Strictly Come Baby Dancing - TTC Waiting Room & Dance Floor!

[MollieMooma]

OK girls, will go and get the list, but have lots of comfy sofa's and chairs, chocolate cake and virtual champagne.

Good luck and positive vibes to us all!

I will be 39 before I can try again. I want to give up. I can't do this anymore. and I wish I wasn't in work.

Hi everyone

Oh Beanie You must be very frustrated, i find it very strange though !! Dont give up hun, we've been trying on/off 14 years and consistently told to go away and keep trying because they cant find anything wrong, im 36 now and going back to hospital soon, they cant ignore us forever !! Dont give up hope xx

Hope everyone had a nice weekend, me and DH are off this week, im now CD12 and got crampy stomach so dont think it is going to be our month again !!

D xx

Glastochick CD2 Cycle 20 TTC #1
Zen1980 CD5 Cycle 1 since m/mc Jan09 TTC#1
Dawni CD12 Cycle 6 TTC#2 (Had a break)
ShayeraHol CD9 cycle 15 TTC#1
MollieMooma CD13 Cycle 5 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
Kyte CD15 Cycle 1 TTC#2
Jaamy CD18 cycle 19 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
ClaireDeLoon CD20 Cycle 18 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
blackrock CD23 Cycle 21 TTC#2
Comma2 CD27 cycle 5 TTC#2
beanieb CD29 Cycle 19 TTC#1
thegreatescape CD39 Cycle 6 TTC#2
louisplayingthewaitinggame CD50 Cycle17 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
Pinkie08 CD51 cycle 12 TTC#2
WaitingforaSproglettoFall CD55
Sparkly CD57 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
Insertsomethingwittyhere CD73 Cycle 8 TTC#1
PeaceLily CD86 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Sunnyandwild CD92 ttc #1
happyandEiknowit CD96 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD99 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
bubblebell1 CD119 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)
Babybump2b BFP 30th Nov
VJay BFP 22nd Dec (CD33 cycle mc June08 & Oct08)
theboob BFP
mummy2t BFP
herethereandeverywhere BFP 25th Jan

Glastochick CD2 Cycle 20 TTC #1
beanieb CD3 Cycle 20 TTC#1
Zen1980 CD5 Cycle 1 since m/mc Jan09 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD9 cycle 15 TTC#1
Dawni CD12 Cycle 6 TTC#2 (Had a break)
MollieMooma CD13 Cycle 5 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
Kyte CD15 Cycle 1 TTC#2
Jaamy CD18 cycle 19 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
ClaireDeLoon CD20 Cycle 18 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
blackrock CD23 Cycle 21 TTC#2
Comma2 CD27 cycle 5 TTC#2
thegreatescape CD39 Cycle 6 TTC#2
louisplayingthewaitinggame CD50 Cycle17 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
Pinkie08 CD51 cycle 12 TTC#2
WaitingforaSproglettoFall CD55
Sparkly CD57 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
Insertsomethingwittyhere CD73 Cycle 8 TTC#1
PeaceLily CD86 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Sunnyandwild CD92 ttc #1
happyandEiknowit CD96 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD99 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
bubblebell1 CD119 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)
Babybump2b BFP 30th Nov
VJay BFP 22nd Dec (CD33 cycle mc June08 & Oct08)
theboob BFP
mummy2t BFP
herethereandeverywhere BFP 25th Jan

sorry to see you back at the top too glastochick

Congratulations sparkly I am so happy for you and missed the news when I was here earlier.

Congrats comma am sending out good wishes that your line gets darker x

waves to beanieb. Seems like an age since I've had a cycle buddy. In the nicest of possible ways, I wish I wasn't still seeing you here though.

glasto and beanie - am gutted to see you both back at the top.
beanie It's so %$%&% stupid!! I'll be keeping everything crossed for a birthday BFP for you.

Thanks ya all! How sweet of you. The line was still there this morning, but no darker yet.

Beanie, so sorry this is not working out smoothly. I suppose you couldn't have the test done somewhere else? Might be worth to give the office a ring and ask?
I know it prob doesn't help, but I have a bunch of girl friends over 40 and pregnant/with new babes. Hang in there.

I read of a study where they gave baby aspiring to unexplained infertile women, and significantly more got pregnant. Was just something I foudn on the web, but I took some this cycle. Did it help? Mibbe.

Comma A very good friend of mine did the baby asprin thing and texted me today to tell me to take it! I haven't looked into it yet but she was TTC for 4 years and then had a few m/cs. The baby asprin did the trick and she now has 1YO DD.....I've been told not to test or temp anymore by some of the girls here and I'm determined not to as I know I'll only worry. Sending you lots of sticky vibes.

thank you Comma. I will call and see because I don't think I am being pushy enough, the place I am having it is not the same as the place I go for the consultation so maybe they could do it ?

How much baby asprin do people take?

Comma Congratulations
Dawni Hello and welcome, gosh 14 years is one heck of a long time! Fingers crossed we can bring you some luck
Zen Now you are back on the list that's one more hurdle you have crossed, well done
Beanie Bloody NHS are so crap, it seems to be a common theme everywhere, although that isn't going to make you feel any better. You can't give up, we won't let you, just keep venting on here, if all we can do is offer a shoulder to cry on or an ear to listen then that's we'll do. I really feel for you and understand the frustration ] I can't imagine you not being pushy enough, take all your frustration out on the person that answers the phone and get something sorted, tell them it's just not good enough and if necessary write and complain, if it only speeds things up for the next person it will make you feel a little better. The baby aspirin is 75mg daily up to 34wks btw.
Sparkly I am definately going to take the baby aspirin when I get my bfp, the registrar I saw recently couldn't tell me to do it officially but said it wouldn't hurt and if it made me feel better and more positive then it could only do good, but she stated there was no research to show a definate link between successful pg/s, but they always cover their arses don't they?!
Glasto Long time no hear, hope you are OK?

Thanks Mollie

I have been to the gp and they are going to refer me for some counselling so I feel a bit more positive and in control today.

Beanie Am pleased to read that your GP is being supportive. Could you take some time off work until you feel better?

Am off work now, and planning in going back Thursday

Oh Beanie. Big hugs to you. GLad your GP is being bhelpful, if somewhat delayed. Sorry you've had to shout a bit to get some attention and hopefully making a bit of a fuss will kick them into action.Did your GP say whether he could do anything about getting your HSG elsewhere?
Can you stay off work any longer and get a really good rest? I'm not sure whether you enjoy your job. Perhaps the stress of that won't help. On the other hand if it is something that you enjoy it might prove a welcome distraction. x

Have a hug Beanie, put you feet up and have a good rest. Agree with Jaamy on asking about HSG.

Beanie I second the suggestions to take more time off work if you can (or will that stress you more?) I had counselling last year and found it invaluable, I really hope you get something out of it like I did

Hi Mollie. I'm ok, thanks . Hanging in there. Just waiting now for our referral to be processed to the IVF clinic. Every day passes so slowly. DH has had a barrage of tests but the Urology department haven't been able to locate a blockage or anything obvious which is causing his azoospermia. They have recommended a biopsy which, I believe, is carried out by the IVF clinic. It's frustrating because I have known this is what he would need all along but we have been playing the NHS game. We can't afford to not take advantage of our one free NHS cycle.

I chased up our referral today and our consultant's secretary told me the letter to the IVF clinic has been dictated but can't be signed until Monday when our consultant is back. I guess we should get a letter from them within a couple of weeks.

Sorry I haven't been able to post much on the boards. It has just been a little too much for me but I do pop back from time to time to see what's happening.

Beanie, I second the suggestion for time off work, but I am talking from the perspective of someone who doesn't like her job

Glastochick CD4 Cycle 20 TTC #1
beanieb CD5 Cycle 20 TTC#1
Zen1980 CD7 Cycle 1 since m/mc Jan09 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD11 cycle 15 TTC#1
Dawni CD14 Cycle 6 TTC#2 (Had a break)
MollieMooma CD15 Cycle 5 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
Kyte CD17 Cycle 1 TTC#2
Jaamy CD20 cycle 19 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
ClaireDeLoon CD22 Cycle 18 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
blackrock CD25 Cycle 21 TTC#2
Comma2 CD29 cycle 5 TTC#2
thegreatescape CD41 Cycle 6 TTC#2
louisplayingthewaitinggame CD52 Cycle17 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
Pinkie08 CD55 cycle 12 TTC#2
WaitingforaSproglettoFall CD57
Sparkly CD59 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
Insertsomethingwittyhere CD75 Cycle 8 TTC#1
PeaceLily CD88 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Sunnyandwild CD94 ttc #1
happyandEiknowit CD98 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD101 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
bubblebell1 CD121 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)
Babybump2b BFP 30th Nov
VJay BFP 22nd Dec (CD33 cycle mc June08 & Oct08)
theboob BFP
mummy2t BFP
herethereandeverywhere BFP 25th Jan

My longest cycle for months.

I will try and find the aspirin study.

Baby aspirin is I think 81 mg, on the Bayer pack it says baby in the fine print on the side. I took 1 a day (plus or minus, not too good on doing anything regular). If nothing else, I don't think it hurts.

Just called the doc, they did a blood test yesterday, and she said it's a definite positive! I don't think the chemical one was definite at any point, so excellent!

Right. I give you all a big fat hug and babydust to all!

(btw, it is a known fact that in a forum one person never gets pregnant alone, but everybody together....)

Ok, of course couldn't find article again (isn't it strange how you can never find anythign twice?) but erad around a bit.

Google aspirin infertility, and there is lots of info. Seems the general tenor is that nobody really knows if it helps, but it can improve uterus lining (which I think might have been a problem for me).

On the other hand, some say it might mess with ovulation, so if that's under investigation I'd def ask the doctor.

Hello all!! Hope everyones OK and the beans are sticking!

Sorry to see Glasto and beanie and zen back at the top again

Glastochick CD5 Cycle 20 TTC #1
beanieb CD6 Cycle 20 TTC#1
Zen1980 CD8 Cycle 1 since m/mc Jan09 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD12 cycle 15 TTC#1
Dawni CD15 Cycle 6 TTC#2 (Had a break)
MollieMooma CD16 Cycle 5 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
Kyte CD18 Cycle 1 TTC#2
Jaamy CD21 cycle 19 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
ClaireDeLoon CD23 Cycle 18 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
blackrock CD26 Cycle 21 TTC#2
Comma2 CD30 cycle 5 TTC#2
thegreatescape CD42 Cycle 6 TTC#2
louisplayingthewaitinggame CD53 Cycle17 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
Pinkie08 CD56 cycle 12 TTC#2
WaitingforaSproglettoFall CD58
Sparkly CD60 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
Insertsomethingwittyhere CD76 Cycle 8 TTC#1
PeaceLily CD89 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Sunnyandwild CD95 ttc #1
happyandEiknowit CD99 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD102 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
bubblebell1 CD122 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)
Babybump2b BFP 30th Nov
VJay BFP 22nd Dec (CD33 cycle mc June08 & Oct08)
theboob BFP
mummy2t BFP
herethereandeverywhere BFP 25th Jan

Official CONGRATULATIONS to Comma...may you have an uncomplicated and healthy 8 months or so. Do you have a due date? Please come bcak and let us know how you are getting on. x

DOn't forget to graduate yourself

Thanks Jaamy! The due date would be Nov 5 but it feels like I shouldn't think about it not to jinx it, so I won't......
Boy, can't believe I'm on the graduate list. Hu!

Glastochick CD5 Cycle 20 TTC #1
beanieb CD6 Cycle 20 TTC#1
Zen1980 CD8 Cycle 1 since m/mc Jan09 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD12 cycle 15 TTC#1
Dawni CD15 Cycle 6 TTC#2 (Had a break)
MollieMooma CD16 Cycle 5 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
Kyte CD18 Cycle 1 TTC#2
Jaamy CD21 cycle 19 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
ClaireDeLoon CD23 Cycle 18 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
blackrock CD26 Cycle 21 TTC#2
thegreatescape CD42 Cycle 6 TTC#2
louisplayingthewaitinggame CD53 Cycle17 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
Pinkie08 CD56 cycle 12 TTC#2
WaitingforaSproglettoFall CD58
Sparkly CD60 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
Insertsomethingwittyhere CD76 Cycle 8 TTC#1
PeaceLily CD89 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Sunnyandwild CD95 ttc #1
happyandEiknowit CD99 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD102 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
bubblebell1 CD122 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

Comma2 BFP 24th Feb (CD30 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)
Babybump2b BFP 30th Nov
VJay BFP 22nd Dec (CD33 cycle mc June08 & Oct08)
theboob BFP
mummy2t BFP
herethereandeverywhere BFP 25th Jan