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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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2ww second month ttc

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Bex4567 · 23/09/2023 15:40

Hi just wandered if anyone wanted to join me on my second 2ww...currently ttc ..have a 16 and 12 yesr old but have a new partner so trying for baby 3 ..he has a 9 year old so not his first...currently on 2nd month of trying ...

Just wandered if anyone is asell..
We're trying preeseed and having sex every other day

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Bex4567 · 30/10/2023 19:41

As they say your not out till your out...im 8dpo today and bfn just did one again today 😆coz I cant wait Till the morning like a normal person lol 😪of im not this month im honestly defeated

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Bex4567 · 30/10/2023 19:44

Hey have u tested again since .

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TTCgoingcrazy · 30/10/2023 22:13

Sorry to hear of your negative results so far ladies. I’m really hoping there’s some positive outcomes on this thread soon.
I am due on Sunday as well. I have no idea when I ovulated. I’m more relaxed this month as convinced myself it didn’t happen. Whereas last month I felt really hormonal and then my period was late so I convinced myself I was then felt devastated. I don’t feel as crazy hormonal this month so hoping that’s me settling after being on contraception for so long.
My plan is not to test until Sunday if period doesn’t arrive as I can’t cope with seeing the negative results. Let’s see if I hold out! 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 for all of us.

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Bex4567 · 31/10/2023 03:12

9dpo and woke up so tested and bfn I give u 😪think im out this monthg

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Comet1992 · 31/10/2023 06:54

@Bex4567 I'm 12dpo today 😣 BFN not a hint of a line AF due in 2 days so think I'm out you still have time 9dpo is still very early

nervousn3lly · 31/10/2023 08:10

Please try not to be disheartened 8-12 dpo is implantation and then allowing time for hcg to rise it could still happen ladies I no it's hard not to feel deflated I'm in same position another bfn this morning for me too. Our times will come be it this cycle or another and the wait will be so worth it x

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Bex4567 · 31/10/2023 08:41

I'm hoping so it's just so hard hearing other people getting bfp on 9 or less.im 37 so no its up against me.my youngest is 13.

Seeing it stark white is deflating

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Bex4567 · 31/10/2023 08:44

U never no fingers crossed are time will come im hoping dou have any other children

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nervousn3lly · 31/10/2023 10:04

I'm 36 with a nearly 2 year old
I agree the bright white lines are soul destroying and hearing other ppls early bfp is a hard blow to take x

BostonTerrierMum23 · 31/10/2023 11:06

Hi everyone

Hope it's okay to hop on this thread? Me and my OH have been trying since may this year but I've only been tracking ovulation through my period app. This month I decided to try ovulation tests so they are arriving tomorrow. But bit of a newbie to the tests so was hoping you guys could give me some pointers, how often do I test? Every day or more than once a day?
Finished my period last Friday and we DTD Saturday and Sunday so hopefully I have caught just in case of early ovulation. App is saying ovulation on Sunday.

Wishing you all baby dust!

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Bex4567 · 31/10/2023 11:34

I would advise not following the app..I was and found it was a few days out so was missing ny peak...I do opks now ..

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BostonTerrierMum23 · 31/10/2023 12:44

This is what made me want to try opks I think my app is missing my peak time so wanted to try and make sure I get it this month

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Bex4567 · 31/10/2023 18:18

9pdo for mw today and bfn..also come out in spots for the past week so thinking .y period is going to come has anyone else come in spots and had a bfp

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TTCgoingcrazy · 01/11/2023 06:50

@BostonTerrierMum23 hi! I am
new to ovulation testing but did quite a lot of research. the Premom app let’s you upload your ovulation test photos on the app and tells you if it’s negative or positive. Some people like to test twice a day so they don’t miss their peak. I am going to do 1 a day until the time it’s most likely to peak then try twice a day on those days so I don’t miss it.

Comet1992 · 01/11/2023 07:54

13dpo today BFN again 😔 AF due tomorrow got lots of creamy discharge can't remember having it this close last cycle hoping she doesn't show hoping someone on this thread gets their BFP this month

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Bex4567 · 01/11/2023 08:09

10dpo here and bfn this morning too period due in 4 days 😪starting to feel theres something wrong with me.
So defeating .i no its onky ny 3rd month but dont no why its ni happeing we did it so much the last 3 months

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Beccylou94 · 01/11/2023 08:18

Bex4567 · 01/11/2023 08:09

10dpo here and bfn this morning too period due in 4 days 😪starting to feel theres something wrong with me.
So defeating .i no its onky ny 3rd month but dont no why its ni happeing we did it so much the last 3 months

It doesn't often happen that quickly I've read. It can take up to a year for a healthy couple to conceive. I joined an nct group and the average time between the 8 of us was over a year. Hold on to some hope

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Bex4567 · 01/11/2023 08:28

Thankyou for your reply its just every month is disheartening.

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BostonTerrierMum23 · 01/11/2023 08:51

@TTCgoingcrazy thank you! From what I've read it's seems to be similar to that. I've downloaded the premom app so that I can add my tests to that.

TTCgoingcrazy · 01/11/2023 08:58

@BostonTerrierMum23 good luck!
@Bex4567 sorry to hear of your bfn 😢 it’s so disheartening isn’t it. I actually wish I’d started a bit sooner now or at least come off the pill a bit sooner. I’m sure our time will come though 🙏🏻I’m due on Sunday but am yet to test. Can’t bear seeing the negative tests so trying to wait.

moosey89 · 01/11/2023 09:29

12dpo for me and can feel af coming. Getting all my usual pms signs! This is cycle 3 post MMC. And on Friday, the day af will arrive, we've got my boyfriend's brothers 40th. And his partner is 7 months pregnant, 1 month ahead of where I should have been. I'm so nervous about going, really want to see them and he there but just don't know how I'll react, especially if AF has just started😭

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Bex4567 · 01/11/2023 09:33

Yeah it's hard when I Hd a miscarriage it seems like ll you see is pregnant people or people annoying there pregnancy its hard...hopefully our time will come soon

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moosey89 · 01/11/2023 09:34

@Bex4567 I hope so - since the first time I started TTC it's been 7 years, 2 losses, and a heap of heartache. Surely my time is soon x

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Bex4567 · 01/11/2023 10:37

Have u been to thw doctefs about it and had it looked in to ..tests scans ect

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moosey89 · 01/11/2023 11:23

@Bex4567 yep all in the midst of things currently and had loads of tests, all were normal except progesterone since my second miscarriage. We've got a private fertility appointment this month, and as I had a chemical too I've also got miscarriage clinic at the end of November as well.