2DPO 12th Jan - anyone with me?

[Babydust82]

As the title says, I’m 2DPO on 12th January and TTC baby no.2. Feeling chilled at the moment as it’s 1st cycle and it took 4 months last time. Going to try and hold out from testing early!

@Babydust82 - sorry to jump in here! I see you say you're only 1 month trying. We are too but for number 2, and I feel really heavy tonight too!

It's crazy how heavy it can weigh on you isn't it?

I'm due on tomorrow but been getting negatives. With my first I tested positive 6 days before my period.

I have PMDD so normally I have the most painful boobs before my period but NOTHING at all right now it's weird.

I just wish for my period to come now so I can move on and forget about this month.

I really feel for people who have been trying for a long time. TTC is painful and wonderful 😔

Thanks @houwseevryweekend I've tried that and while I can do it it reverts the colours once I put my phone back to normal. I can definitely see something though. Try again tomorrow!

I’m trying for baby number 2 also! Took 4 months last time so I hope it happens fairly quickly again.
I know, I can’t imagine going through this for years! Must be so hard.
ah I hope you aren’t out this month but if so, happy to stay in this chat and go through the next month together

@Babydust82 - thanks! Have you fully come on today?

A sept/early oct baby would have been lovely I must say! My little boy was born a week before Christmas so I'm going to avoid march/april like the plague 😂

I normally get my signs, boobs, dizziness, and anger (defo got that today though) and normally a little sign the day before but nothing.

I don't know if there's any proof of this but I heard starting prenatal vitamins can sometimes make your cycle move 🤷🏻‍♀️

Yes I’m properly on today unfortunately.
oh wow yes 2 birthdays on top of Christmas would be quite a lot!
I think I read that about prenatal vitamins last time also.. not that I took any!

Think I can say I'm out now. AF is late (due Tues) but nothing but BFN on tests! Think miscarriage last month has thrown my cycle out. Urgh another month ahead 😞 xx

I'm also pretty convinced I'm out but I'm not out yet. This mornings test (10dpo) doesn't look any different to yesterday's so I'm guessing what I saw yesterday was indent. It definitely seems to have colour rather than just grey though so I'll wait and squint again tomorrow. AF due technically Saturday but my ovulation was 4-5 days early this month and that's the app calculating based on luteal phase. We shall see how accurate it is.

Seems to be same for me - did a cheeky test today and BFN. AF is 2/3 days away and my MC last month messed up my cycle - so not entirely sure when I ovulated either. If no period on Sat but still BFN I must have ovulated later than I thought as my luteal phase is normally consistent. In which case we missed the window. Pooh.

12dpo and a BFN here. Ugh

I'm pretty sure I'm out for this month too. Feeling very crampy this morning like AF is on her way! Not technically due until tomorrow/Friday but she has a habit of turning up a bit earlier than expected 😣

Pretty certain I'm out - 10DPO, BFN and watery bleeding here this morning.

11DPO here and BFN... I am really disappointed as have some clear symptoms! AF technically not due until Friday/Sat but just feel it would be BFP by now? 😣

Sorry to all those out as well - the months feel so long...

No show today and I'm normally dead on the day or sometimes a day before I'm due on. It's soo weird! I keep getting twinges kind of like aches in my groin which I don't think I normally get but I feel like I'm going crazy.

I'm certain I'm not going to get a positive but my husband thinks I should do a test tomorrow morning 🤷🏻‍♀️

have you tested already recently @LouLou0505 ? really hope it's something for you!!

I tested Sunday and Monday first pee of the day and was negative both times but after an hour on both tests I got strange blue lines so they don't count 🤷🏻‍♀️

I wouldn't care if it wasn't for the fact I'm normally like clockwork with the most obvious symptoms before my period

These were my tests

ah @LouLou0505 those lines do look a bit 'off' ! It's so hard isn't it - I would say maybe if tomorrow AF still isn't here I would try a different brand but equally I am POAS addict already lol only a few months in to TTC no1

@MakeMeJuno - so off aren't they! I've never had that with tests before!

I've got a first response one which I hear is better to use a red dye one sooo..

I guess I should test tomorrow but I hate the low feeling I get after I see a negative 😔

The only good side is I work from home and tomorrow I'll be working while my little boy is at nursery so I can be sad by myself haha!

Just done another test which is very much negative but still no signs of AF. It feels like such a mind game! The only time I've ever been late was when I was pregnant with my son so god knows what's going on!

Just wish it would come so I know when I can start planning next cycle 🙃

@LouLou0505 completely understand how you feel, but no news is still good news for now. Sending you all the positivity.
any news from anyone else?

@LouLou0505 oh that is sooo confusing. You must really wish you knew what was happening one way or another! You're not out yet though! 🤞🏻

Despite feeling quite crampy yesterday morning there is no sign of AF yet, which is a bit unusual for me as usually it starts quite soon after the first cramps. Trying to resist testing today and will test tomorrow morning if she hasn't showed up yet!

@Babydust82 - thank you!

@pamplemousse19 - since I've been busy this morning I keep feeling more crampy in my ovaries though so fingers crossed it comes later or tomorrow!

Do you have any symptoms at all?

CD30 / 13dpo here. Another BFN so I really think I’m out this month. I wish AF would hurry up now so I can just move on to next month

@LouLou0505 No symptoms no, although I didn't really have any when I was pregnant with my first. I am quite hungry at the moment. But that is probably just PMS! 🤷🏼‍♀️ I'm WFH today and it's a real struggle resisting the urge to test 😅

Hope that you and the others on here in limbo land get an answer soon! The waiting and uncertainty is horrible isn't it!

Still bfn at 11dpo 😔pretty sure I'd be able to see something by now. AF due Saturday so should know this weekend. I usually have a 29 day cycle and this is on course to be 25 days for no discernable reason. So maybe there wasn't enough/any time between my period and my fertile window. Who knows. Edit to remove stray emojis.