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TTC no. 18 - We Will Get Prgenant!!!!!

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jessicasmummy · 01/02/2005 16:56

Here we go again ladies!!!

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munnzieb · 03/02/2005 21:19

CC, wow, hiya hon! lol.

Elf - sorry about it hon, but hey, until the old bird screams it ain't over!)

Hulababy · 03/02/2005 21:20

HI and welcome back ChaCha. Good luck!

Elf1981 · 03/02/2005 21:23

I had a funny AF last month, so had been concerned that I'd miss my OV date. So if I'm not pg, I'll accept it (she says feeling so optimisitc!).
At least if start at "normal" time this month, can work it out going forward.
But, I'm still positive that it could just be me reading into symptoms like backache as typical AF warnings.
I think "no" but hey, there aint no fat lady singing yet...

ChaCha · 03/02/2005 21:25

Thanks for the welcome back. Really apprehensive, am trying not to obsess this year. This is my first month of TTC after the last lap. Am really apprehensive. fingers crossed pls. Lots of BD this weekend

jessicasmummy · 03/02/2005 22:05

Well guys.... its getting late, we (me and DH) are off to load the dishwasher and go to bed !!! Hope we all are ok tomorrow.... sweet dreams of those cute little bubba's!

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Hulababy · 03/02/2005 22:14

I am off to bed too very soon. Night night.

mummygow · 03/02/2005 22:29

chacha intended saying hi earlier but got chatting on phone just wanted you to know I wasnt being rude as I was on at same time as you, anyway fingers crossed and enjoy all your bd!!

mummygow · 03/02/2005 22:31

oops meant to say goodnight jm and hulababy

munnzieb · 04/02/2005 08:04

morning all, well i'm back on green days, but today i'm feelin all sicky, (trying not to read too much into it!) as there's prob a bug or soemthing going around! lol, esp as no matter what I eat in the evening's it's going right thru as it were. anyhow, another week before I can test accuratly. I think this month I should be on 24 days as I ov early, but we shall see could still be on for 26 days.

fresco · 04/02/2005 08:20

morning ladies

hahaha!!! yesterday when i walked dd for her afternoon nap, a van drove past us and gosh the back was filthy, very very dirty.but the guy wrote on the dirt 'i wish my wife was as dirty as this van'.that made me laugh, and then wonder if all husbands are like that.
Do your hubbies enjoy watching dirty videos for more turn on or along those lines?

fresco · 04/02/2005 08:21

CD7 here and temp still low (well slightly below cover line).so still dont know when i ov

Hulababy · 04/02/2005 08:46

Sorry you are feeling so yukky munnzieb

LOL Fresco! No idea. DH doesn't indulge in those kind of movies and magazines. He'd rather watch some action film, or read Top Gear. LOL

CD88 here. Temps not very reliable right now though as have slight temperature with this flu virus.

munnzieb · 04/02/2005 09:06

fresco - I think my DH watches them, well I know he does when he's away (my DB keeps his supply of vids/mags topped up as I won't buy them!) I have no idea what he'll do with them thou when he comes home, I suspect he'll either leave it all where he is for the next man in his room, or give them to one of his friends. He does have 1/2 vids at home, but he doens't watch them when i'm around. (if at all, haven't seent hem in the machine of late) he does have pics on the computer (a lot of them) which I didn't like and immediatly deleted them all, he didn't like it but will get over it. I don't mind when he's away as better that then for him to look/ go off with someone else! but at home, I'm not as keen on it.

Am feeling a bit better now (thou brekkie went thru again, so I think i have a bug!), all I know is with it I could sleep for a week, but alas I can't cos the bloomin car's in form it's MOT tomorrow which means to the garage by 9am so i'm seen first and hopefully won't have to wait too long..... do they do wait whilst you MOT these days?
the garage is about 2 miles from where I live/town and it's all up hill to get there so I don't want to drop it off and go back. .... ooh there is a maccyD's over the road thou! hmmm!

ooh and also last night my hospital/gyno section was on the local news... there is a mega bed shortage as they've closed half of the hosptial down! and suspended one of the gyno's for tellin locals the truth (he was giving out flyers in town showing his dicust, what eva happened to freedom of speach!)

this is an extract of the artical of why the gyno should be reinstated....."The number of gynaecology beds have been halved since 1995, which means many women in Pembrokeshire are left waiting much longer than necessary for their operation." it goes on to say he was just lookin out for his patients... they fail to mention thou if the drs there did more than 2 bloody clinics a month a lot more ppl would be seen..... should I get on and ring them so I can get on the next clinic or should I wait?? If I wait I could be waiting till may if not later even thou i'm ment to be nr the top of the llist... yeah top as in second from the bottom I bet!
Oh great the bloomin ward's been shut - its here... I can't bloody believe it. do u recon I could ring my DR and see if I can be seen by camarthen Dr's as this lot seem pretty crap, even if it is an hours away!

Now 25 junior doctors have signed a letter criticising levels of service in a new all-women ward.

In the letter, the staff claimed there were not enough beds on the ward, even for patients who were miscarrying. The trust is looking into the claims.

Gynaecological patients at the hospital have been treated on an all-women ward since the closure of the gynaecology ward.

Sensitive conditions

In a letter to the trust, the medics said there were so few side rooms that staff were not able to break bad news or discuss sensitive conditions with patients privately.

They also complained that people with cancer-related problems were having their admissions delayed or cancelled.

The doctors want Mr Overton's suspension ended and bed capacity returned "to an adequate number, reversing all the ward closures".

Many of the concerns expressed by staff are issues that won't have come about as a result of the move

Frank O'Sullivan, Pembrokeshire and Derwen NHS Trust

Frank O'Sullivan, chief executive of Pembrokeshire and Derwen NHS Trust, said: "Clearly if the concerns are right, then we need to act very quickly to address them.

"I think the point to remember in all this...is that there has been a one bed reduction in gynaecology.

"Many of the concerns expressed by staff are issues that won't have come about as a result of the move."

Ashley Warlow, chief officer of Pembrokeshire Community Health Council (CHC), said there had been a rise in concerns from the public and that the council was to hold a special meeting.

'Real concerns'

It was last month that gynaecology consultant Chris Overton was suspended after handing out leaflets to shoppers in Haverfordwest outlining his concerns.

Then, earlier this week, 23 fellow consultants criticised bed shortages and his suspension in a letter to the Western Telegraph.

Labour AM for Preseli Pembrokeshire, Tamsin Dunwoody-Kneafsey, said overall services at Withybush were good.

She added: "Everyone's putting across that there's a terrible situation in Withybush, in fact...the provision of gynaecology services is very good.

"(But) we must be concerned if any consultant gets to a point where they feel they have to go public on an issue."

Welsh Conservative health spokesman Jonathan Morgan told BBC Radio Wales that Mr Overton should be reinstated and doctors' concerns should be addressed.

He added: "If you read the letter, it states that they (doctors) believe that a previously good service has been destroyed."

Kirsty Williams, Welsh Liberal Democrat health spokesperson, said: "When staff act in this way, they do so because they have real concerns for their patients."

Plaid Cymru's health spokesman Rhodri Glyn Thomas added: "I think there has to be an investigation into the issues raised by Mr Overton..."

(sorry it's so long but i'm understandably peeved, and what if we do get PG and I have to use this hosp?? I knwo from exp of other women on the estate this hosp is crap - one poor woman had to be cut so they moved her to cardiff - 2hrs away and didn't let her DH in the ambalance, another one went into labour at 20 weeks and they told her if she stayed there the baby would die as they couldn't help so they moved her to cardiff but again her DH wasn't allowed in the van with her so he had to go in their own car).

munnzieb · 04/02/2005 09:07

(oooh sorry didn't realise it would be soo long, but i'm really miffed at it!)

Hulababy · 04/02/2005 09:16

Not suprised you are annoyed Munnzieb.

munnzieb · 04/02/2005 09:22

so what do u recon? SHould I

A) stay where I am and hope I get an apt b4 May
b) Ring the registrar woman every week until I get an apt
c) Ring my Dr to see if he'll reffer me to Carmarthen/Swansea? (althou he's prev said i'll only be reffered there if the probs can't be sorted at our one in pembs - I mean it's stupid - one hospital to cover the whole of Pembs, and cardiganshire the A&E is only open 8-8!, after theat they ship you off 35 miles to carms! and well if they can't manage it swansea's a good 70 miles! bloomin cheek!

Hulababy · 04/02/2005 09:25

I gather (c) isn't really a possibility then? I'd go for (b) as the alternative - keep asking about anyone cancelling, etc. Nightmare isn't it?

triceratops · 04/02/2005 09:46

Hi all
It is quite tricky keeping dh on track with the timing of the bd. It was novelty month 1 but month 2 has been hard work, I keep telling him he is not allowed a headache.

Fresco DH doesn't like dirty movies as they have hairy men in them which he is not keen on but he used to like club international type airbrushed naked babes (usually dressed as cowgirls for some reason) before we got married. I am not sure getting him some of these would help with the bd though as these were to be enjoyed alone if you know what I mean. Besides the sight of them would make me feel inferior, it was bad enough when I was fit and 25 pre baby now I am 32 and raddled with a baby belly and no time to wax I am not up to the competition

triceratops · 04/02/2005 09:48

I think you just have to ring them up every day munnizeb, that is the only way you seem to get anywhere with the health service IMO.

jessicasmummy · 04/02/2005 10:33

morning people!!!

could do bd last night - for some reason i was really sore when he tried... never had this problem before so who knows! (Sorry if TMI)

Keep calling MB - you will get there i promise

ref porn - DH loves it, but hey, he's an army lad so why wouldnt he!

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Elf1981 · 04/02/2005 17:22

Afternoon.
God I've had a bad day at work!
AF still not arrived, but still very likely it's going to make an apperance soon!
Ref porn - DH has never really had interest - I'm more curious about it than him!!

JM, ref your prob about BD. Happened to me before. No idea why - next time was quite bad, but think due to having thoughts of previous time on my mind, IYKWIM.

munnzieb · 04/02/2005 17:31

JM - I've had the probs as well, (it was mainly cos the night b4 was ....er come close so I can whisper in ur ear..... it was a bit rough the time previous and I wasn't er... u know... ummm fully lubricated we shall say.... so it was a bit sore but still amanged it anyhow, then waited for a good few days b4 trying again.) I wouldn't worry about it thou.

Hulababy · 04/02/2005 17:55

Well, just finishing getting ready to go to the ball. I'll fill you in tomorrow. Have a nice evening all - I am going to do my best at doing so

jessicasmummy · 04/02/2005 18:54

he was rather rough and i think thats what the problem was.... ill see how it goes later. We are enjoying a bath together tonight and an early night, so once ive had my dinner we have to pray jessica stays asleep!!!

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munnzieb · 04/02/2005 19:14

lol, u go girl! lol, i'll just sit in doors then......alone.......with the dogs.......and the tv....... (sob sob!) lol, DH is ment to be ringing tonight so that will be nice.

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