We can't, don't you lot bloody start!!!
We have to be sensible about this, because it isn't just us, it is the two boys as well. If we have another child so close to Xmas, every year will be crap through lack of money to go around, it is bad enough now without adding another. Really even February would be difficult, but much more doable. And then it is DS1's birthday in March, so that is out of the question, so we're looking at April and beyond to be properly comfortable.
And on top of that, we have to give ourselves the best chance of being out of here before baby is born, and realistic with the way the house's aren't selling quickly/easily, we could still be sat here in 2 years time with a for sale board up.
I can join in with the symptom spotting, I do that every month with out fail, even when I know there is no chance in the world!!