Yes Deige, I know what you mean. Thats why Mum and dad (understandibly) had such a hard time. I think it would be harder if I didn't know him quite well (have known him about 3 years). They actually have loads in common, she is quite mature, he is a big kid. They have the same music tastes, love food, love live music, like to live similar life styles. They do just work, better than a lot of couple I know in fact. I have a quite clear view that I am there to support her decisions, if she asks my opinion I will give it to her, otherwise I will keep them to myself. I am not her mother, I am her sister, my job is always be there for her not tell her I disapprove (which I secretly do)! Right, I am going home now!!!