that wagons getting roomy - a TTC and waiting TTC thread

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ha ha no names mentioned this time

I am off now ladies will speak to you all tomorrow.

bye LL!

ive been coil free since march 31stm had AF 20th april after 65 day cycle so been properly TTC for about a month, TTc last yearf, got pg in first month but sadly had a stress related MC. i vote staying natural for as long as you can so much less stress!!

Don't know anything about the coil and never fancied it myself, but sounds like it takes time to get your cycle 'to normal' Can't imagine having a 65 day cycle, must seem ages to wait. So sorry to hear about your mc, keeping my fingers crossed for you When did you say your af was due?

i normally have 30 dya cycle and its CD 30 today so dont know if im overdue yet or not, will prob test next friday, just to be sure! am feeling pg like you tho!

the coil was ok but i wont be having it back i dont think x

ooh, so could be some news then! Will be thinking of you!

thanks what about you? have you been GOF'ing (what we call sex, stands for good old fu..!) much?

Ooh BB could be slightly exciting! Is that this friday or next friday?

We were busy on the days that I was supposed to be fertile according to this website! www.askdramy.com/ovulationcalc.html
And were very busy after af ended so fingers crossed!

that sounds MF1!

squack it cld be but im trying nt to get my hopes up ya know?! im gonna try and wait till next friday but perhaps will test monday as due to time constraints its easiet to get FMU on days off lol! if no BFP/AF this mon, then retest next sat i should think !!

Ooh that's an interesting link, thanks.

If I'm successful this moth I'll be due around the 21st February which is my dad's birthday

BUT BB if you are technically due today then waiting until the weekend will likely give you a positive test.

Test this Friday, go on! You'll be 3 days late

I thought it was a good site, just enough to give me an idea of when I was (hopefully) fertile! Have had a sore throat and cold last few days so cooling off with the gofing!

oh that'd be nice squack!

right im off gonna get ready and watch that supersize on BBC2, about world war 2 diet so speak tommorrow, although probably not till the evening!

so i will say:

Night all!!

and for NJ -
chin up and stay strong sweetheart, its awful and you dont deserve it at all but you are strong and resilient and you can get through this xxx

Think I will be off too, dh will be home from footie practise in a minute! (no energy for bd though lol!)Will be back

NJ, so sorry I missed you earlier - I saw your sad face and then had to leave work before I saw an update. Am so sorry for you, but will keep praying for the best. Glad DH has got home to you.

to you.

Squack - have you taken up NJ's post while she's away - encouraging BB to test?

Btw BB, you know you should test at least by Saturday.

Right, one million and one things to do tonight, so had best go.

Thinking of you NJ
Star xx

Hi everyone.

Nat, look after yourself 'hun' I hope that it doesn't mean the worst. We're here when you need us.

I have just had a bad mummy moment. I went to change DS for bed and he had a really bad nappy. It was really runny and had bits of what he had eaten for lunch in it and I paniced(sp). I just ran a little bath put him in washed him and then dressed him and put him up to bed with his bottle as usual.

I'm really worried now I should have done something else. He seems fine but I am worried sick he'll be sick during the night. I want to bring him into bed with us but I don't think DH would be happy about it as he gets in late.

I'm known for being a bit norty for testing.

I should know better tbh what with my cp month before last

I agree BB leave it another week, the longer you wait the more likely it is you are pg

Kay,
I wouldn't worry - the fact that he let you put him in the bath, give him a bottle and went to sleep is a good sign. Unless you noticed that he was lethargic, not holding his head up or closing his eyes against the light - those are all warning signs. He may just have a little upset tummy and sleep will be the best thing. Obviously, I'm no medical expert and if you want to bring him into your bed, you should (IME once they're past 1 year old, when you are both tired you will sleep regardless of having DS in bed with you). Hope DS is alright.
Have a good eve.

He is fine in himself perfectly normal. Screamed about bein taken out of the bath as he would probably spend all day in there if I let him.

He took his bottle and is fast asleep. I do think I'll sleep with one ear open though.

Thanks Star.

Morning.

Thanks for all of the kind messages last night, sorry I just couldn't face it all yesterday, but today I have kind of resigned myself to what is happening, and everyone has been so kind, have had emails, CAT's, messages on here, I can't ignore you all for much longer!

We are going to go straight to the EPU after DS1 is at school, just hope they will see me without a referral.

Kay, don't know if it much help now, but DS2 quite often poohs stuff out that isn't digested, I think it is just their system getting more used to food, you can guarantee with DS2, if you give him raisons, he will pooh at least 4 out in tact! I think it is pretty normal.

Morning Nat.

I'm so sorry. I don't really know what to say. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that its not bad news.

DS is ok this morning. He slept all night as normal. I think that what he had for lunch didn't agree with him.

Glad DS is OK

Have just found out if EPU won't see me, I can go to A&E for a refferal to EPU. Am so glad I won't have to go to doc's.

tut referral

EPU's annoy me sometimes. The one near here is open 9-12 and you have to have rung them the day before. What if you bleed overnight?

Hopefully EPU will see you straight away.

Thanks Kay.

Spose I'd better go and get ready, I don't want to, if I get ready I have to go, and I don't want to go