In out in out and shake it all about… 7dpo

[Yolo23]

I feel as though I’m doing the bloody hokey jokey the amount I’ve been in and out of this forum over the years 😅😂

Hello!
Ive a long old story but I won’t bore you with it unless you’re interested… I’m 31 TTC our first, and currently 9dpo with a chemical way back in November. I’m just looking for some company and hopefully some positive vibes between the group so someone… anyone gets their BFP! Hopefully me too of course 🤞
We all need a little bit of positivity so let’s do this together ✨

I just had some brown/pink spotting there when I wiped after a wee! Not sure what it is--obv brain is like please be implantation bleeding! Tried to feel my cervix but I haven't a clue what I'm at or looking for. Think it was soft or squishy 🤮😂
Iv also had no symptoms, but to be fair with any of pregnancies I didn't have any!

@Daniki thats positive!! Fingers crossed 🤞 🥰 I keep staring at my toilet roll and there’s nothing 😂😂 fingers crossed there’ll be a positive outcome for you this month x

@Yolo23 hopefully! Aw I'm the same i examine it so much, 🤞🏻🤞🏻 for you! Xx

@Daniki omg let’s hope it’s implantation bleeding ! How many dpo are you now ?

@Yolo23 i know it’s so frustrating I wish I had just shut up now lol . Any news on house ? I’m cycle day 17 so 4dpo but honestly if I can’t fall pregnant having lots of sex I can’t imagine once over ovulation will work 😂

@Tottenhaminmyblood when I got pregnant last July we only had sec like twice before when I think I ovulated so ya never know 😁 my app says 11dpo but I didn't track so I'm unsure! Still negative today and but more spotting last night so god knows what going on 😂 regretting not tracking now 🤪

@Daniki @Tottenhaminmyblood
no news or updates on house unfortunately! Also, not really feeling any symptoms for this cycle today although I have been manic so not sure I’ve had time to sit and question anything 😅

@Tottenhaminmyblood it only needs to catch once! Although yeah I’m very logistical and would think more = more odds but you never know 🤣 maybe if you’d been arguing recently, his testosterone would have produced super sperm 🤔😂

@Daniki Yes! I always find tracking helpful - more so for this stage 🤣

any updates today from either of you? X

@Yolo23 nothing! I had no tests so couldn't test but I ordered an ovulation/pregnancy test bundle which will come tomorrow I think 😂 I tried to feel my cervix but haven't a clue what I'm at. Noticed a bit of brown blood when I done it so I'm just waiting on AF to come, prob come sat or Sunday! Xx

@Daniki ive only got cheapies here but I didn’t have a BFP until 13dpo last time (chemical). I’m holding out until a few days… im due AF on Monday but normally have spotting a day or two before so time will tell! 😅 when’s your expected day of AF?? X

@Yolo23 it's due Sunday, but I just don't think it's my month again 😂 xx

@Daniki were pretty much in sync then! I’ve had twinges this evening off and on but tbh I’m sure I get them pretty much every month and overthink them at this stage convincing myself they’re something so just ignoring right now 😅 pretty pointless symptom spotting xx

@Yolo23 yep! I don't think I'll get to test today either looks like my package still hasn't been shipped--thanks next day delivery 😂 have lower back ache now and cramping so I know it's AF 😩 may as well just save the tests for next month! Xx

@Yolo23 AF defo coming iv the heavy spotting now 🙃

@Daniki im sorry to hear that AF is on her way ! Are you due on today ? Xx

@Yolo23 I am 6dpo and just trying to not even think about it . Ha I wonder if the arguing does increase he’s Testosterone 😂😂 you due af Sunday ? Xx

@Tottenhaminmyblood due tomorrow or Sunday, my apps say differently! I'd say it will come on tonight or tomorrow. Aw hopefully does increase testosterone! 😂🙌 yea best way is to just not think about it I was a lot more relaxed this cycle and mentally it helped me, but got ovulation tests, feck not tracking again for another cycle! We're being referred for further treatment in the new year so next cycle is like a last ditch attempt! Xx

@Daniki aww no! Sorry to hear AF is on its way 😡 honestly I still don’t understand how SO MANY people get pregnant 😂 it’s like trying to win the lottery!

Im having like dull aches in my hips but again I’ve had all these before so just keeping chilled and seeing how things go. I have a few cheapy tests here somewhere but I forgot this morning 🤣 so if I remember tomorrow, I’ll do one just to manage expectations more than anything - before I get too hopeful!

I’ve not had any spotting this month which is rare so not sure if that’s a good thing or bad thing… I’m currently 11dpo.

@Tottenhaminmyblood nice strong testosterone baby to hold on tight in your womb 😂😂😂 fingers crossed lol xx

@Yolo23 I know! Wonder that too 😂 oh that all sounds promising tho so 🤞🏻🤞🏻 for ya! Surely one of us has to get it this month 😂 xx

@Daniki ah it would be so good if one of us did ✨ 🤞 crossing everything!! Will update on test in morning… will try to remember Xx

@Yolo23 please do! 🙌 xx

One of us must fall pregnant or we will be the most unlucky thread on here I think ! It’s strange normally I’m so stressed by now but I just feel a bit numb to it . My best friends daughter just announced her pregnancy and my nephew and then 5 people on Facebook , may stay off social media for awhile . Glad things are still positive for you both xx

@Tottenhaminmyblood the ‘unfollow’ button on Facebook has become my new best friend! It stays friends with people but they don’t show up on your feed 🥰

Sorry you’re feeling so low about it all - I know how you feel 😩 feels never ending!! We definitely need to somehow get some luck on the thread 🍀

I’ve just gone to do a test but I’ve only got a digital here so I’ve decided against it. Also having a few early pains so not sure if AF will be here tomorrow or Monday anyway - going to hold out and maybe order some cheapies/first responses on Amazon xx

I’m out ladies! AF has made an appearance 😒🖕maybe 2024 will bring us all some luck 🍀 ✨ xx

@Yolo23 i am so sorry , are you feeling ok ? Hopefully we will all be holding our babies in 2024 or well on the way to be able to . Have you had a lovely weekend ? Xx

@Yolo23 ah no! Roll on 2024! Xx

@Tottenhaminmyblood ah thank you, I hope so! We’re expecting to start IVF in Feb/Mar so that’s exciting although with houses, weddings and possibly babies… it’s going to be a VERY busy year 🤣 some would call us crazy!

Yeah, I’m ok thanks. Just waiting for the pain to kick in over the next day or so as my endometriosis plays up. I was hopeful this month but I think I’ve just fully accepted we’re going to need extra help. How are you doing?

@Daniki Thank you. Never mind, onto December and 2024 we go 🌲🥰✨