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TTC buddies Baby #1 - anyone ?

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Lila34830 · 28/09/2024 17:01

Hey ladies πŸ‘‹πŸ½
Just thought I'd post this to find some buddies in the TTC journey as a clueless gal trying for baby #1 ! 🫢🏽
Ovulated today, so I guess the 2WW starts ! ⏰
Anyone else starting their 2WW ? ☺️

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KT199 · 04/10/2024 15:12

continuallyconfused · 04/10/2024 14:46

Hi πŸ¦– friends!
Been super busy today so just catching up.

Still not tempted to test but we had sex (and just for fun!) last night and after I had quite a bit of bright pink when I wiped, so not sure if that means period is coming early again :( so been a bit deflated today.

Though what @HeartyPanda said is interesting re CM as I've had a bit of this post ovulation which I don't think I normally get?! Maybe a bit of hope...

Busy weekend to hopefully keep my mind off things

oh the bright pink could be implantation!! That sounds really promising for you if you’ve not started bleeding!! X

Lila34830 · 04/10/2024 15:13

I'm manifesting a positive for at least one of the dinos in the dino club πŸ¦•
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I really hope it happens. Would lift my spirit 🫢🏽
I'm currently having some pulling in my uterus - but could totally be the D part of D&V virus πŸ˜‚

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Gemmaemilyx · 04/10/2024 15:16

I’ve just had light pink discharge, I didn’t experience implantation bleeding with my others kids (not that I was symptom spotting though) 10 days till period and 6 dpo, anyone else had IB with one baby and not others?

good luck all 🩷

Lila34830 · 04/10/2024 15:17

Gemmaemilyx · 04/10/2024 15:16

I’ve just had light pink discharge, I didn’t experience implantation bleeding with my others kids (not that I was symptom spotting though) 10 days till period and 6 dpo, anyone else had IB with one baby and not others?

good luck all 🩷

All of us here are trying for our first πŸ˜… so we wouldn't know ! But it sounds very promising for you !

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KT199 · 04/10/2024 15:20

Lila34830 · 04/10/2024 15:13

I'm manifesting a positive for at least one of the dinos in the dino club πŸ¦•
✨
I really hope it happens. Would lift my spirit 🫢🏽
I'm currently having some pulling in my uterus - but could totally be the D part of D&V virus πŸ˜‚

It’s so hard to know isn’t it! I’ve had tummy ache and back ache since about lunch time when I felt sick and had to stop eating lunch.. I don’t want to let myself think it’s a symptom as I don’t want the disappointment. Tbf I do have a dodgey back anyway that does flare up from time to time, but not sure on the feeling sick / stomach pain. Its subsided a little now but still there abit x

slothbat · 04/10/2024 15:21

I feel so emotional today 😭 I don't even know why I did a test at 8DPO but I just feel how I did last month and nothing 😭😭

KT199 · 04/10/2024 15:24

slothbat · 04/10/2024 15:21

I feel so emotional today 😭 I don't even know why I did a test at 8DPO but I just feel how I did last month and nothing 😭😭

Sorry to hear your feeling so down. Your still not out yet, but I get why your still feeling this way. Do you have many plans this weeekend to keep you busy?

All the testing is making me want to test once I’m home, but I know when it’s negative I’m gonna feel the same and I already was feeling rubbish last night!

HopefulSS · 04/10/2024 15:24

slothbat · 04/10/2024 15:21

I feel so emotional today 😭 I don't even know why I did a test at 8DPO but I just feel how I did last month and nothing 😭😭

I've just cried and cried! About to jump on a meeting, great. Going to do a late Pilates class, long dog walk & tidy my house. And just try from now on to let this ttc go. It's so hard I feel your pain 🩷

Gemmaemilyx · 04/10/2024 15:35

Lila34830 · 04/10/2024 15:17

All of us here are trying for our first πŸ˜… so we wouldn't know ! But it sounds very promising for you !

Doh!!!! Sorry I should learn to read properly 🀣🀣 x x

slothbat · 04/10/2024 15:54

@HopefulSS @KT199 yeah I have some plans this weekend so should be busy, it's just so consuming all of this! I really wish I didn't bother testing today! Xx

Lila34830 · 04/10/2024 15:55

@Gemmaemilyx absolutely no apology needed !
Excited for your journey !

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Lila34830 · 04/10/2024 15:56

@slothbat @HopefulSS @KT199 sending you all positive energies from my bed ! Just logged off for the weekend. It's been an exhausting week but next week we will all know anyways, brings some comfort to me. 🀎🀞🏼

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HopefulSS · 04/10/2024 16:00

slothbat · 04/10/2024 15:54

@HopefulSS @KT199 yeah I have some plans this weekend so should be busy, it's just so consuming all of this! I really wish I didn't bother testing today! Xx

Omg same!!! Because it's way too early and it just hurts doesn't it!! Xx

HopefulSS · 04/10/2024 16:01

Lila34830 · 04/10/2024 15:56

@slothbat @HopefulSS @KT199 sending you all positive energies from my bed ! Just logged off for the weekend. It's been an exhausting week but next week we will all know anyways, brings some comfort to me. 🀎🀞🏼

Thanks hun and you! I'm debating gym or Pilates, sun bed, take away, wine, college work .... everything to make me feel better! X

KT199 · 04/10/2024 16:15

I’ve just got home from work.. purposely held my wee from about lunch time, stupidly went and did a test.. ofc it’s negative πŸ™ˆ I swear I won’t test again now until Monday as clearly there is no point.

slothbat · 04/10/2024 16:31

@KT199 it's so easier said than done! The key is not to have tests in the house!!! Xx

KT199 · 04/10/2024 16:39

You’re probably right!! Although I would probably take myself off to boots πŸ˜‚πŸ˜©. I’m not as upset as I thought I would be, probably because I’ve had 0 symptoms and had a feeling it was going to be negative anyway, but I am still disappointed and a little sad. Might have to ask the OH to call to the shop for chocolate on his way home 🀣

KT199 · 04/10/2024 16:41

Lila34830 · 04/10/2024 15:56

@slothbat @HopefulSS @KT199 sending you all positive energies from my bed ! Just logged off for the weekend. It's been an exhausting week but next week we will all know anyways, brings some comfort to me. 🀎🀞🏼

Ahhh thank you. Right back at you. Glad we’ve made it to the weekend and next week is around the corner 😊 I hope AF shows up when she’s meant to, if she’s going to show up. I don’t want this dragging out!!

Lila34830 · 04/10/2024 16:42

@KT199 tell me about it ! AF due on 13th for me ! That's ages away !!

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KT199 · 04/10/2024 16:44

Lila34830 · 04/10/2024 16:42

@KT199 tell me about it ! AF due on 13th for me ! That's ages away !!

Mine is Tuesday or Wednesday.. depends which day I actually ovulated as one app has me at 9DPO and another at 8DPO! Xx

KT199 · 04/10/2024 16:59

My BBT app must be inside my head as look at what just popped up!!!
Most women do not feel anything

I know I’ve had a negative today, but really trying to switch off now and ignore my body and the whole TTC side of things for the weekend. Just want to enjoy my time off work, spend time with friends and family and relax! ☺️

TTC buddies Baby #1 - anyone ?
HopefulSS · 04/10/2024 17:02

KT199 · 04/10/2024 16:39

You’re probably right!! Although I would probably take myself off to boots πŸ˜‚πŸ˜©. I’m not as upset as I thought I would be, probably because I’ve had 0 symptoms and had a feeling it was going to be negative anyway, but I am still disappointed and a little sad. Might have to ask the OH to call to the shop for chocolate on his way home 🀣

I've done exactly this... "babe can you please stop and get me a box of decaf PG tips as I've run out, a bottle of New Zealand Sauvignon blanc & a massive bar of chocolate" πŸ˜‚ just so hard! I'm going to stick some lentil curry in the slow cooker, have a wine & have a nice long dog walk. I know it's not my month now so I'm making a conscious effort to let it go!

HopefulSS · 04/10/2024 17:03

KT199 · 04/10/2024 16:15

I’ve just got home from work.. purposely held my wee from about lunch time, stupidly went and did a test.. ofc it’s negative πŸ™ˆ I swear I won’t test again now until Monday as clearly there is no point.

This game isn't easy... I won't bother now either. I'm not pregnant I know I'm not. All hope has gone now so onto the next month x

KT199 · 04/10/2024 18:55

HopefulSS · 04/10/2024 17:02

I've done exactly this... "babe can you please stop and get me a box of decaf PG tips as I've run out, a bottle of New Zealand Sauvignon blanc & a massive bar of chocolate" πŸ˜‚ just so hard! I'm going to stick some lentil curry in the slow cooker, have a wine & have a nice long dog walk. I know it's not my month now so I'm making a conscious effort to let it go!

Good choice of wine πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ I’ve got my chocolate, cup of tea and debating a takeaway since it’s already almost 7pm and we have nothing in!! Settled on the sofa now with the dogs watching tv! Feeling nice and relaxed despite the bad news earlier ☺️ can’t let it consume and ruin my full weekend!

HopefulSS · 04/10/2024 19:52

@KT199 so I'm at about 9/10 units of wine this week so I will be stopping here lol. Try to keep under 14 units a week. I shall now start with my tea and chocolate once I've finished working. I agree I've told myself now onto the next month & thats that. If AF doesn't show it will be a nice surprise. If she does, well now I expect her anyway. Going to get snuggled with my pups soon too, they've been out all day I've missed them. Just need a good crime film now πŸ˜‚

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