June TWFN friends 🌸💕

[A95x]

Hello ladies carry on thread
@dabs9
@gcs34
@LeopardLover
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I'm so sorry to hear this😔 how are you coping? 🤍x

@HoneyBlossoms112 I am so sorry to read this. It is really shit and a horrible thing to go through. I went through the same last year and it’s very hard. Sending love xx

@LeopardLover yes! I’m hoping it passes naturally, feels like it would be less horrible than medication or surgery, but we shall see! I’m having a bit of a sulk day today haha. Got myself some nice food and going to snuggle up with my dog in a duvet 😂 and go for a long walk.

@CAGH03 thank you, I’m coping okay. It’s odd to be grieving for something that was never really there. I’m all good until I think about it too much. I burst into tears this morning when I thought about taking my pregnancy vitamins, so still a bit raw I think. On the flip side, I had a very large glass of wine last night which helped!

@Annapolis35 thank you for your kind words, and sorry for your loss also. Hopefully the next one will be ‘the one’ for both of us x

I'm back sorry ladies I've been catching up on the washing and house 🤦🏼‍♀️😂 but all that is sorted , so the holiday was absolutely amazing 🥰❤️ plus baby dancing on holiday is just a different level 😂 so there was lots of cocktails and fun 😂

@CAGH03 have you caved in and tested just yet ?

I'm so sorry lovely 😞❤️ I hope your ok xxx

I'm still at my MIL until this evening 😩 I wanted to test so bad but there's no one home, I don't drive, and the closest shop is like 5 miles away 🥲 I keep getting really light cramps like my periods going to show up but no sign yet, due today x

Yes it was so nice to get away 🥰 yes lots of holiday baby dancing 😂 new Sandals were so comfy 🙌 we done so much walking to , oh no is everything ok ? Or just having a little break xxx

@HoneyBlossoms112 This sounds like a good plan! Lots of nice food and relaxing. A long walk sounds ideal. And more wine 🍷 hopefully it'll happen naturally so you don't have to consider other options x

@CAGH03 Are you in the beautiful Welsh countryside somewhere? I also have light cramping but doesn't feel like last time I was pregnant. I'm 12DPO, period due on Monday
but don't have any symptoms like you. Do you think you'll keep TTC until the wedding? Or will you take a break?

@A95x Your holiday sounds lush 😍 glad you had so much fun! I'm still playing catch up on my washing after Glasto 😅 the weather has changed here too so no drying clothes outside!

@LeopardLover no I live in Wiltshire 🫣 but unless you're in a town or city, you probably won't find a shop too close by🤣 I usually only cramp when I'm already on my period and only had them for about thirty seconds this morning, nothing since, and my temp is still at 36.7 tho it usually drops two days before I'm due so very confused to say the least🤣
I'll still stay off of BC and use opks just to find my peak and things but I won't be testing or overthinking it as much due to paying for the wedding! But it's in a years time and this is cycle 11, and apparently most couple get pregnant within 12 months so I have a feeling by the wedding, I'll have a bump! Really hoping so!🥰🤍x

Maybe it's a good thing that your there with no tests 😂 I always test far to early ,Oooo I'm due on either today or tomorrow x

@LeopardLover it really was the best week , I was so depressed coming home 😂 how was glasto did you enjoy ?
Washing is a nightmare I absolutely hate it xx

Glad you had a lovely time @A95x its always a shock coming back!

@GCS34 are you ok lovely? Sending love.

My AF has arrived with a vengeance, it’s so painful. Gonna take the opportunity to lie on the sofa today and do nothing x

@CAGH03 How did I get that wrong 🤣 must've mixed up you and Amy!? All of these are very positive signs but it's easy to get your hopes up. Hopefully you'll have an answer too! If you keep going it's highly likely you'll have a baby or a bump! Bumps in dresses look sooo cute.

@A95x Are you waiting to test? Oooh bless you, I understand. I had post Glasto blues too, only helped by seeing my cheeky toddler - I missed him so much. It was fun but very hot (with no shade). SAME.

@A95x I always test too early too🤣 I tested on 11dpo and was bfn and today is 13dpo so if I don't get my period by this evening I'll test later as I have work tonight and don't finish until 6am🥲x

@LeopardLover I'm trying not to get my hopes up too much as I would be so happy to have a bump for the wedding! We will still keep trying just not as full on so when it happens it happens!🤞🏼x

I'm been so chilled this month so not going bother testing , I've enjoyed having a month off tbh , but next month will have my tests and charts at the ready , awwww I bet he was so happy to see you 💙xx

@Annapolis35 Oh sorry it's a painful one 😔 I feel like that always makes things worse! Good idea to chill.

@GCS34 Totally understand why you're taking time out but you are missed! We're ready for your return once you are ready for it.

We miss you too @dabs9 ❤️

@CAGH03 I get this. At least you have wedding prep to keep you occupied.

@A95x A month off was just what the doctor ordered!! 💜

Oh bless you. Thanks for thinking of me.
I just felt/feel I need a bit of a breather from TTC stuff as was getting really worked up and obsessive & sad.
Hope everyone is ok and sorry to those who AF has visited.

@HoneyBlossoms112 I'm so sorry to read about your miscarriage. I really hope you're ok 💕

I'm 3dpo today (fairly sure I have actually ovulated this month 🤞🏽but have ordered a postal progesterone test for reassurance) and just trying to act as normal and have no expectations this time 🙂 x

@HoneyBlossoms112 so sorry for your loss. It's horrible. I'm still having moments where mine is hitting me all over again (MMC in April). I hope you get some clarity at the scan if things don't happen naturally before then and that you're able to start moving forwards. It's painful but you will get through it, as sadly many women have had to before. Here if you need to chat any more or talk through options etc. Lots of love x

@HoneyBlossoms112 so sorry to hear your news, sending love 🤍

@dabs9 sorry to hear this and hope you’re ok. Honestly I’m feeling the same, I just feel so deflated and don’t know how long I can continue this. It’s hard for sure

Thanks for this @dabs9 @justanothermummma @SnookyPook it helps a lot to come on here and vent a bit, good to get it all out as you know. I’ll keep you posted and join back in with tracking etc when my body is ready!

It really is a mental endurance test TTC. I just try to stay positive, I do believe it will happen for us all eventually. ❤️we just have to go through a lot of shit to get there!

It's so hard. When is your next Dr appointment/next steps?
Having a little break has been helpful for me mentally tbh and I think I'll continue it mostly. I've still been ttc but just not constantly on forums, stopped doing my bbt and didn't start opk strips until much later in the cycle & did less of them. It did help but it doesn't make the lack of pregnancy any easier to cope with unfortunately 😔 Xx

I’ve got no real next steps, just waiting for referral to go through and I imagine that’ll take ages. I am taking that in my stride. I am going to do the same as you and just mentally take a break from it as much as possible and log out of the forum for a bit too. Thank you, I wish you luck in the 2ww and sending my love xx

@dabs9 @Annapolis35 I think logging out of the forum is a good idea ❤️ I also used to stress over BBT so I'm not bothering this time. Wishing you both lots of luck in this TWW/cycle (I know you're at different stages). I hope you both get that BFP on the meat future 🙏🏻 we'll be here if you feel ready to return! You've both been so lovely to talk to. 🥰 X