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2ww second month ttc

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Bex4567 · 23/09/2023 15:40

Hi just wandered if anyone wanted to join me on my second 2ww...currently ttc ..have a 16 and 12 yesr old but have a new partner so trying for baby 3 ..he has a 9 year old so not his first...currently on 2nd month of trying ...

Just wandered if anyone is asell..
We're trying preeseed and having sex every other day

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Bex4567 · 23/10/2023 18:26

How is everyone doing im 1dpo today going to struggle this next week or so not to test lol

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Comet1992 · 24/10/2023 12:34

@Bex4567 I'm 5dpo today it's difficult isn't it 😬 we dtd 4 out of 6 fertile days so 🤞🏻

Bex4567 · 24/10/2023 13:13

Fingers crossed for you...its total torture I'm 2 pdo today 🤦‍♀️did the dead everyday in fertile window up to ovulation and day of..so if this dosnt work I think I'll give it lol...and think somethjng wrong with me..its so hard..might do a test Sunday which will make me 7dpo I no thats too early still but the torture will get the better of me lol..when u going to test

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Comet1992 · 24/10/2023 17:42

@Bex4567 I'm testing from Saturday I will be 9dpo then I have 10 10miu wondfos, 1 clearblue digital and 1 clearblue 25miu test so tempted to test from 7 but know I will stress weirdly my boobs usually hurt after ovulation but it feels different this month also my back is a bit achy which I never get after ovulation hoping that's a good sign can't help but symptom spot fingers crossed for you too 🤞🏻 your lh tests looked really good

Bex4567 · 24/10/2023 23:49

They did but I never get my hopes up anymore..just feel so negative about it all and I no I shouldn't 😢its just hard...let me no how u get on ill be 7dpo Sunday ill prob do a test 🤣but I no its too early

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nervousn3lly · 26/10/2023 16:51

Hi everyone
I hope your all doing ok this cycle
I'd tried not to come on here but I can't not do it I needed to the tww can be a lonely struggle can't it.
I'm currently 4dpo x

MissEmily5 · 26/10/2023 17:00

@nervousn3lly hey, I’m exactly the same. Really tried to step back a bit this month on here and also symptom spotting.
It’s definitely a lonely time and very tricky to get that balance of hopeful but not getting your hopes up.
I’m currently 10dpo, negative tests this morning and on 8dpo. But feeling a bit ropey today and had spotting yesterday. I’m so anxious about getting my period in 4 days, it’s only a couple of days before my wedding and i really don’t want to be down about it if AF comes xx

TTCgoingcrazy · 26/10/2023 17:11

Hi everyone I’m feeling ok at the moment. I think because I’m not too hopeful this month as I can’t work out my ovulation so not sure if we dtd on the right days. We missed 2 days because I was away for work as well which wasn’t ideal. That being said I’m only about 4 days dpo at the moment so plenty more time to start stressing! The symptom spotting is really hard isn’t it.
@MissEmily5 sorry to hear about your negatives. Fingers crossed it’s just too early yet. Still hope until period arrives x

Bex4567 · 26/10/2023 18:02

Baby dust for all of us...im currently 4dpo and will prob start testing from Sunday which will make me 7dpo which I no is still to early 😪but its been so hard not to test up to now

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Comet1992 · 27/10/2023 11:54

@Bex4567 I gave in and tested today at 8dpo 😣😫 it was obviously negative

Bex4567 · 27/10/2023 11:56

😪still plenty of time yet...im currently 5dpo lower back pain and shooting pains in my boob not taking any symptoms as good rho lol

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Comet1992 · 27/10/2023 15:59

@Bex4567 im not getting my hopes up I got myself a new hot water bottle it's really cute with Guinea pigs on 😆 oh and pads expecting AF to show next Thursday

Bex4567 · 27/10/2023 19:40

Argh bless yeah treat yaaelf why not...you never no..8dpo is still really early..but I no its so hard not to think the worse..I feel positive about this month I've had some white discharge hoping that's a good sign and sore boobs who knows lll

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Comet1992 · 28/10/2023 19:45

@Bex4567 I've had thick white discharge and nipple pain as well I also cried at eastenders the other night and I'm not emotional 🤞🏻 for us tested again today and was BFN at 9dpo so probably going to test until AF now have you tested yet?

Bex4567 · 28/10/2023 20:03

Yes tested this morning at 6dpo and negative ofxourse 😆😆😆don't no why I do it to myself...ooo fingers crossed for you..when is af due

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Bex4567 · 29/10/2023 07:06

Tested this morning 7dpo and bfn
..dont no why I do it yo myself lol.this may sound strange but my nipples look darker? so sure if that's a symptom

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Comet1992 · 29/10/2023 11:16

@Bex4567 10dpo today BFN again AF is due Thursday for me I had weird sharp twinges in stomach yesterday, why do we symptom spot so much 😬 when is AF due for you?

Beccylou94 · 29/10/2023 12:29

Has anyone had a clear blue digital not pregnant come up like instantly? Normally it takes a few mins but by the time I'd washed my hands and glanced over the result was already up?

nervousn3lly · 30/10/2023 12:42

Tested this morning 8dpo bfn as I assumed
I do feel bit more positively this month and hopeful I feel like today I've had some little pains that I've never symptom spotted before hoping it's implantation.
How is everyone else doing x

Bex4567 · 30/10/2023 13:07

I'm currently 8dpo aswell and bfn I am also positive this month too as I had strong opk this month but stil hard sewing negative and not thinking u may be out 😪

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nervousn3lly · 30/10/2023 13:12

@Bex4567 when is af due for you? Mines Saturday with my cycle.
It's very hard not to have negative thoughts those famous words we don't necessarily want to hear but are true until af arrives we in the game!
I keep telling myself with by first and my miscarriage I didn't get a faint line until 10 dpo so it's still early days x

Bex4567 · 30/10/2023 13:19

I'm due Sunday so not far off you...I no its just so hard I no 8dpo is still early 😪
Oh really faint at 10dpo we still have time then .how long have u been trying for .this is month 3 for me. Hoping we get a bfp soon keep us updated...

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nervousn3lly · 30/10/2023 14:06

Month 3 for me too this time around. I fell month 2 but miscarried then waited 2 Af's like I was advised to make sure my cycles become regular now month 3. It definitely takes over your life xx

Bex4567 · 30/10/2023 14:33

It certainly does...if I'm not pregnant this month I literally don't no what to do we couldn't of done anymore. I had such strong opks this month and did it leading up and day off ao couldn't of done anymore..I think ill give up and just take the relaxed approach coz all the sex makes it robotic lol even tho the boyfriend is enjoying himself lol

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Comet1992 · 30/10/2023 19:02

I'm 11dpo today still BFN 😔 AF due Thursday I think I'm out Ive been in such a bad mood the last few days