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MollieMooma · 26/11/2008 17:01

OK girls, will go and get the list, but have lots of comfy sofa's and chairs, chocolate cake and virtual champagne.

Good luck and positive vibes to us all!

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ShayeraHol · 28/12/2008 14:36

Mollie whispered that last month too!

Molliemooma · 28/12/2008 14:46

Shayer Sorry, I'm not trying to get your hopes up just trying to be positive for you, I promise not to do it again!
Mollie slinks off to a corner with her mouth shut

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ShayeraHol · 28/12/2008 18:08

Aww no, it offers me justification when I think the same thing if someone else says it too

Anyway just been out shopping and bought a test, so we'll try to find out tomorrow

Molliemooma · 28/12/2008 18:21

Good luck

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Comma2 · 28/12/2008 18:33

beanieb, Do you know that ovulation sticks will give you a second line like a high when you are preggers? if you at end of your cycle and get a high... that's what i had with dd. Maybe you should pee in that cup after all....

But don't want to get your hopes up, as is all v confusing, especially if you should be using Clearblue monitor and it never showed peak. The hcg that fakes the LH line on the stick shouldn't have been there between ovulation and implantation. No chance you are still preggo from last cycle, right?

Can I join into everybodies rant? I mc last months and my sis who got pregnant same time won't even tell me how she is doing now (evern though I kept it together for family). Feel shut out of family on top of having shitty xmas without baby in belly.

beanieb · 29/12/2008 00:56

I've been getting highs for two weeks though, and the monitor gives a peak after a few highs normally. It's not a sudden leap from low to high unfortunately. I know the highs come from an Estrogen increase and the peak from the LH increase so am assuming as there was no peak I didn't ovulate so didn't get the LH surge you see when you ovulate.

I am due tomorrow but think my period could be delayed if I haven't ovulated so don't want to rush in to testing as I recon I will just get a BFN anyway.

My last period was slightly different to the last few in that it stopped and started and I got spotting about 2 days after it had stopped. I doubt this was implantation as it was before I usually ovulate.

Thank you for the optimism though Comma2 and sorry to hear about your MC and your sister's reaction. Perhaps she doesn't know what to say in case she says the wrong thing?

isawjaamykissingsantaclaus · 29/12/2008 01:08

Comma - you are in good company here. A few of us should either be holding a new bundle or have baby in tum right now. We try to keep each other going through the highs and lows.

HAPPY CHRISTMAS AND LOTS OF STICKY BEANS FOR 2009!

Shayera - sending you lots of BFP vibes for when you test.

Beanie - such control, staying away form the test. You know it's too early. Wait a few days. If you can, enjoy New Year and then test. Pooh to your DP. Men are more mody than us girls. If you can't cancel your holiday, what about having a day of pampering. Book a manicure or something and lock yourself in the bathroom for a nice long bath and a good book.

Big waves to everyone else.

Have been BDing away all week after trip to Ireland for a wedding when we confirmed what we thought - we have indeed got the most perfect children in the world, according to several people that we hadn't ever met before. Made me realise that it will not be the most tragic thing if we do not get another baby. We are already blessed. Still another bundle would be nice ALthough I'm probably being greedy.

Off to bed now to try to persuad DH (currently comotose in the armchair) that another BD would be a good idea!

Comma2 · 29/12/2008 03:13

Beanieb, did you test last month then?
the hcg mimics lh, so that could account for having constantly high on your monitor. I never heard of having TWO weeks of high...I never see more than two days, then peak, basta. If you are still high you prob won't get AF either way. Hmmmhmmm.

Thanks isawjaamykissingsantaclaus! I am sooo very grateful for dd too. Same thing, she is so wonderful we need to make more! Greedy, I know.

ClaireDeLoon · 29/12/2008 10:21

Sparkly CD4 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Theboob CD5 Cycle 1 TTC#4
thegreatescape CD13 Cycle 5 TTC#2
MollieMooma CD13 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
blackrock CD13 Cycle 19 TTC#2
Jaamy CD18 cycle 17 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
ClaireDeLoon CD19 Cycle 16 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
beanieb CD24 Cycle 17 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD24 cycle 12 TTC#1
Pinkie08 CD26 cycle 11 TTC#2
PeaceLily CD30 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Glastochick CD33 Cycle 17 TTC #1
Sunnyandwild CD35 ttc #1
Aug08 & CP Sept08
VJay CD40 (mc June08, Oct08)
happyandEiknowit CD41 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD46 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
loustillwantsaBFPtoo CD48 Cycle16 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
mummy2t CD51 Cycle 1 TTC #3 M/C June 06
Zen1980 CD54 Cycle 7 TTC#1
BabyBump2B cd56 Cycle 4, TTC #1
bubblebell1 CD64 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

LittleSquirt BFP 11th May (CD29 cycle 12 TTC #1) MMC July 07
Knax BFP 30th May (CD31 cycle 4 TTC2)
caspercat BFP 11th june (CD ? cycle? TTC?)
Mentalpup BFP 18th June (CD33 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Emma2617 BFP 30th June (CD43 Cycle 1 TTC #1)
Fruity BFP 11th July (Cycle 5,8 months) TTC#2
HopingCat BFP 1st July (CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2)
DaisyJ BFP 24th July (CD41 cycle 1 TTC#1 mc March 08)
mrsfossil bfp 30th july (cd29 ttc for 4 years 1ds)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)

ShayeraHol · 29/12/2008 10:26

Unsurprising BFN this morning - probably too early to be testing (at least that's what I shall tell myself ). Still spotting but no more yet which is a long cycle for me! Will try to resist testing tomorrow, but feel I should check on Weds as I'm planning to drink loads and eat blue cheese & rare meat for NYE celebrations!

Jaamy, please the BDing went so well and also that your children are so lovely! Always good to be told so.

theboob · 29/12/2008 11:04

morning ladies
shayera sorry you got a BFN ,but i'm also a uncontrolable tester and had many a BFN when i had tested to earlyit aint over till the lady in red sings

well AF is over and i'm ready to start bding and DH is nowhere to be seen

wrong time of year to try and pin him in one place long enough

well hope you all have a fab new year and plenty of 2009 babies xxxxxxxxxxx

beanieb · 29/12/2008 11:16

Morning

wave at theboob hope you manage to pin down your DH!

shayera good luck, hope it was just too early.

jaamy I am amazed at my restraint - I have one test in the house as part of my clearblue trial but am trying hard not to use it.

comma2 I think I did test just before my period came last month but can't remember! Today is CD24 and my spotting usually starts on day 24 so if there's nothing tomorrow then I am officially late!

wave to ClaireDeLoon and mollie

theboob · 29/12/2008 12:29

beanieb im keeping everything crossed for you

Comma2 · 29/12/2008 15:01

Good luck beanieb!

tested today and bfn....it is CD 24 and I usually have 27-28 days, so might have been early, especially as was no early-test.
but who am I kidding- I have spotting and had a bit of red blood this morning.

Do you think spotting/bleeding 4 days early (10 dpo) is too short a luteal phase for baby to take hold? I am thinking about going to my doctor, but is major trouble as is far away.

pinkie08 · 29/12/2008 15:34

Hi all,

I am still trying to sit on my hands, today is cd26 and i am not spotting, yet. i am telling myself it will be here any minute and not to get hopes up.

comma2 it sounds like you did a too early test anyway, but lps of 10 or more are ok as far as i know, if you are concerned ask the doc.

Good luck beanieb

beanieb · 29/12/2008 16:36

good luck pinkie

comma are you on the list btw? Can't see you there... Let me know all your stats and I'll add you.

isawjaamykissingsantaclaus · 29/12/2008 18:56

Good Luck beanie. Wouldn't it be fab if you could ring up to cancel your appt in Jan! [fingers and toes crossed emoticon]

Still rooting for you too, Shayera.

isawjaamykissingsantaclaus · 29/12/2008 18:57

Ooooh, and pinkie too! Good Luck. Hope AF stays away and you have extra special reason to celebrate the New Year (even if oyu have to stay sober!)

ClaireDeLoon · 29/12/2008 21:01

aww beanie, shayera and pinkie I have everything crossed for you all!

Comma2 · 29/12/2008 23:30

Thanks pinkie and beanie! I am still hoping that it was too early, but the spotting is very omnious, as do not really believe in implantation bleeding and didn't have any with dd.

Stats are: ttc cycle 3, mc November 08(is ....as dd took us well over a year and was so glad to not have that horror again), CD 24. BFN, I suppose. Uaaah.

Shayera, I will test with you! Good luck to you! And to Beanie and pinkie, 'course.

Comma2 · 29/12/2008 23:36

Only sign of hope: zits! Have pimples like last pregnancy. Welcome if necessary baby-side effect, but otherwise not.

Anybody else have cute pseudo-symptoms?

Comma2 · 29/12/2008 23:56

Ok beanie, sorry very much to obsess on your behalf, but:

'I've been getting highs for two weeks though, and the monitor gives a peak after a few highs normally. It's not a sudden leap from low to high unfortunately. I know the highs come from an Estrogen increase and the peak from the LH increase so am assuming as there was no peak I didn't ovulate so didn't get the LH surge you see when you ovulate.

naw--here is my theory: the second line doesn't show estrogen (though its raising in your body), it only shows the raise of LH or hcg if its there. If it isn't low long enough first, the monitor calibrates the peak line to be 'high' and waits for something stronger, which will never come as line is already maxed out.

If it didn't go low-high but was high for two weeks I guess you are pregnant from last cycle and that bleeding wasn't AF.

'My last period was slightly different to the last few in that it stopped and started and I got spotting about 2 days after it had stopped.'

Aha! My gynae said that implantation can look like period and then some. If it's weirdly different from af, so much the better I say.

' I doubt this was implantation as it was before I usually ovulate.'

Hu? Bleeding before you usually ovulate? That doesn't excldue implantation! Especially if you don't ovulate when you are already pregnant.

Tadaaa! Not to get your hopes up hun, but I'll eat my hat.....

Insertsomethingwittyhere · 30/12/2008 01:48

Hi! I'm completely new to mumsnet, so I don't know the rules and suchlike, but I thought I'd introduce myself and say hello. If I'm getting everything wrong, and I'm in the wrong topic or something like that, please just show me the door, I won't take offence!

I'm Kate, 24, my partner and I have been ttc our first child for 8 months now. Obviously, we've had no success, but we're still hoping! I'd really love to talk to people in a similar situation to me .

Sorry this is short and kinda awkward. I'm hopelessly shy and have no idea what to say!

Hope you all get positive tests very soon!

Looking forward to talking more.

Kate

beanieb · 30/12/2008 10:00

Hiya insertsomethingwittyhere Want me to add you to the list? We need your Cycle Day (CD) to add you. Am assuming you are on Cycle 8 now unless your cycle is really short? Let me know and I'll add you.

Comma2 my period was heavy though and lasted 6 days-ish. then stopped, then started again. Anyway - I finally got a low today so what does that do for your theory

Am pretty sure my period will be here for new year.

beanieb · 30/12/2008 10:03

Insertsomethingwittyhere Cycle 8? TTC#1
Sparkly CD5 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Theboob CD6 Cycle 1 TTC#4
thegreatescape CD14 Cycle 5 TTC#2
MollieMooma CD14 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
blackrock CD14 Cycle 19 TTC#2
Jaamy CD19 cycle 17 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
ClaireDeLoon CD20 Cycle 16 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
beanieb CD25 Cycle 17 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD25 cycle 12 TTC#1
Pinkie08 CD27 cycle 11 TTC#2
PeaceLily CD31 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Glastochick CD34 Cycle 17 TTC #1
Sunnyandwild CD36 ttc #1
Aug08 & CP Sept08
VJay CD41 (mc June08, Oct08)
happyandEiknowit CD42 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD47 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
loustillwantsaBFPtoo CD49 Cycle16 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
mummy2t CD52 Cycle 1 TTC #3 M/C June 06
Zen1980 CD55 Cycle 7 TTC#1
BabyBump2B cd57 Cycle 4, TTC #1
bubblebell1 CD65 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

LittleSquirt BFP 11th May (CD29 cycle 12 TTC #1) MMC July 07
Knax BFP 30th May (CD31 cycle 4 TTC2)
caspercat BFP 11th june (CD ? cycle? TTC?)
Mentalpup BFP 18th June (CD33 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Emma2617 BFP 30th June (CD43 Cycle 1 TTC #1)
Fruity BFP 11th July (Cycle 5,8 months) TTC#2
HopingCat BFP 1st July (CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2)
DaisyJ BFP 24th July (CD41 cycle 1 TTC#1 mc March 08)
mrsfossil bfp 30th july (cd29 ttc for 4 years 1ds)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)