cycle5 cd6
Eeyore ttc#1 cycle2 cd5
dancingqueeen ttc#1 cycle 3 cd5
Littlemiss26 ttc#2 cycle 1 CD?
Pavlovthecat ttc#2 cycle? cd?
thegauntlet ttc#? cycle? cd?

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morning girl have some of the ladies at the top had their af? how long are your cycles normally? good luck for when u test x

had a look back and some have sadly left us.
here is another list... hopefully some more bfps will be here soon.

sadly all pg and af symptoms have left me and im getting that sinking feeling that af isnt gonna show for 3 months again.

Mummyto2littleangels ttc#3 cycle 1 cd39
Girlwithacurl ttc#1 cycle 10 CD38
aideesmum ttc#2 cycle4 CD37
mrsdisorganised ttc#5 cycle 5 CD32
JeanieG ttc#4 cycle2 CD30
pinkie08 ttc#2 cycle12 CD29
Warmseabreeze ttc#? cycle 7 CD29
Bubblebell1 ttc#3 cycle 2 CD27
Amanda12 ttc#4 cycle1 CD27
1littleprincess ttc#2 cycle7 CD27
Hackneybird ttc#1 cycle 1 cd27
WizzyWoo ttc#2 cycle 1 CD26
iggypiggy ttc#1 cycle 4 CD25
Fatandiknowit ttc#1 cycle1 CD25
Ralphie0596 ttc#1 cycle1 CD24
Lovelylullaby ttc#2 cycle1 cd24
Mosschops30 ttc#3 cycle2 cd23
Andi0411 ttc#2 cycle1 cd23
Joy27 ttc#1 cycle6 cd32
Jumpingjellyfish ttc#3 cycle8 cd20
Smallone ttc#2 cycle6 cd20
irishmumwannabe ttc#1 cycle 5 cd19
Halhmumhalfbiscuit ttc#2 cycle 1 cd19
Gateau ttc#2 cycle 3 cd16
GettingStarted ttc #1 cycle 3 cd13
Mensareject ttc#3 cycle2 cd10
Missiemoosmummy ttc# cycle3 cd8
Angelfairy ttc#1 cycle2 cd8
earlynite ttc#2 cycle1 CD6
ForcesSweetheart ttc#2 cycle5 cd6
Eeyore ttc#1 cycle2 cd5
dancingqueeen ttc#1 cycle 3 cd5
Littlemiss26 ttc#2 cycle 1 CD?
Pavlovthecat ttc#2 cycle? cd?
thegauntlet ttc#? cycle? cd?

Morning Ladies, it's just amazing that we can find out so many things almost instantly or at a click of a button, but yet have to wait what seems and feels like a lifetime in order to find out whether we are pregnant! go figure?

Sorry for those of you who got AF, she's so damm mean

Morning All. Early how are you feeling today? I keep having the same kind of thoughts as you, but usually depending on what DD's behaviour has been like each day. One day I can't wait to be pg and have #2 but others I panic about what if I am pg because DD's tantrums + new baby would be too much to cope with... then follows another panic that the previous panic has jinxed me - this ttc business has me all over the place, believe it or not, I'm renowned by colleagues for being "the calm one"!!

I'm desperately trying to hold off testing early but I can't stop thinking about it. I thought my cycle was 31 days, which it had been since laparoscopy last year but it always used to be 28 days. But I think I ov'd on day 14 of my cycle, which presumably would make it 28 days? So in theory, I could test on Sunday, which would be cd28... oh, I'm so confused and impatient - someone slap me!!

Hi girls, earlynight I hope you are feeling less anxious today. I am TTC for a first baby and keep thinking about how much everything will change and all the lovely things in my life that I would have to give up... but then the overhelming urge to reproduce washes over me and it is all forgotten again! The other thing I try to remind myself is that the changes in your life-style / money worries etc are all probably quite short-term, but a baby is forever!
Bubble - are you ok? Poor you. Do you know if you ovulated? I really hope you don't end up with another endless cycle-from-hell.

Hello Ladies

Does anyone remeber me!?

Im still here ttc, was completely able to put ttc behind me over xmas but all of a sudden this week i seem to have sunk to depression, no af and i have no idea whats going on???

I no some of you will remember me as reg symptom spotting etc but i can promise you since i was unlucky just before xmas i havfent been think about this at all, bit this week i havent been able to get out of my dressing gown or stop crying over nothing, im telling myself this is just bad pms and this is the first day i have let myself log back on to mn!! I darent test though i havent had a period since 16th Dec - came late on though about 9pm!.

Any advice ladies, today is day 45 i think counting the 17th as cd 1.

i see there asre so many new faces as well as some old faces - and there is a few faces i cant see, congrats to anyone who has graduated while i have been gone and good luck to anyone who like me is still hoping and wishing! xxxx