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that wagons getting roomy - a TTC and waiting TTC thread

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nobodyputsBBinthecorner · 13/05/2008 20:06

ha ha no names mentioned this time

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kayzisexpecting · 21/05/2008 17:18

Evening.

Cosmo, I don't think unless you win the lottery or are married to a russian oil giant(or similar) there is ever a right time to have a baby. You'll never have enough money or something similar. Which is why we decided not to wait until May and just went for it.

But whatever you and Playing do it has to be your decision and you need to be happy with it.

I'm bloody boiling today. I am just so hot and I can't seem to get cool.

Cosmogirl · 21/05/2008 17:19

I think I'm strapped back into the wagon. Just having a bad week I guess. Though having said that, I could see myself potentially moving forward to Sept - so we might be starting at the same time

Playingthewaitinggame · 21/05/2008 17:19

I do think though, there isn't such a thing as an ideal world or time. But I am kinda working on we can afford to have a baby come May (last loan repayment april) but its more likely to be Sept-Dec. So that should give us a few months to save but if it happens quicker than fantastic. That way I whatever happens is a good result, it won't put too much pressure on us to get pg straight away but if it does happen we know we will be able to comfortably afford it. Thats the theory anyhow

Playingthewaitinggame · 21/05/2008 17:21

yay Cosmo, lets both start in sept. Thats only just over 3 months!!!!

Cosmogirl · 21/05/2008 17:21

Thanks Kayz....damn, I knew I should have gone on a date with that oil guy......

Cosmogirl · 21/05/2008 17:25

3 month [gulp] very exciting

Ps. good theory btw Playing. Think we are kindred spirits. We both think things through incredibly thoroughly!

Playingthewaitinggame · 21/05/2008 17:26

Right ladies, the sun is shining so I am going home at a reasonable time for once. I might pop on later to see if NJ reports back but might not post.

Have a good evening all.

nobodyputsBBinthecorner · 21/05/2008 17:30

im here anyone heard from NJ?

against my better instinct i tested today BFN so i am definately not testing till weekend after next!! on that subject tho are first response all that gd? im begginning to think its them thats the problem not me!!

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lardylumps · 21/05/2008 17:31

I will probably still be trying then as well ladies.

Night playing..

kayzisexpecting · 21/05/2008 17:33

Night Playing.

Sorry about BFN BB. First Response are one of the best tests you can buy. You may just be testing early.

LL, don't get downhearted. You might be pregnant by September.

nobodyputsBBinthecorner · 21/05/2008 17:36

see everyone says they are the best and most sensitive but ive heard there can be problems with them ?! anyway deep down i knew it was too early just really really wanted it ya know?! any way not testing for ages yet, no more dissappointment!

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kayzisexpecting · 21/05/2008 17:40

Yeah I'd leave it for as long as you can.

I'll keep my fingers crossed for you BB.

lardylumps · 21/05/2008 17:45

Oh BB sorry about BFN. It?s not over yet though.

Kay I hope I am pg by September. DD was conceived in June so am hoping that I am more fertile in June so will get pg then... stupid I know but need to cling to something.

kayzisexpecting · 21/05/2008 17:47

LOL, LL you could have to March babies!

Have lots of GOF!! Thats my advice. I'm sure your DP would agree with my advice

lardylumps · 21/05/2008 17:52

Think is that before this month for the last two months we gof every day from cd6 until cd20.... last month was a let down due to stress so only gof for 3 days of the month. So something is going wrong.... GOF is not enought. We are using POS this month so we can concentrate our efforts a bit more, iyswim.

kayzisexpecting · 21/05/2008 17:54

I hope it happens soon LL.

nobodyputsBBinthecorner · 21/05/2008 17:54

i does get to you doesnt it this malarky? i keep wondering if i am and just not showing up yet, or if im not a on a long cycle again!!

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NatalieJane · 21/05/2008 17:55

We've just got back, haven't got time right now to go through it all (kids dinner and baths/beds to sort), will do after when DH is watching the football, but.....

EVERYTHING IS FINE

tinkwantstobearockstar · 21/05/2008 17:57

thats great

kayzisexpecting · 21/05/2008 17:57

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

YES OH YES!!!!!!!!!!! WOOHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sorry I'm slightly happy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

nobodyputsBBinthecorner · 21/05/2008 17:59

OMFG IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU

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nobodyputsBBinthecorner · 21/05/2008 18:00

get back on asap and tell all you amazing woman!!

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glaskham · 21/05/2008 18:01

WOWIE!!!!!!! so glad all is ok!!!!

kayzisexpecting · 21/05/2008 18:01

The football is on about half 7. So we'll have to be here.

YAY!!!

lardylumps · 21/05/2008 18:02

Yessssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss sssss.... Oh NJ it couldn't of happended to a nicer person.... omg I am so pleased for you. Infact i am going to crack open the bubbly on your behalf...... yay.