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MollieMooma · 26/11/2008 17:01

OK girls, will go and get the list, but have lots of comfy sofa's and chairs, chocolate cake and virtual champagne.

Good luck and positive vibes to us all!

OP posts:
Comma2 · 01/01/2009 18:28

Happy new year girls!!!! We will all have sweet babies that will make us glad to sleep through next NYE!

On that note, still no AF. Test neg, so where is it? [hmmm] I just hope my cycle is not too messed up. Also still still still and against all bloody evidence obviously hope for the best.

blackrock · 01/01/2009 21:18

Happy New Bumping Year...to all and sundry. Appreciate some are awaiting attention, but here is all of us having some peace of mind and steps forward in the next few months.

ShayeraHol · 01/01/2009 22:16

Congrats VJay!

Beanie, exactly as you said to me - sorry you're back there for another month. Really hope that this month works out for you with the last minute specialist dash!

Found out this week that you can't have MRIs while in first trimester - I thought it was just X-rays. Luckily I was booking rather than having booked! So got that booked for 4 wks time. From that point of view, bad month to get pg - so let's hope Sod's law comes into play...

Hope all had a great NYE, let's hope 2009 is our year!

Insertsomethingwittyhere · 02/01/2009 17:29

Happy New Year everyone!

Hope this year is baby filled, and brings you all lots of health and happiness

ClaireDeLoon · 02/01/2009 18:11

Happy New Year All!!

beanie sorry you're back at the top fingers crossed for a bfp before your appointment.

beanieb CD2 Cycle 18 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD4 cycle 13 TTC#1
Sparkly CD8 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Theboob CD9 Cycle 1 TTC#4
thegreatescape CD17 Cycle 5 TTC#2
MollieMooma CD17 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
blackrock CD17 Cycle 19 TTC#2
Insertsomethingwittyhere CD19 Cycle 8 TTC#1
Jaamy CD22 cycle 17 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
ClaireDeLoon CD23 Cycle 16 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
Pinkie08 CD30 cycle 11 TTC#2
PeaceLily CD34 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Glastochick CD37 Cycle 17 TTC #1
Sunnyandwild CD39 ttc #1
Aug08 & CP Sept08
happyandEiknowit CD45 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD50 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
loustillwantsaBFPtoo CD52 Cycle16 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
mummy2t CD55 Cycle 1 TTC #3 M/C June 06
Zen1980 CD58 Cycle 7 TTC#1
BabyBump2B cd60 Cycle 4, TTC #1
bubblebell1 CD68 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

LittleSquirt BFP 11th May (CD29 cycle 12 TTC #1) MMC July 07
Knax BFP 30th May (CD31 cycle 4 TTC2)
caspercat BFP 11th june (CD ? cycle? TTC?)
Mentalpup BFP 18th June (CD33 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Emma2617 BFP 30th June (CD43 Cycle 1 TTC #1)
Fruity BFP 11th July (Cycle 5,8 months) TTC#2
HopingCat BFP 1st July (CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2)
DaisyJ BFP 24th July (CD41 cycle 1 TTC#1 mc March 08)
mrsfossil bfp 30th july (cd29 ttc for 4 years 1ds)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)
VJay BFP 22nd Dec (CD33 cycle mc June08 & Oct08)

theboob · 02/01/2009 20:48

can i just ask you all a quick question......when do i test?

with the others i just waited until about 2 weeks after AF and tested like a maniac until i got a BFP or AF,not sure of my cycle and always been iregular ,it costs a fortune and i'm really not sure when

(i know its looks stupid as i'm on num4 lol)

thankyou xx

pinkie08 · 02/01/2009 20:52

HI just updating the list as am back to top

Pinkie08 CD1 cycle 12 TTC#2
beanieb CD2 Cycle 18 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD4 cycle 13 TTC#1
Sparkly CD8 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Theboob CD9 Cycle 1 TTC#4
thegreatescape CD17 Cycle 5 TTC#2
MollieMooma CD17 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
blackrock CD17 Cycle 19 TTC#2
Insertsomethingwittyhere CD19 Cycle 8 TTC#1
Jaamy CD22 cycle 17 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
ClaireDeLoon CD23 Cycle 16 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
Pinkie08 CD30 cycle 11 TTC#2
PeaceLily CD34 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Glastochick CD37 Cycle 17 TTC #1
Sunnyandwild CD39 ttc #1
Aug08 & CP Sept08
happyandEiknowit CD45 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD50 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
loustillwantsaBFPtoo CD52 Cycle16 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
mummy2t CD55 Cycle 1 TTC #3 M/C June 06
Zen1980 CD58 Cycle 7 TTC#1
BabyBump2B cd60 Cycle 4, TTC #1
bubblebell1 CD68 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

LittleSquirt BFP 11th May (CD29 cycle 12 TTC #1) MMC July 07
Knax BFP 30th May (CD31 cycle 4 TTC2)
caspercat BFP 11th june (CD ? cycle? TTC?)
Mentalpup BFP 18th June (CD33 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Emma2617 BFP 30th June (CD43 Cycle 1 TTC #1)
Fruity BFP 11th July (Cycle 5,8 months) TTC#2
HopingCat BFP 1st July (CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2)
DaisyJ BFP 24th July (CD41 cycle 1 TTC#1 mc March 08)
mrsfossil bfp 30th july (cd29 ttc for 4 years 1ds)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)
VJay BFP 22nd Dec (CD33 cycle mc June08 & Oct08)

have got appointment from specialist jan 12th so trying to focus on that and stay chilled this month

ShayeraHol · 02/01/2009 22:29

Boo, pinkie. Sorry to hear that. Hope your appointment goes well.

Just a thought on appointments - anyone gone private for that kind of thing, and if so have you used work-supplied insurance? Occured to me (thanks to all the foot stuff) that I have insurance which I could probably use, but I don't know if it would then get back to my HR department and potentially cause me issues (especially in a year when I'm targetting either baby or promotion!)

theboob, I'd wait at least 3 weeks after AF - I'm a really short cycle, but still figure that testing before CD23 is wasting money. Then, no more than every three days is my theory - I admit I don't alway hold to it though!

Waves to everyone else

Comma2 · 03/01/2009 00:51

tadaaa.
Oh well.

so can you re-use tests? I was wondering, and ickyness etc aside- its not like the reactive coating dissapears..couldn't it still react when you re-use a couple of days later...no? Sorry- I thought if I can check cm, I might as well save a test on tissue paper without fainting...

Comma2 CD2 cycle 4 TTC#2
Pinkie08 CD1 cycle 12 TTC#2
beanieb CD2 Cycle 18 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD4 cycle 13 TTC#1
Sparkly CD8 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Theboob CD9 Cycle 1 TTC#4
thegreatescape CD17 Cycle 5 TTC#2
MollieMooma CD17 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
blackrock CD17 Cycle 19 TTC#2
Insertsomethingwittyhere CD19 Cycle 8 TTC#1
Jaamy CD22 cycle 17 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
ClaireDeLoon CD23 Cycle 16 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
Pinkie08 CD30 cycle 11 TTC#2
PeaceLily CD34 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Glastochick CD37 Cycle 17 TTC #1
Sunnyandwild CD39 ttc #1
Aug08 & CP Sept08
happyandEiknowit CD45 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD50 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
loustillwantsaBFPtoo CD52 Cycle16 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
mummy2t CD55 Cycle 1 TTC #3 M/C June 06
Zen1980 CD58 Cycle 7 TTC#1
BabyBump2B cd60 Cycle 4, TTC #1
bubblebell1 CD68 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

LittleSquirt BFP 11th May (CD29 cycle 12 TTC #1) MMC July 07
Knax BFP 30th May (CD31 cycle 4 TTC2)
caspercat BFP 11th june (CD ? cycle? TTC?)
Mentalpup BFP 18th June (CD33 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Emma2617 BFP 30th June (CD43 Cycle 1 TTC #1)
Fruity BFP 11th July (Cycle 5,8 months) TTC#2
HopingCat BFP 1st July (CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2)
DaisyJ BFP 24th July (CD41 cycle 1 TTC#1 mc March 08)
mrsfossil bfp 30th july (cd29 ttc for 4 years 1ds)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)
VJay BFP 22nd Dec (CD33 cycle mc June08 & Oct08)

ClaireDeLoon · 03/01/2009 12:47

I don't think you can re-use tests at all.

I've re-done the list as the details hadn't been updated.

I have no idea when/if I ovulated this month and I'm itching to test.

Comma2 CD2 cycle 4 TTC#2
Pinkie08 CD2 cycle 12 TTC#2
beanieb CD3 Cycle 18 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD5 cycle 13 TTC#1
Sparkly CD9 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Theboob CD10 Cycle 1 TTC#4
thegreatescape CD18 Cycle 5 TTC#2
MollieMooma CD18 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
blackrock CD18 Cycle 19 TTC#2
Insertsomethingwittyhere CD20 Cycle 8 TTC#1
Jaamy CD23 cycle 17 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
ClaireDeLoon CD24 Cycle 16 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
Pinkie08 CD31 cycle 11 TTC#2
PeaceLily CD35 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Glastochick CD38 Cycle 17 TTC #1
Sunnyandwild CD40 ttc #1
Aug08 & CP Sept08
happyandEiknowit CD46 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD51 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
loustillwantsaBFPtoo CD53 Cycle16 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
mummy2t CD56 Cycle 1 TTC #3 M/C June 06
Zen1980 CD59 Cycle 7 TTC#1
BabyBump2B cd61 Cycle 4, TTC #1
bubblebell1 CD69 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

LittleSquirt BFP 11th May (CD29 cycle 12 TTC #1) MMC July 07
Knax BFP 30th May (CD31 cycle 4 TTC2)
caspercat BFP 11th june (CD ? cycle? TTC?)
Mentalpup BFP 18th June (CD33 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Emma2617 BFP 30th June (CD43 Cycle 1 TTC #1)
Fruity BFP 11th July (Cycle 5,8 months) TTC#2
HopingCat BFP 1st July (CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2)
DaisyJ BFP 24th July (CD41 cycle 1 TTC#1 mc March 08)
mrsfossil bfp 30th july (cd29 ttc for 4 years 1ds)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)
VJay BFP 22nd Dec (CD33 cycle mc June08 & Oct08)

ClaireDeLoon · 03/01/2009 12:48

pinkie sorry she got you I just noticed your post. You were in twice so I've done the list again.

Comma2 CD2 cycle 4 TTC#2
Pinkie08 CD2 cycle 12 TTC#2
beanieb CD3 Cycle 18 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD5 cycle 13 TTC#1
Sparkly CD9 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Theboob CD10 Cycle 1 TTC#4
thegreatescape CD18 Cycle 5 TTC#2
MollieMooma CD18 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
blackrock CD18 Cycle 19 TTC#2
Insertsomethingwittyhere CD20 Cycle 8 TTC#1
Jaamy CD23 cycle 17 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
ClaireDeLoon CD24 Cycle 16 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
PeaceLily CD35 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Glastochick CD38 Cycle 17 TTC #1
Sunnyandwild CD40 ttc #1
Aug08 & CP Sept08
happyandEiknowit CD46 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD51 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
loustillwantsaBFPtoo CD53 Cycle16 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
mummy2t CD56 Cycle 1 TTC #3 M/C June 06
Zen1980 CD59 Cycle 7 TTC#1
BabyBump2B cd61 Cycle 4, TTC #1
bubblebell1 CD69 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

LittleSquirt BFP 11th May (CD29 cycle 12 TTC #1) MMC July 07
Knax BFP 30th May (CD31 cycle 4 TTC2)
caspercat BFP 11th june (CD ? cycle? TTC?)
Mentalpup BFP 18th June (CD33 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Emma2617 BFP 30th June (CD43 Cycle 1 TTC #1)
Fruity BFP 11th July (Cycle 5,8 months) TTC#2
HopingCat BFP 1st July (CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2)
DaisyJ BFP 24th July (CD41 cycle 1 TTC#1 mc March 08)
mrsfossil bfp 30th july (cd29 ttc for 4 years 1ds)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)
VJay BFP 22nd Dec (CD33 cycle mc June08 & Oct08)

SparklyPseudonym · 04/01/2009 14:16

Sorry to see some of you back at the top. Have been looking into my pre-AF spotting/bleeding during the month (amongst other things) and it looks as though I might have endometriosis - obviously hoping that I don't but getting to the stage where I want to know if there's something wrong. Am desperate to be pregnant again but know that will bring a whole load of new worries....arggh! Don't you just love this time of year when you don't have Christmas/NY to think about.

SparklyPseudonym · 04/01/2009 14:18

Comma2 CD3 cycle 4 TTC#2
Pinkie08 CD3 cycle 12 TTC#2
beanieb CD4 Cycle 18 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD6 cycle 13 TTC#1
Sparkly CD10 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Theboob CD11 Cycle 1 TTC#4
thegreatescape CD19 Cycle 5 TTC#2
MollieMooma CD19 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
blackrock CD19 Cycle 19 TTC#2
Insertsomethingwittyhere CD21 Cycle 8 TTC#1
Jaamy CD24 cycle 17 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
ClaireDeLoon CD25 Cycle 16 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
PeaceLily CD36 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Glastochick CD39 Cycle 17 TTC #1
Sunnyandwild CD41 ttc #1
Aug08 & CP Sept08
happyandEiknowit CD47 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD52 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
loustillwantsaBFPtoo CD54 Cycle16 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
mummy2t CD57 Cycle 1 TTC #3 M/C June 06
Zen1980 CD60 Cycle 7 TTC#1
BabyBump2B cd62 Cycle 4, TTC #1
bubblebell1 CD70 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

LittleSquirt BFP 11th May (CD29 cycle 12 TTC #1) MMC July 07
Knax BFP 30th May (CD31 cycle 4 TTC2)
caspercat BFP 11th june (CD ? cycle? TTC?)
Mentalpup BFP 18th June (CD33 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Emma2617 BFP 30th June (CD43 Cycle 1 TTC #1)
Fruity BFP 11th July (Cycle 5,8 months) TTC#2
HopingCat BFP 1st July (CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2)
DaisyJ BFP 24th July (CD41 cycle 1 TTC#1 mc March 08)
mrsfossil bfp 30th july (cd29 ttc for 4 years 1ds)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)
VJay BFP 22nd Dec (CD33 cycle mc June08 & Oct08)

herethereandeverywhere · 04/01/2009 19:17

Hello, I'm a newbie. I've lurked for some time and you all seem so lovely I was wondering if I could join you?

I'm 32 and have been ttc for 14 months, without any success at all. I've just booked a Drs appointment to talk about fertility testing. I'm trying to keep positive and have a fresh approach in the new year (we're trying the Deanna plan starting this month) but TBH I'm very down and utterly gutted whenever I hear someone else just got pregnant. My (4 years younger) SIL got pregnant on her ONE WEEK LONG honeymoon, due date next month.

I'd better stop moaning before you go off me already.

For the stats: af due 26th (31 day cycle). I have no kids (starting to wondering if I will EVER see a +ve pregnancy test in my lifetime)

ClaireDeLoon · 04/01/2009 19:24

Welcome herethereandeverywhere I hope you get your bfp soon, there's a few of us in the same situation so you're in very good company here! Have added you to the list. Have I got my sums right that you're on CD10? If not just correct.

Comma2 CD3 cycle 4 TTC#2
Pinkie08 CD3 cycle 12 TTC#2
beanieb CD4 Cycle 18 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD6 cycle 13 TTC#1
herethereandeverywhere CD10 cycle 14 ttc#1
Sparkly CD10 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Theboob CD11 Cycle 1 TTC#4
thegreatescape CD19 Cycle 5 TTC#2
MollieMooma CD19 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
blackrock CD19 Cycle 19 TTC#2
Insertsomethingwittyhere CD21 Cycle 8 TTC#1
Jaamy CD24 cycle 17 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
ClaireDeLoon CD25 Cycle 16 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
PeaceLily CD36 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Glastochick CD39 Cycle 17 TTC #1
Sunnyandwild CD41 ttc #1
Aug08 & CP Sept08
happyandEiknowit CD47 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD52 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
loustillwantsaBFPtoo CD54 Cycle16 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
mummy2t CD57 Cycle 1 TTC #3 M/C June 06
Zen1980 CD60 Cycle 7 TTC#1
BabyBump2B cd62 Cycle 4, TTC #1
bubblebell1 CD70 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

LittleSquirt BFP 11th May (CD29 cycle 12 TTC #1) MMC July 07
Knax BFP 30th May (CD31 cycle 4 TTC2)
caspercat BFP 11th june (CD ? cycle? TTC?)
Mentalpup BFP 18th June (CD33 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Emma2617 BFP 30th June (CD43 Cycle 1 TTC #1)
Fruity BFP 11th July (Cycle 5,8 months) TTC#2
HopingCat BFP 1st July (CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2)
DaisyJ BFP 24th July (CD41 cycle 1 TTC#1 mc March 08)
mrsfossil bfp 30th july (cd29 ttc for 4 years 1ds)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)
VJay BFP 22nd Dec (CD33 cycle mc June08 & Oct08)

herethereandeverywhere · 04/01/2009 22:06

Thanks for the welcome. Yes, I'm CD10 and hoping that joining this thread will be the luck I've missed out on so far.

There are always lots of birthdays in work and in my family in October - let's hope it's the same for this thread!

beanieb · 05/01/2009 10:27

Comma2 CD4 cycle 4 TTC#2
Pinkie08 CD4 cycle 12 TTC#2
beanieb CD5 Cycle 18 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD7 cycle 13 TTC#1
herethereandeverywhere CD11 cycle 14 ttc#1
Sparkly CD11 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Theboob CD12 Cycle 1 TTC#4
thegreatescape CD20 Cycle 5 TTC#2
MollieMooma CD20 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
blackrock CD20 Cycle 19 TTC#2
Insertsomethingwittyhere CD22 Cycle 8 TTC#1
Jaamy CD25 cycle 17 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
ClaireDeLoon CD26 Cycle 16 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
PeaceLily CD37 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Glastochick CD40 Cycle 17 TTC #1
Sunnyandwild CD42 ttc #1
Aug08 & CP Sept08
happyandEiknowit CD48 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD53 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
loustillwantsaBFPtoo CD55 Cycle16 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
mummy2t CD56 Cycle 1 TTC #3 M/C June 06
Zen1980 CD61 Cycle 7 TTC#1
BabyBump2B cd63 Cycle 4, TTC #1
bubblebell1 CD71 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

LittleSquirt BFP 11th May (CD29 cycle 12 TTC #1) MMC July 07
Knax BFP 30th May (CD31 cycle 4 TTC2)
caspercat BFP 11th june (CD ? cycle? TTC?)
Mentalpup BFP 18th June (CD33 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Emma2617 BFP 30th June (CD43 Cycle 1 TTC #1)
Fruity BFP 11th July (Cycle 5,8 months) TTC#2
HopingCat BFP 1st July (CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2)
DaisyJ BFP 24th July (CD41 cycle 1 TTC#1 mc March 08)
mrsfossil bfp 30th july (cd29 ttc for 4 years 1ds)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)
VJay BFP 22nd Dec (CD33 cycle mc June08 & Oct08)

Morning all.
Have tried ringing up to get my IVP (X-ray) done and they suggested next week, right in the middle of my cycle again, so it looks like I might not get to have it before my fertility appointment.

Welcom to herethereandeverywhere. Hope everyone else is ok.

x

thegreatescape · 05/01/2009 14:53

Happy new year everyone! [waves all round] Have been a bit crap at logging on lately so thought I should get back in the spirit of things. As I ovulated on day 17 of 27(ish) day cycle last month I tested days 14-18 but no smiley face. Then ran out of sticks. Decided not to bother peeing on anymore as they are getting on my nerves.

Practically zero chance of bfp this month as, ahem, not really been putting in the hours. DH keeps getting manflu and refusing to have sex with me. Have told him its in his job description. Also actually finding time between shift work, caring for ds and general exhaustion is making it all very tricky. Asked dh if he fancied early night last night only to be told he had to iron his shirts for work. Suspect I should get my legs waxed.

How do you all manage the constant bding? Without getting too personal, we (as in me and dh, rather than me and all of you) need to be doing it more often.

glastochick · 05/01/2009 15:10

Comma2 CD4 cycle 4 TTC#2
Pinkie08 CD4 cycle 12 TTC#2
beanieb CD5 Cycle 18 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD7 cycle 13 TTC#1
Glastochick CD10 Cycle 18 TTC #1
herethereandeverywhere CD11 cycle 14 ttc#1
Sparkly CD11 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Theboob CD12 Cycle 1 TTC#4
thegreatescape CD20 Cycle 5 TTC#2
MollieMooma CD20 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
blackrock CD20 Cycle 19 TTC#2
Insertsomethingwittyhere CD22 Cycle 8 TTC#1
Jaamy CD25 cycle 17 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
ClaireDeLoon CD26 Cycle 16 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
PeaceLily CD37 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Sunnyandwild CD42 ttc #1
Aug08 & CP Sept08
happyandEiknowit CD48 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD53 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
loustillwantsaBFPtoo CD55 Cycle16 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
mummy2t CD56 Cycle 1 TTC #3 M/C June 06
Zen1980 CD61 Cycle 7 TTC#1
BabyBump2B cd63 Cycle 4, TTC #1
bubblebell1 CD71 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

LittleSquirt BFP 11th May (CD29 cycle 12 TTC #1) MMC July 07
Knax BFP 30th May (CD31 cycle 4 TTC2)
caspercat BFP 11th june (CD ? cycle? TTC?)
Mentalpup BFP 18th June (CD33 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Emma2617 BFP 30th June (CD43 Cycle 1 TTC #1)
Fruity BFP 11th July (Cycle 5,8 months) TTC#2
HopingCat BFP 1st July (CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2)
DaisyJ BFP 24th July (CD41 cycle 1 TTC#1 mc March 08)
mrsfossil bfp 30th july (cd29 ttc for 4 years 1ds)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)
VJay BFP 22nd Dec (CD33 cycle mc June08 & Oct08)

Molliemooma · 05/01/2009 20:39

Beanie Sorry to see TEW got you, not long until your fertility appt, let's hope you get pg before then
Glasto Sorry she got you too, how are you?
Pinkie & Comma* More with nwelcome visitors too
herethereandeverywhere Hello and welcome It is hard to remain positive but your with a good crowd here and feel free to moan and rant whenever you feel like it
thegreatescape It's so awful when sex just becomes all about BD isn't it? I don't have that problem with DH as he is a toyboy and seems to have boundless amounts of energy and it's me making all the excuses well apart from when I'm OVing of course!
Claire Are you still resisting testing?

Well another month closer to test results and hopefully some answers, or if not back to TTC with avengence. It's approaching the anniversary of my first m/c this week so am feeling a little blue, can't believe I have a year of EDD's and anniversarys to get through! But will try to be positive and not whinge at you all too much [girn]

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ClaireDeLoon · 05/01/2009 20:44

Hey Mollie I went past the 1st anniversary of my mc aboout when I broke my foot give or take a day or so. It wasn;t as bad for me as the edd but I know you have other edd's to come and feel for you, come moan and wail to us all you like.

I caved and tested earlier - bfn. I also had a call from breast cancer clinic asking me to ring them to book my consultants appointment so will do that tomorrow.

Molliemooma · 05/01/2009 20:49

Claire Thanks
Have I missed something with the breast cancer clinic, I hope everything is OK?

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ClaireDeLoon · 05/01/2009 21:05

Just lumpy boobs - doctor didn't think likely to be anything worrying but wanted it checked out.

WaitingforaSproglettoFall · 05/01/2009 22:13

Please may I join?

A newbie to mumsnet and baby making

My next cycle is due around 25 Jan, I'm on CD8 of my current cycle but can't get jiggy this month as I need to finish a course of antibiotics.

I think I'm doing everything I should be at this stage but already getting a little nervous so much for staying chilled.

I guess I'm on CD-20 of cycle-1

Happy new year everyone and happy baby making

herethereandeverywhere · 05/01/2009 22:16

Evening everyone. I'm still in the office (13 hours and counting) so I'm feeling the BD strain a bit like thegreatescape. It's all very well for Zita bl**dy West to advocate relieving stress by "learning to delegate". I can't frikkin delegate anything without me being at risk of being sacked for not doing my job properly, which I'm sure is even more stressful!

I'm sure it's the same about the frequent BD advice and the Deanna plan, like we all live in a world where we have oodles of spare time to be getting us and our men in the perfect mood on a daily basis....christ, I'm doing well if I make it into the bed without having conked out fully clothed on top of it first, never mind summing up the energy and the...err...CM, to get the BD job done.

All I can say to thegreatescape is men generally respond well to a bit of a fuss and treating them like they are about 5 years old when they are sick. Hopefully he'll return the favour with a BD when he's up to it. You could also offer to help with the shirts and offer to do something to help him relax eg: massage/glass of wine/footrub/cup of tea or whatever?