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TTC FIRST BABY - New cycle, let's go girls !

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Lila34830 · 10/10/2024 10:19

Follow up form TTC BABY #1 - cycle buddies.
For all the girls trying to conceive their first baby !

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slothbat · 21/10/2024 15:48

@Frenchtoastie I'm cycle day 13 today so I guess still early but peaked day 12 last month I'll attach the photo.

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KT199 · 21/10/2024 15:54

slothbat · 21/10/2024 15:34

Yeah it's so hard to not make it a chore!! I was thinking to try every day this week but I feel like it's too much with work and life etc! So thinking will see what happens! Haven't even had a peak yet which I normally would have - if anything the OPK tests only have one line?! They are so so faint?! Is that normal? Xx

I just wish I could foresee whether today or tomorrow is “peak” 🤣

Hm, mine are very light prior to any kinda surge like register on Premom as 0.1.. attached mine for last few days with todays peak just for reference and normally is. But I can always just about make out a line

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KT199 · 21/10/2024 15:57

Frenchtoastie · 21/10/2024 15:25

I think do it when you fancy! If it’s feeling like a chore I’m sure it won’t work aswell 😂
how long do you normally have high LH strips for before the peak?

Hard to predict, only tracked two cycles but one I peaked 8hrs after first positive, second one I peaked 30 hours after first positive 😂

Oh really? I have been told that even if you don’t see it visibly when wiping ect there still will be plenty inside which you cannot see so try not to worry too much!

Frenchtoastie · 21/10/2024 16:43

KT199 · 21/10/2024 15:57

Hard to predict, only tracked two cycles but one I peaked 8hrs after first positive, second one I peaked 30 hours after first positive 😂

Oh really? I have been told that even if you don’t see it visibly when wiping ect there still will be plenty inside which you cannot see so try not to worry too much!

So could be day or tomorrow 😭 maybe DTD tonight and then tomorrow you might get a second wind? (If you haven’t peaked)

oh that’s good to know! Last month I had loads when I wiped and thus month nothing 🥲

KT199 · 21/10/2024 20:41

slothbat · 21/10/2024 15:48

@Frenchtoastie I'm cycle day 13 today so I guess still early but peaked day 12 last month I'll attach the photo.

I can see the lines where they’ve dried down, but are faint. Do you track them in Premom? It can be hard to tell what the line looked like when the tests were considered valid. It least there is a line, mine are really light before I get a sudden peak. Are yours normally this light before a surge or is it out of the ordinary?

KT199 · 21/10/2024 20:43

Frenchtoastie · 21/10/2024 16:43

So could be day or tomorrow 😭 maybe DTD tonight and then tomorrow you might get a second wind? (If you haven’t peaked)

oh that’s good to know! Last month I had loads when I wiped and thus month nothing 🥲

Yeah, it’s so annoying as my obsessive personality can’t cope with it 😂. I wish there was an exact science to this LH testing, hate it being a rough guide of upto 48 hrs!

Frenchtoastie · 21/10/2024 21:51

slothbat · 21/10/2024 15:48

@Frenchtoastie I'm cycle day 13 today so I guess still early but peaked day 12 last month I'll attach the photo.

keep testing!! It might be high tomorrow 🙌
Definitely log them on pre mom so it gives you the rating for each one there’s different tabs for different brands of tests x

Lila34830 · 21/10/2024 21:57

Keep testing girls !
I'm super light too, but my peak comes later... last month I didn't have any CM but I had a peak, I'm hoping to have CM + peak this month...

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Lila34830 · 21/10/2024 22:01

@KT199 I'm exactly the same with my opk ! Super light until the peak .... !
Hoping for a strong surge for all of us (and then the dreaded 2WW!)

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littlebluu · 22/10/2024 14:02

Afternoon ladies,

Well tww starts properly for me today! I don't think it'll be a successful cycle for us unfortunately. Lh peaked on Saturday evening, and started to decline the next morning, however I didn't get any CM until yesterday (and even at that, not alot) so a bit uncertain as to when ovulation actually was, we didn't DTD yesterday or today so I don't think we've covered enough days, I know they say it can stay active up to 5 days but it lessens our chances I guess.
I just didn't have the energy to force DTD, it's getting to the point it just feels sort of...awkward?
So..if it happens to be our month, it'll catch I guess.

Hope everyone is having a good Tuesday so far!

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Fashionlover123 · 22/10/2024 14:15

littlebluu · 22/10/2024 14:02

Afternoon ladies,

Well tww starts properly for me today! I don't think it'll be a successful cycle for us unfortunately. Lh peaked on Saturday evening, and started to decline the next morning, however I didn't get any CM until yesterday (and even at that, not alot) so a bit uncertain as to when ovulation actually was, we didn't DTD yesterday or today so I don't think we've covered enough days, I know they say it can stay active up to 5 days but it lessens our chances I guess.
I just didn't have the energy to force DTD, it's getting to the point it just feels sort of...awkward?
So..if it happens to be our month, it'll catch I guess.

Hope everyone is having a good Tuesday so far!

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Hi! This is exactly what happened with me too. So confusing isn’t it!

Lila34830 · 22/10/2024 14:18

Hey girls, do you think it's almost worst DTD when rising, on peak, on the day and when cm shows up ? So confusing isn't it....

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pastelpink0 · 22/10/2024 14:19

Hi ladies, I was away on holiday for a while and decided to just put anything to do with TTC out of my head... now that I'm back home, I've found out a friend is pregnant.
I'm obviously happy for her but feeling a little sad today.

Hope everything is doing well and thinking of those in their TWW xx

Frenchtoastie · 22/10/2024 14:24

pastelpink0 · 22/10/2024 14:19

Hi ladies, I was away on holiday for a while and decided to just put anything to do with TTC out of my head... now that I'm back home, I've found out a friend is pregnant.
I'm obviously happy for her but feeling a little sad today.

Hope everything is doing well and thinking of those in their TWW xx

Aww I feel your pain it seems like the world is pregnant or just have birth atm!!

sending love and baby dust for you, stay positive!

x

KT199 · 22/10/2024 14:25

pastelpink0 · 22/10/2024 14:19

Hi ladies, I was away on holiday for a while and decided to just put anything to do with TTC out of my head... now that I'm back home, I've found out a friend is pregnant.
I'm obviously happy for her but feeling a little sad today.

Hope everything is doing well and thinking of those in their TWW xx

Hey!!

I can completely understand this, I found out my sister was pregnant the other month so a little different, and whilst I was happy for her and excited for a niece/nephew I was also sad for me as it was just after AF arrived after our first month TTC. For her it just happened, no testing / tracking ect. Sorry for rambling there but just wanted to say your feelings are normal and valid 🙂. You never know this could be your month and you could share the journey with her!

When does your TWW start?

pastelpink0 · 22/10/2024 17:20

@Frenchtoastie @KT199 Thank you both xx isn't it so lovely to have this little corner of MN where we can all connect and understand how each other feels!

@KT199 my AF actually just ended last week so fingers crossed over the next week or so! This is only our second month of "properly" trying but it's already so draining 😳 all the testing, researching, googling... if only I put this much effort in at school 😂

slothbat · 22/10/2024 17:26

Hi all! Just catching up on posts now! God this is hard isn't it! Hope your all feeling ok.

I was testing my OPK with strip tests from poundland .... thought today I'd get the clear blue one and straight away got my solid smiley face! Going to do one the strip tests in a bit to see if they are a dud pack! So someone tell me ... when do I now need to DTD - done it every day since Saturday, including today. Do I need to do it again tomorrow? 🫠🫠🫠🫠

KT199 · 22/10/2024 17:27

@littlebluu it is so confusing! I find myself wondering each time if we’ve actually covered when needed.. and I am already reaching sex feeling like a chore at this point in my cycle. I feel like I can’t be bothered forcing it either.

@Lila34830 I wonder this too tbh. Because ovulation is 24-48 hrs (allegedly) after start of the rise and 8-20hrs after “peak”. I feel like the positive test makes you feel like you have to start with DTD.. but I’m certain last 2 months we’ve not timed it correctly and by time it comes to peak we’re all out of steam and the “product” from my OH is probably next to nothing and useless for peak and ovulation day. I wanted to wait it out a little more this month and typically.. I had “peak” yesterday when we’d already DTD the day before. My temps haven’t changed as though I’m going to ovulate, my surge was really short and I have no clue what’s going on 🤣

KT199 · 22/10/2024 17:30

slothbat · 22/10/2024 17:26

Hi all! Just catching up on posts now! God this is hard isn't it! Hope your all feeling ok.

I was testing my OPK with strip tests from poundland .... thought today I'd get the clear blue one and straight away got my solid smiley face! Going to do one the strip tests in a bit to see if they are a dud pack! So someone tell me ... when do I now need to DTD - done it every day since Saturday, including today. Do I need to do it again tomorrow? 🫠🫠🫠🫠

If you’ve got a solid smiley then the CB is saying the next 48hrs are your most fertile! So “peak” fertility today with the suggestion tomorrow would be ovulation day. Your choice if you go again 🤣🤣😅

Lila34830 · 22/10/2024 17:32

@KT199 this is exactly what we've done and by the time I was peaking we were completely done and couldn't be arsed so I think we have DTD too early like 3 days before actual ovulation, and I think even though sperm lives for 5 days it's actually not guaranteed ! I'm supposed to peak any day from tomorrow so I think we will DTD tomorrow and then when I peak through ovulation day and maybe once again on cm day ?

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Lila34830 · 22/10/2024 17:33

slothbat · 22/10/2024 17:26

Hi all! Just catching up on posts now! God this is hard isn't it! Hope your all feeling ok.

I was testing my OPK with strip tests from poundland .... thought today I'd get the clear blue one and straight away got my solid smiley face! Going to do one the strip tests in a bit to see if they are a dud pack! So someone tell me ... when do I now need to DTD - done it every day since Saturday, including today. Do I need to do it again tomorrow? 🫠🫠🫠🫠

😂 I would do tomorrow too so you cover all basis !!!! 🤞🏼

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Gemmaemilyx · 22/10/2024 17:49

slothbat · 21/10/2024 15:48

@Frenchtoastie I'm cycle day 13 today so I guess still early but peaked day 12 last month I'll attach the photo.

are these boots own brand of ovulation sticks? They gave me the faintest line and never a peak! I tried Premom and they work perfectly! Xxx

Lila34830 · 22/10/2024 17:51

@slothbat I second @Gemmaemilyx my pre mom are great especially logging them into the app I find this super convenient. I'd recommend them as it can also help you track your pattern of ovulation (that being said it's only my second month on them 😂 but last month I had a peak etc :) )

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slothbat · 22/10/2024 18:09

@Lila34830 good god again tomorrow 😂😂😂😂😂

Yeah I was looking into it, I was logging last month on an app called Glow, I'll attach a pic of last month and you could see it increase but this month with the tests nothing?!

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slothbat · 22/10/2024 18:26

So below is one of the test strips? Do I go with the CB one?!

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