June TWFN friends 🌸💕

[A95x]

Hello ladies carry on thread
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@CAGH03 are you still not definitely out? Cramps could be a sign either way! 🤞🤞
@A95x great news that you're late! How long are you going to leave it before testing? 🤞🤞
@Sealover123 sorry about your crappy news. I hope you're working on finishing that bottle of wine!
@emmatcc1 I think im roughly due to ovulate on Sunday. Think we are just going to start DTD tomorrow but I am soo manic at work that im not sure how many times we will fit in really. I'm not feeling optimistic this month before we've even started 🙄 xx

@Bubblesandtroubles Hiya umm I'm just going to wait a few more days then I'll test x

@A95x Fingers crossed AF keeps her distance! We really are due some good luck on this thread!!! Xx

@Sealover123 sending love! I'm so sorry 🤍 have a second glass of wine!

@CAGH03 hot water bottle is all that helps!

@A95x ooooh! Well done for resisting!

AF still havnt shown 🤷🏼‍♀️x

@Bubblesandtroubles definitely think it's af but it's more like a pink than a red and still very light but enough to need to use a pad? It's so weird like an extremely light period? Test looks negative, managed to convince myself I could see something there tho🥲🥲x

@CAGH03 my phone is rubbish and I always have line eyes 🤦🏼‍♀️😂 I get heavy or light periods and that's just me , when I seen the doctor she told me I was normal 😂 I know I'm far from normal my heaviest periods are awful , how are the pains now xx

@A95x mine are usually just a normal ish amount and lasts about 3-4 days and cramping the entire time! It's so light and never had that before🥲 the cramps have completely gone but yesterday they were so bad I cried like four times🤣 I definitely think the test is negative but my mind is telling me I can see a shadow but I know if I was pregnant, the line would be very obvious now 🥲x

Hi ladies, unfortunately I will be back with you all as I've just left the EPU having had a confirmed miscarriage. I feel weirdly ok as it was so early, got my BFP on Father's Day (of all days!) when period was 3 days late, bleeding started 6 days later and then stopped on Saturday. So essentially a late period, if I hadn't of tested I wouldn't have known.

As a side note, do you know how to remove yourself from a thread? I can't work out how to get off all the feb due date threads 😞

Love to you all x

@Vic231 oh I'm so sorry to hear this lovely, that's so tough 😞 Yes, when I had my loss I couldn't bear all the updates form the due date threads. Up at the top, where there is the person icon that you can click to see notifications, one of the options is 'my lists'. If you click on that and then 'threads I'm on' it shows a list of all the threads you are on. For each one, at the top by where the name of the thread is, there are 3 dots. If you tap that, there should be an option to 'unwatch' / 'remove' / 'delete' from your list. Hopefully that will do it.

Sending you a massive hug and if you need to talk, please reach out. Xx

Is the time for fertility testing 12 months or 12 cycles. I’ve been trying for 9 months but this is cycle 12 .

I was told a year of Ttc so for me it will be a year at the end of this month which is also cycle 12 for me x

I'm so sorry 😞❤️ I really hope your ok ❤️give yourself time and don't be hard on yourself , I can't imagine how you feel xxx

@Vic231 I'm so sorry 💔 any loss is still a loss and it definitely still counts but I'm glad you're doing okay. What are your next steps?

Great tip by @SnookyPook .hope it helps x

@A95x How long are you going to wait? I feel like you need a deadline or you could be a couple of months pregnant 😅

Thank you everyone ♥️ I'm absolutely exhausted, I've slept a lot on the sofa this afternoon. I think it's a come down from the stress and also a change in hormones.

@SnookyPook that worked! Thank you so much. I love chatting on here but it's no so great when things don't go to plan, so fresh start not being able to see those threads at least.

@LeopardLover i want to try again straight away, just trying to stay upbeat, calm and chilled about it. I did have a little cry earlier as this is my second loss and no living children.

Still not going to use OPKs, although my flo app is not going to be all that helpful for a little while I don't think as it's now going on about irregular periods 🤦🏻‍♀️ as I had to change it back to TTC instead of pregnant 💔

@Vic231 I'm so sorry for your loss, it's so difficult isn't it 😢

Wishing everyone the best and positive results in future; you all really deserve it ❤️

I drank loads of wine yesterday and had to deal with a terrible hangover at work today 😫 my bad

@Vic231 so sorry to hear your also going through a loss. I’m also so tired at the moment, I think your hormones keep telling your body that you are pregnant for a while afterwards. Hopefully because you were so early you get start trying again as soon as you are ready to. Pretty shit silver lining. I still haven’t actually miscarried yet, although I’m spotting today so hopefully things will move along soon.

😂😂😂 I like the thought of that , ummmm 4 more day xx

@A95x @LeopardLover I think this would be the dream 😂

Oh I'm so sorry to hear this is happening to you too, I hope it is over quickly for you. It is so so rubbish 💔

@Vic231 glad the tip worked. It's so painful to see those threads when you're going through a loss. 💕

@LeopardLover @A95x I also think it would be pretty great to only find out when trimester 1 was almost done!

@SnookyPook So sorry to hear of your loss as well, I hope you are doing ok ♥️

@Vic231 thank you 💕 for the most part doing ok but it still hits hard some days. Guess it's just something that will always be there now. But it's certainly less raw and painful day to day. ❤️