June TWFN friends 🌸💕

[A95x]

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@dabs9
@gcs34
@LeopardLover
@Bubblesandtroubles
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Oh that is very weird I'm day 4/5 period late 🙈 I feel absolutely normal , x

@LeopardLover had spotting yesterday but no sign of her properly yet! Did an early detection test today but was negative. I do feel cranky/snappy so I'm sure she's not far away!

@A95x are you usually late? Fingers crossed for you!🤞🏼🤍x x

My only sister pulled out of being bridesmaid last night 😩 the only reason she gave was 'it's not for her'. I was so pissed and took her off the guest list for the actual wedding so I can fit in the photo/videographer as we can only have 60🥲 but some people have said it's a bit bitchy but I think she pulled out as her girlfriend doesn't like being around lots of people and don't think they would show up anyway😬oh well, one less dress and getting ready bag I have to buy 🥲x x

@CAGH03 I'm sorry you're feeling so upset! There's so much time until your wedding, a lot can change so maybe she will end up being a bridesmaid after all? Seems a bit of an emotional reaction to pull her from the entire day (which I can understand).

Try not to let it upset you, it'll be a wonderful day!! And maybe just take a breather from your sister for a bit. Keep planning!

@justanothermummma Bittersweet then 💗 hope you're feeling okay!

@A95x When will you test? 💜 I know you don't feel pregnant but you'll probably have to test eventually if no AF shows up 🤣x

She's been ignoring me pretty much since this time last year😬 and then she apologised a few months ago and said she was pissed at me but didn't know why so I thought she's my sister! She can be a bridesmaid and now she's pulled out 😬 still have around 11 months tho so I'm not gonna stress out too much x

@LeopardLover wow 9 weeks, that's flown by! Your cramps sound very stressful but I'm so pleased you are feeling back to normal now and everything is ok.

Thank you for the words of encouragement! Come on body 🤞🏼 trying not to symptom spot but when I was pregnant before I had dizziness on 7DPO, last night I had a dizzy spell too, quite niche but who knows! No leg cramp yet though 😂

Sorry I am a bit out of it at the moment and going through quite a stressful time, unrelated to ttc. @LeopardLover I am so sorry you had such a scary experience with cramps but that everything is ok. It’s terrifying being in EPU and going through that, just the saddest environment.

@LeopardLover has it really been 9 weeks? That's flown by so quick! I'm glad you're feeling better now tho🤍 hope you have a happy and healthy pregnancy ❤️

Yeah my cycles are so messed up 🤦🏼‍♀️ never on the same time , my longest cycle was 39 days I think xx

@A95x crossing all my fingers and toes for you! 🤞🏼 how are you feeling now?🤍x

Ummm maybe next week , I hate testing these days because I'm sick of bfn constantly and knocks me back so much , so I'm fine with just waiting my cycle can be late when it wants to be so I'd say this is sort of normal to me 😂🤦🏼‍♀️xx

AF arrived at midday. 😩 3 days late. Really not usual for me and just long enough to have me starting to get a bit hopeful over the last two days. Took a test this morning and was well into 'expecting a second line' territory so was a bit of a gut punch when it was completely negative but at least meant I could mentally prepare for AF a little bit. Feeling pretty despondent right now. Hey ho. Back to CD1. If I'd not had the MMC I'd only be two months off my due date month 😔 Feeling quite low just now. Need to pick myself up, dust myself off and get back on it. May take a bit of a break from MN but please tag me in new thread as will love to catch up with you all when I'm in a better headspace. ❤️

@SnookyPook I am so sorry, it’s so hard. Especially as you thought maybe this is the one. Please take care of yourself and a break is a good idea - I certainly don’t look nearly as much as I used to. While it’s absolutely lovely to see bfp’s and I am so happy for everyone, it’s also hard (especially after a loss). I realized you can be happy for others and also sad at the same time, but that doesn’t make it any easier. ❤️❤️

@SnookyPook oh I'm so sorry, that is really cruel. AF arrives like clockwork for me then in May it was 2 days late and I felt exactly the same as you. We are strong though and in not too long a time you will be able to try again. Treat yourself to something nice this evening, snuggle up at home and feel upset if you want to. I find once AF has passed my mindset is much more positive.

@Annapolis35 I think I need to not look as much as I do. I've also set a time limit on Instagram as I'm so sad at seeing pregnancy announcements (which seem to have been loads in the last few weeks!!) but my friends always send funny reels on there so I spend 10 minutes laughing and then my timer is up 😂

@SnookyPook I'm so sorry. It's awful when your hopes are raised. I'm the master of wishful thinking- and it just hits that bit harder doesn't it.

I'm 1dpo now- relieved all the DTD is over and done with for now and thankfully off on holiday at the weekend so can just switch off from TTC.

Im fairly sure this will be my last month of trying if it doesn't work for us this time. I'm already so lucky to have my little girl and just don't think I want to go through this every month anymore.
A bit of relaxing sun and sea as well as a distraction will hopefully help me make a little bean and then make that little bean stick 🤞🏻🤞🏻
What will be will be... Xx

@Annapolis35 thank you so much ❤️ I haven't temped this time so just sure where we are. But I am feeling so much more relaxed and for now that's enough for me. I hope you're well xx

@SnookyPook thank you so much, I hope you're going okay ❤️

@dabs9 I was the same with mood all over the place and don't think that helped with dtd. Thankfully today I'm feeling less stressed. I might be 5DPO today give or take but not certain. Hoping for the best ❤️

@GCS34 I must admit that hearing nothing was wrong at the fertility clinic but also like a punch in the gut. I suppose becoming healthier is always a good start ❤️

@LeopardLover how are you doing ? I hope it's all going well. I am feeling much better now and so grateful for each one of you ❤️

Hope you're doing okay🫶🏼 take as much time as you need and look after yourself ❤️

So I am pretty sure I am now back in the 2WFW. Possibly 1dpo as think I felt O yesterday. I am gonna channel my inner zen and look like Buddha the next couple of weeks (I doubt i will very much!).

How is everyone doing? @dabs9 you ok? @GCS34 hope the IVF is going as well as can be. @LeopardLover hoping things have settled down for you and all is going well. @Favofit glad you are feeling less stressed. @SnookyPook sending much love your way. And anyone else I have forgotten

Thank you so much 😊 I have spend a lovely busy weekend with the family and that's really helped. Although another pregnancy announcement by a good friend of mine nearly ruined me yesterday. Hopefully this is our month ❤️

Thanks for the tag @Annapolis35 and welcome to the TWW 🥰 I hope the next two weeks fly by for you and you remain zen. I had some more blood and pain last week so booked in for a scan today! Okay in general, just being sick loads. 🙈🤮

@SnookyPook I hope you're doing as okay as possible. Take all the space you need. 💕

How are you getting on @Bubblesandtroubles @A95x @dabs9 @Vic231?

@Favofit Glad you had a lovely family filled weekend! ❤️ Sorry about the announcement though, it's so hard 😫

@GCS34 Fingers crossed things have been going well and you're feeling rested. 🌟

@LeopardLover thank you, I found that particular announcement very difficult and triggering.
I hope all goes well with your scan today ❤️

@Favofit I remember crying when my SIL announced and we hadn't even started trying then so I can only imagine 😔 be kind to yourself this week xx

I am so sorry you’ve had more blood and pain and hoping it’s innocuous and all is going smoothly @LeopardLover keep us updated.

@Favofit the announcements are hard. I end up crying a lot every time there is one. Go easy on yourself