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TTC buddies Baby #1 - anyone ?

622 replies

Lila34830 · 28/09/2024 17:01

Hey ladies πŸ‘‹πŸ½
Just thought I'd post this to find some buddies in the TTC journey as a clueless gal trying for baby #1 ! 🫢🏽
Ovulated today, so I guess the 2WW starts ! ⏰
Anyone else starting their 2WW ? ☺️

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Parks17 · 02/10/2024 14:08

@Lila34830 I'm on CD20 - I did think maybe the test thought it was a brand new cycle as I've only used it this cycle!

@kt199 Thank you! That was my first thought, especially as it's the first proper cycle i've used it on. Been off the pill for 2 years in November with very irregular cycle so it's taking some getting used to!

KT199 · 02/10/2024 14:11

Parks17 · 02/10/2024 14:08

@Lila34830 I'm on CD20 - I did think maybe the test thought it was a brand new cycle as I've only used it this cycle!

@kt199 Thank you! That was my first thought, especially as it's the first proper cycle i've used it on. Been off the pill for 2 years in November with very irregular cycle so it's taking some getting used to!

No problem, happy to be able to help ☺️
The good news is estrogen is higher mid luteal phase if conception has occurred, so maybe it’s a little sign! But can’t really hang onto it as it doesn’t show levels and you aren’t far off the middle of the luteal phase when it typically rises anyway! I guess it is good to know though that your hormones are rising at the right times!! 😊

Lila34830 · 02/10/2024 14:29

I feel like I'm coming down with some kind of flu !!! So annoyed ! I feel so nauseous and fevery so maybe my bug is back 😭 (I'm fully aware this is deffo not pregnancy related, but I'm so annoyed !)

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Lila34830 · 02/10/2024 14:30

@KT199 don't give me this oestrogen hope or I'll start testing tomorrow πŸ˜‚

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HopefulSS · 02/10/2024 14:32

continuallyconfused · 02/10/2024 13:23

Glad I'm not the only one feeling old! I just keep stressing that I'll be 37 before I have a baby. I'm now thinking I wish we'd started earlier but need to remind myself that for years I wasn't sure and I wouldn't have had the life I had if I'd had a kid earlier!
@HopefulSS I haven't had any tests done yet. I had a scan for a cyst a couple of years ago and the sonographer said my follicles and everything looked very good for my age so I took that as I had time but as you say we've all been told the old clock is ticking!
I've had a few friends get pregnant without even trying at 37/38 so was hopeful I'd be one of them but doesn't seem to be the case.
Years of birth control seemingly for no reason πŸ˜‚

Yep I feel that too! I will be 36 before I have a baby too & that's if we manage to conceive easily. If not I may be older! Some of my friends have also conceived really easy at my age too so I was hoping I'd be the same.... we are only cycle 3 though which is considered very early. I don't think we can stress really until the 6 month mark.

HopefulSS · 02/10/2024 14:38

@Lila34830 yeah we need to start seeing some bfps here!! Gives us all hope!

HopefulSS · 02/10/2024 14:45

pastelpink0 · 02/10/2024 13:41

@HopefulSS you are definitely not alone - I'm impatient at the best of times never mind waiting for 2 whole weeks!! I'm keeping ok thank you, glad to hear you're hanging in there too! How lovely it is that we have this space to vent and talk with people in the same boat x

Yeah it is so nice we can all vent and share experiences with! Glad you are doing ok. I'm so impatient I really am lol trying not to over analyse anything x

KT199 · 02/10/2024 14:45

Lila34830 · 02/10/2024 14:29

I feel like I'm coming down with some kind of flu !!! So annoyed ! I feel so nauseous and fevery so maybe my bug is back 😭 (I'm fully aware this is deffo not pregnancy related, but I'm so annoyed !)

Ohhh no way 😩 some people do report cold/flu and defo nausea as a pre pregnancy symptom so don’t go counting yourself out!!

HAHAHA that comment about the oestrogen, I WAS TOO TEMPTED TO TEST USING MINE WHEN I REALISED!! I’ve held back though hah! Promised myself NO preemptive testing this cycle.

HopefulSS · 02/10/2024 14:47

@KT199 ok you aren't a dinosaur at all lol πŸ˜‚ I'm really struggling to get through this week without going crazy! It's all madness! Roll on Tuesday / Wednesday when I know AF will be coming. I normally spot a tiny bit the day before so Tuesday will give it away!

slothbat · 02/10/2024 14:47

@HopefulSS @Lila34830 @KT199 @Parks17 @pastelpink0 @continuallyconfused @HeartyPanda @missoa

Hey just catching up on your messages! Well I'm officially the oldest dinosaur then πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ I'm 37!!

When can everyone start testing from?! I'm due on on the 11th! Trying to hold out till then! How are you all feeling?

The thought of having to do this again next month is getting me down!!! This whole TWW is just something else!!! Am I the only one feeling like this?

Lila34830 · 02/10/2024 14:48

@KT199 I really don't think it's pregnancy symptoms in my case ! I'd have been so hopeful if I was like 10 dpo πŸ˜‚ I feel like this is going to throw me out ready for a bfn but we don't know until we know I guess !

Omg don't ! I stoped
Testing for lh yesterday I refuse to fall into the LH tests on top of HCG tests πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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KT199 · 02/10/2024 14:48

pastelpink0 · 02/10/2024 13:41

@HopefulSS you are definitely not alone - I'm impatient at the best of times never mind waiting for 2 whole weeks!! I'm keeping ok thank you, glad to hear you're hanging in there too! How lovely it is that we have this space to vent and talk with people in the same boat x

I second how amazing it is to have people to vent to!! If I was hassling my OH every 3 minutes saying im this, im that, is it a sign I think he would lose the will to live with me πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ€£. I also haven’t told any family/friends we are trying, so it’s amazing to have people in the same boat to offload to.. I really think it’s done my mental health the world of good!

Lila34830 · 02/10/2024 14:50

Guys we deffo need one person a month at least to exit the dino club with a bfp !!! manifesting

πŸ¦–

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slothbat · 02/10/2024 14:50

@Lila34830 πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ to become a fossil πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Lila34830 · 02/10/2024 14:51

@slothbat lmfao I was looking for the next level transformation !!! πŸͺ¨ this is hilarious πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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Lila34830 · 02/10/2024 14:52

πŸ¦– πŸ¦•-> πŸͺ¨

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slothbat · 02/10/2024 14:52

@Lila34830 πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ πŸͺ¨

Lila34830 · 02/10/2024 14:52

If anyone finds this thread now they're gonna be so confused

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KT199 · 02/10/2024 14:53

HopefulSS · 02/10/2024 14:47

@KT199 ok you aren't a dinosaur at all lol πŸ˜‚ I'm really struggling to get through this week without going crazy! It's all madness! Roll on Tuesday / Wednesday when I know AF will be coming. I normally spot a tiny bit the day before so Tuesday will give it away!

Honestly, ME TOO! It’s completely consuming me today, I can’t seem to think about anything but - which is probably why I’m so active on this thread when I should be working 🀣. On top I’ve got some bad bloating which, I do normally bloat from 7DPO onwards but it never sticks around if that even makes sense? I usually burp/pump (how embarassing, so sorry for the TMI) and it disappears but it’s just not doing that today so I’m trying to drink plenty and keep wondering about.

KT199 · 02/10/2024 14:59

Lila34830 · 02/10/2024 14:48

@KT199 I really don't think it's pregnancy symptoms in my case ! I'd have been so hopeful if I was like 10 dpo πŸ˜‚ I feel like this is going to throw me out ready for a bfn but we don't know until we know I guess !

Omg don't ! I stoped
Testing for lh yesterday I refuse to fall into the LH tests on top of HCG tests πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Well you never know! πŸ˜‚ but I do know what you mean as I like to try and be real with myself too πŸ˜‚

Hahah! I see people doing LH tests alongside HCG as they show up positive if your pregnant too 🀣 but your right, absolutely do not need to take on anymore bad testing habits!

HopefulSS · 02/10/2024 15:00

slothbat · 02/10/2024 14:47

@HopefulSS @Lila34830 @KT199 @Parks17 @pastelpink0 @continuallyconfused @HeartyPanda @missoa

Hey just catching up on your messages! Well I'm officially the oldest dinosaur then πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ I'm 37!!

When can everyone start testing from?! I'm due on on the 11th! Trying to hold out till then! How are you all feeling?

The thought of having to do this again next month is getting me down!!! This whole TWW is just something else!!! Am I the only one feeling like this?

@slothbat omg no I am with you on not wanting to go through this next month too!!! From one dinosaur to the next lol this is not a pleasant journey πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ I can't even deal right now!

Lila34830 · 02/10/2024 15:01

@HopefulSS @KT199 @slothbat
Let's all pretend this is the long walk all the dinos had to make during big bang. (This sounds even more painful tbh πŸ˜…)

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HopefulSS · 02/10/2024 15:02

@KT199 I've been on the loo for the last two days, that's not normal for me either. I haven't got a dodgy tummy at all but I just need to keep going.... I wonder if it's hormones?! I have no bloat now though. I'm also not doing enough work today, so much for work being a distraction eh πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

HopefulSS · 02/10/2024 15:02

Lila34830 · 02/10/2024 15:01

@HopefulSS @KT199 @slothbat
Let's all pretend this is the long walk all the dinos had to make during big bang. (This sounds even more painful tbh πŸ˜…)

I reckon our walk right now is longer than theirs πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

HopefulSS · 02/10/2024 15:03

Lila34830 · 02/10/2024 14:50

Guys we deffo need one person a month at least to exit the dino club with a bfp !!! manifesting

πŸ¦–

This!!!!

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