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May 2025 TTC Support Group

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Muddysocks1 · 17/04/2025 08:07

Hope it’s not too early to start this! For anyone trying in May, and “out” for April.

By some miracle I did fall pregnant this month after over a year TTC but it ended in a chemical just before 5 weeks. I’d tried some new things last cycle (inc baby aspirin and L’arginine, using preseed and doing a daily morning walk!) so going to try all of that again this month and keep my fingers crossed 🤞🏻 don’t know when I’ll ovulate yet but I imagine it’ll be right at the end of April…

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ttcjourney20001 · 09/05/2025 16:27

jelliebean9 · 09/05/2025 16:24

Hey everyone. My AF started today, I expected it yesterday or today. I had always planned to test tomorrow and if I’d held off as planned- I’d never have known about the chemical pregnancy. Not sure if it’s nice to know I conceived or worse knowing I did and then lost it so quickly?! Anyway, we have one more month of trying before we take a break until end of the year, due to a massive family holiday and other booked things that I’d have wanted to be way way out of the first trimester for! So fingers crossed for the last month 🙏 good luck to all those still to test this month and I’m sorry to those joining me in the next thread for another month, when it appears 🩷🩷🩷

Sending my love, chemicals are the worst having been through one in January myself, the promise of a baby gets snatched away. Look after yourself especially right now. Sending you baby dust 💕💕

SureLook · 09/05/2025 16:42

Sorry @jelliebean9 it's so crap. Sending hugs ❤️

Ec2808 · 09/05/2025 16:44

@jelliebean9sending lots of love and hugs!❤️❤️❤️

ttcjourney20001 · 09/05/2025 16:46

Hey everyone, got my tablets and took one about an hour ago, when I tell you I’ve never gone to Tesco so quick for food 🤣🙈 managed to wolf down a meal deal and it’s actually staying down, the nausea is gone. Never been more relieved to keep a chicken Caesar wrap down 🫣

SureLook · 09/05/2025 17:10

Brilliant @ttcjourney20001 👏🏻👏🏻

Muddysocks1 · 10/05/2025 08:27

jelliebean9 · 09/05/2025 16:24

Hey everyone. My AF started today, I expected it yesterday or today. I had always planned to test tomorrow and if I’d held off as planned- I’d never have known about the chemical pregnancy. Not sure if it’s nice to know I conceived or worse knowing I did and then lost it so quickly?! Anyway, we have one more month of trying before we take a break until end of the year, due to a massive family holiday and other booked things that I’d have wanted to be way way out of the first trimester for! So fingers crossed for the last month 🙏 good luck to all those still to test this month and I’m sorry to those joining me in the next thread for another month, when it appears 🩷🩷🩷

Sorry to hear that @jelliebean9 ❤️

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jelliebean9 · 09/05/2025 16:24

Hey everyone. My AF started today, I expected it yesterday or today. I had always planned to test tomorrow and if I’d held off as planned- I’d never have known about the chemical pregnancy. Not sure if it’s nice to know I conceived or worse knowing I did and then lost it so quickly?! Anyway, we have one more month of trying before we take a break until end of the year, due to a massive family holiday and other booked things that I’d have wanted to be way way out of the first trimester for! So fingers crossed for the last month 🙏 good luck to all those still to test this month and I’m sorry to those joining me in the next thread for another month, when it appears 🩷🩷🩷

Oh no, so sorry @jelliebean9.
Personally, I do think it's better to know about the chemicals. It helps with any potential future tests etc but they do suck! Lets hope we have better luck this month. X

FigPig · 10/05/2025 10:44

I’m so sorry @jelliebean9. I agree I’d rather know, and that it’s hopeful for the future, but it’s so personal. Fingers crossed for you next month.

Katfluff21 · 10/05/2025 13:10

Hi ladies!

So am update on the cramps I've been having, turns out they were absolutely implantation cramps! These were taken this morning.

I'm shocked and a little scared to be honest (this is our third), so just waiting for it to sink in!

Keeping fingers crossed for the rest of you this cycle xx

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ttcjourney20001 · 10/05/2025 14:00

Katfluff21 · 10/05/2025 13:10

Hi ladies!

So am update on the cramps I've been having, turns out they were absolutely implantation cramps! These were taken this morning.

I'm shocked and a little scared to be honest (this is our third), so just waiting for it to sink in!

Keeping fingers crossed for the rest of you this cycle xx

Congratulations!! I too had implantation cramps and was like wait up this is way too early to be on my period. Next thing I knew I had a positive test, that was with a previous pregnancy though, unfortunately it didn’t end the way I wanted it to but still had those cramps!! Fingers crossed this is a sticky baby 🫶🏼

on a darker note, the tablets aren’t really working - the nausea is still there, been sick twice today already. Also trapped gas is back, need to go toilet but I can’t. In absolute agony. Now got to do a food shop at Tesco will literally be walking around like a zombie

2Sugars2 · 10/05/2025 14:08

Congratulations @Katfluff21 ✨✨

Bas27 · 10/05/2025 17:47

@jelliebean9so sorry my lovely. I think I would rather know too as tough as it is at least you know it happened at all.

@Katfluff21congrats!

@ttcjourney20001 - go back to the doctors if it’s bad - there are other sorts of anti sickness they can try, either solo or in combination with what you have.
with my daughter I had cyclizine, Omeprazol, ondansetron and I also tried another one - although I can’t remember what it was - only that it didn’t work.

Katfluff21 · 10/05/2025 18:01

ttcjourney20001 · 10/05/2025 14:00

Congratulations!! I too had implantation cramps and was like wait up this is way too early to be on my period. Next thing I knew I had a positive test, that was with a previous pregnancy though, unfortunately it didn’t end the way I wanted it to but still had those cramps!! Fingers crossed this is a sticky baby 🫶🏼

on a darker note, the tablets aren’t really working - the nausea is still there, been sick twice today already. Also trapped gas is back, need to go toilet but I can’t. In absolute agony. Now got to do a food shop at Tesco will literally be walking around like a zombie

@ttcjourney20001Thank you!

That's so frustrating the tablets aren't working. Can they give you anything else at all? X

Mummysparrow · 10/05/2025 18:38

Can I join in? I have been trying again since my loss in May last year and surgery in January to remove stage 4 endometriosis and repair my c section defect. This is my first cycle TTC since the surgery but I this is cycle 10 overall since starting TTC in December 2023 😬 (I think as honestly I have lost count). Currently 6dpo and itching to test 😂

SureLook · 10/05/2025 18:56

@jelliebean9 how are you today?

@Katfluff21 great news, congratulations ❤️

@ttcjourney20001 I'd link back in with your midwife about that.

@Mummysparrow welcome! And so sorry to hear about your loss x

peanutForever · 11/05/2025 07:42

@Katfluff21congratulations xx

Mickey1995 · 11/05/2025 09:44

Hi everyone, following my chemical last month I’m back tracking ovulation and it seems to have risen yesterday and I felt awful like I usually do around ovulation but today has dipped a lot? Only on cd11 today and last month ovulated cd15 so seems early if it was yesterday? Did anyone else ovulate early after a chemical? (The previous 2 highs were around the chemical when hcg stillbin my system) x

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Ec2808 · 11/05/2025 09:48

@Mickey1995hi! I had a chemical in march and it didn’t affect my cycle i ovulated on cd 14 like the months before but this is already month 3 ttc and kind of feel like my body is broken 😔😔 here’s my ovulation test after chemical for reference! 🤞🏻 for you and soi sorry for your loss ❤️

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Mummysparrow · 11/05/2025 11:03

@Ec2808 it can take up to a year to conceive so try not to be too harsh on yourself. I had to have a TFMR in May last year and struggled to conceive ever since. Though my c section defect probably didn't help that

Ec2808 · 11/05/2025 11:06

@Mummysparrowsoo sorry to hear that 😔😔 i dont think i could do this to myself for that long mentally i cant take it and its putting a lot of stress on our relationship at home..😕❤️

Mummysparrow · 11/05/2025 11:08

@Ec2808 what's causing the stress at home? are you timing your sex for over the fertile window? You don't need to have sex every day either. I literally have sex 3 times during the fertile window.

Ec2808 · 11/05/2025 11:10

@Mummysparrowthis cycle we did.. and it felt way less natural more like a chore 😕 we did the smep plan to try and increase our chances 🤷🏻‍♀️

ttcjourney20001 · 11/05/2025 11:18

Hi everyone, been quite silent on here. I’m really struggling with regulating my emotions this week, that and I just feel so groggy all the time, I’m not myself I’m currently just a shell, walking around with my water bottle feeling sorry for myself 🤣 I hope everything gets better soon because my days consist of nausea, headaches and no appetite

BritishDesiGirl · 11/05/2025 15:07

DPO 2 of the dreaded TWW

Mummysparrow · 12/05/2025 12:41

So I took a test at work and I didn't see a line within a minute or two so went back to work. Looked at test again and hour later and this line is on it. Is it real or an evap? Never had an evap line before with a clear blue but I know it happens. I am 8dpo

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