not really much help on the adoption front, althou when a friend of mine wnet down that path S/S wouldn't even think about having her on their books as it were for soemthing like 6 months after she was told in no uncertain terms by the dr she could never have children. I couldn't see there being too much of a prob, I suspect you/DH already fit most of the cirteria. but S/S would prob be my first port of call, althou don't do anything tooo hasty just yet.
Have you tried Zinc? (could be worth a try) I've found this site for you thou for the male fertility male fertility
I don't suppose it would hurt to start on the Angus catus would it?? (not sure really, thou as I mentioned b4 if persona's saying you'ere OV then it can't be anything major, surely, maybe you guys just need some hormones or soemthing?? and another thing whilst i'm on me soap box, if persona was that crap then why would the reviews on it be so good, esp as most women get PG after using it for a few months.
and heres a few sites on this angus stuff, It tastes crappy and you'll feel like yacking but if it helps with the hormones, it might be worth a try, althou my dr wouldn't commit to it in any way as no medical reserch has been done on it, althou scientific research has been done on it. I assume you're also takin folic acid (which I believe can help)
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anyhow all in all hon, Don't give up, have faith, and you will be a mummy soon. as long as ur still OV and still having AF there's hope. I know it's hard right now, and as soon as ur ready - if in deed you feel you want to carry on TTC naturally, all power to you and you know where we all are, but don't give up just becasue of what some stupid jumped up (and I bet he was a little sqquirt) said to you.
For now thou, Dr Munnzie, is prescribing you, lots of TLC from DH, followed by a long bath, along with a large glass of wine a heap of thorntons choc (save the best for times like these) and then you and DH just enjoy each other as it were, no thoughts of TTC no nothing, and wait for your next set of tests. Don't give up fighting thou hon. Thoughts are with you both (thou not too closely! )